Coach Shaine

5th Mother Wound

This is the mother whose past and experiences becomes yours. It’s the “what we do”, “our family do not …” linea that binds you to a way of existing with no autonomy. You live in the limitations of the lineage and negative legacy,so much that it affects how you show up in the world.

This is a wound that truly limits growth and success.

MOTHER WOUND SERIES:
Archetype 4– Mommy Dearest.

If you’ve grown up with a mother who controlled every aspect of you, this often leads to a powerless self. It undermines your ability to build self-trust and not have to seek permission for normal independent tasks or decisions.

Also, this type of mother wound often deeply interferes with friendships and relationships as your will often seek to be controlled or maintain healthy relationships that require you to have self-thought and autonomy..
Heal her ❤️

Harness the energy to manifest what’s needed.
You are the architect of you.
Create the blueprints and let the Universe rise to your needs. 🤎

MOTHER WOUND SERIES:
Archetype 3:

How many times have you heard how “cold” you are emotionally and need to be hugged? How even earning money is contingent on not being a victim and wanting to work for every penny with zero handouts. Struggle to receive gifts because of them being emotionally transactional.
You also seek and date emotionally unavailable partners. This creates a relationship of a being transactional more than emotional.

If this is you, you need to heal this mother wound because you are living you are denying yourself the freedom of loving yourself. You deserve to receive and give love. 🤎

You are a TEAM. You are not alone. Learn how to tap into your ancestor and spiritual team to seek answers, clarity, direction, and support.

You are more than just you. You are existing with a spiritual team here to support you and your life plan. If you want to see how powerful you are, LEARN the power of what supports you 😇

To reach for the moon you must surround yourself with those determined enough to make it possible.—not those with more NOs than YES’s.

This mother creates an emotionally unstable child. This is the mother who would not believe her child was abused or that her child did not no wrong. Instead, she shamed this child into accepting blame, displacing labels of mistrust and low value, forcing a child to be apologetic for everything.
This is the adult who constantly says “sorry”.
The adult who feels they are an inconvenience and rarely ask for anything or shy away from for any responsibility.
This woman accepts the bare minimum and will never believe she deserves more.
Also note- she will stay in positions and jobs that are beneath her or uses her for time, stemming from the belief she should be grateful for “just” having.
Over loyal.

There are 5 Mother Wound Archetypes.
Here is number one-

THE SELF-SACRIFICING MOTHER

Go deep and see how this resonates and how this archetype of mother have negatively impacted your self-worth for value of self and value of work skill/ethics.

Mother wounds are a never ending emotional pit that keeps you in a position of abandoning self.
This can be healed.
It may take some dedication but love of self will always keep you trying 🤎

This month we are working on the Mother Wound.

Truth is, we have always focused on the daddy wound for women, in relation to women’s needs in a love-relationship.

But it’s always understated how emotional unavailable mothers can have a profound affect on how women show up in all aspects of life— such as finances, self-esteem, self-worth, and even maternal choices and instincts.
How the twisted interpretation of love can often be corrosive to self-framing one’s identity and one’s habits often construed as genetics or mimicking patterns.
Which then leads to conscious efforts that are self-sabotaging in pursuit of a false self.

Let’s take this journey together.

Know your worth 👏🏽