11/06/2026
“Are you going away this summer?”
I’ve been asked that question a few times this week.
The answer is yes. I don’t even have my flights booked yet, but I already feel relieved knowing that I will be taking some time off.
That wasn’t always the case.
During my PhD, I found it incredibly difficult to switch off. Even when I wasn’t working, I felt I should be. I would take books with me on holiday, convinced I would finally catch up on reading.
Most of the time, I didn’t.
And instead of enjoying the break, I felt guilty.
What I’ve learned over the years is that holidays are not a reward for being productive. They are part of what helps us stay productive.
Rest is not wasted time.
Sometimes, before a break, it can help to make a small list of light tasks you could do if you genuinely feel like it:
✔ Read an interesting article
✔ Listen to a podcast
✔ Capture ideas in a notebook
✔ Reflect on what you’ve achieved so far
But here’s the important part:
If you don’t do any of those things, that’s OK too.
You don’t have to earn your rest.
Taking time to reset, recharge, and simply enjoy life is not time away from your PhD journey. It’s part of it.
What’s your relationship with holidays? Do you find it easy to switch off, or do you still feel guilty when you’re not working?