12/07/2022
It's always both, for all of us. ๐
I remember having a conversation with a parent about an incident where her daughter made a really bad choice. Any teacher will tell you it happens pretty often and most parents work through it with you in partnership.
However, this time, In front of the child, the mother said, โI simply donโt believe it. I will never believe it and how dare you lie about my child.โ
At first I was stunned. I wasnโt lying. The child knew it, I knew it and deep down the mother must have known it. Later, I felt sorry for both mother and daughter. Did they go home and continue the charade?
Fancy growing up believing that you could never make a mistake. Yes, handy every now again, but awful in the long run. How do you learn to own poor choices and work towards repair if you canโt even vocalise them?
Every child needs to know that they are loved no matter whether they make a mistake or not. Good kids make bad choices. We can talk about that without their awesomeness coming into question.
Image via Playdates on Fridays by Whitney Fleming
08/07/2022
๐ฅ๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ฏ Bookings are coming in HOT!๐ฅ
Our Term Programs offer the consistency of an ongoing approach. Regular weekly sessions reinforce key messages and skills that enhance emotional awareness, self-regulation and interpersonal skills.
As well as helping your daughter build a closer bond with herself and the people she loves, these preventative and proactive strategies provide her with a toolkit she can return to during these important developmental years.
New themes, topics and activities are explored each term and can be enjoyed as a one-off experience or as a continual program enjoyed over ongoing terms.
๐ LITTLE ONES (5-7 yrs) Sat 8:30-9:30am | Sat 10.00-11:00am
๐ JUNIORS (8-9 yrs) Tues 3:30-4:30pm | Weds 3:30-4:30pm
๐ TWEENS (10-12 yrs) Tues 5:00-6:30pm
๐ TEENS (13-15 years) Weds 5:00-6:30pm
Spots are limited and filling fast! Visit our website to register https://wearehighlighters.com.au/.
08/07/2022
There is a lot of power in modelling these skills and ways of being in the world, simply by living our lives mindful of the fact that these little eyes are watching us. ๐
06/07/2022
Our ๐๐ถ๐๐๐น๐ฒ ๐ข๐ป๐ฒ๐ (๐ฑ-๐ณ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐) ๐๐ผ๐น๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ ๐ช๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ๐๐ต๐ผ๐ฝ was a day of pure delight!
As well as making new friends, developing strategies to manage worry, learning how to โfill their own cupsโ, and practising their favourite yoga poses, the girls loved creating their own glitter jars!
Strengthening our children's social-emotional skills helps them learn how to manage emotions, develop healthy relationships and build confidence. Our workshop was a beautiful opportunity to support our girls as they continue to build a solid foundation from an early age.
We are now looking forward to our Little Ones ๐ง๐ฒ๐ฟ๐บ ๐ฏ ๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ด๐ฟ๐ฎ๐บ! We have two classes running on Saturdays, with limited spots available. Visit our website to secure a spot for your daughter https://wearehighlighters.com.au/.
03/07/2022
We love creating a safe space, collectively defined by our girls as a space they can bring their ๐ก๐๐ข๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ .
30/06/2022
We wrapped up our ๐ง๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ง๐ฒ๐ฟ๐บ ๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ด๐ฟ๐ฎ๐บ with slippers, dressing gowns and pyjamas! Slumber Party for the win! ๐
The Tween years are a beautiful time of increased independence and skyrocketing social awareness. Between the bounds of energy, uncontrollable giggles and undeniable talents for digressing, the girls love being able to just ๐๐ ๐กโ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ .
Whatโs so incredibly special is the sharing of the journey, and the compassion and encouragement they offer each other, as they each try and find their place in the process of growing up.
There are limited spots available in our Tweens Term 3 Program. DM Maggie or visit our website to register https://wearehighlighters.com.au/.
29/06/2022
I think she captured my likeness. ๐ฅฐ
29/06/2022
Itโs not uncommon for children to fall apart after a play date, birthday party or fun day out.
They only have a few tools available to understand how they feel and express those feelings. Try going through your checklist: Are they tired? Hungry? Overstimulated? All of the above?
Offering a snack, letting them nap on the way home, or giving them some downtime can help them reset.
28/06/2022
Sharing our Little Ones ๐๐ป๐ฑ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ง๐ฒ๐ฟ๐บ ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป with our families made for an incredibly special morning! ๐ฅฐ
The girls loved introducing their families to our collection of ๐ถ๐๐๐ ๐ท๐๐ค๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ . These are great for helping children learn to self-soothe and cope as they grow and develop. These items range from sensory bottles, squish balls and scented playdoh to yoga dice, bubbles and breathing cards. Think of them as tools that work with the senses to calm the mind and body.
It's been an amazing term and these jellybeans were eager, energetic, enthusiastic and completely enchanting! Our TERM 3 classes are starting to fill quickly! There are TWO Little Ones classes on Saturdays: 8.30am - 9.30am or 10.00am - 11.00am. Register here: https://wearehighlighters.com.au/
20/06/2022
Learning to let go so our children can succeed isn't always easy, BUT there is great value in letting our children mess up household tasks.
Say it with me: Resist the 'swoop'. Embrace the lumpy bed and misfolded towels.๐คช
Let's make room for children to problem-solve under their own power and develop a sense of purpose and pride because they contribute to the family in a real and valuable way.
Let Your Kids Screw Up Household Chores. Theyโll Learn More from the Mess.
Excerpted from The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed by Jessica Lahey. Out now from HarperCollins...
20/06/2022
๐๐จ๐๐ฌ ๐๐ข๐๐๐๐๐ฌ ๐ช๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ฆ๐๐ข๐ฃ๐ฆ! Two weeks before we kick off our all-day workshops and spots are filling quickly!
Our workshops encourage and empower girls to develop a toolkit of preventative and proactive strategies, that will help them navigate change and challenges during these important developmental years.
It's a beautiful day of movement, games, creative tasks, group discussions and mindful activities. We'll be unpacking the topics: ๐น๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐๐ ๐น๐๐๐๐๐๐ โ๐๐๐ , ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐โ๐๐๐ข๐โ ๐๐๐๐๐ฆ, ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐-๐ถ๐๐๐: ๐น๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ข๐ ๐ถ๐ข๐.
โจ Monday 4th July / Tuesday 5th July /Thursday 7th July
โจ 10.00am - 3.00pm
โจ Held at Moreton Bay College
For more information or to register, visit our website https://wearehighlighters.com.au/.