Rovena Magidin, Relationship Counsellor

07/08/2026

That's a pretty good list of questions to be able to ask your partner. Imagine if we could talk like this? For most people, it would never even occur to ask. What if these were ok questions to discuss, and share, and to dream big and build fantastic relationships, where everyone feels safe, secure, loved, heard and met in a way they need to be met.

I think for most people, we don't even think we can ask these questions.

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07/03/2026

Today I wrote about the strengths of ADHD. I'm working with so many couples where ADHD makes it really hard for both partners. But I also know first hand, that you can absolutely thrive, adhd or not. And I love sharing it with people.

We talk a lot about ADHD as a set of struggles to manage. But if you're an adult with ADHD — or you love someone who is — there's a whole side of this brain wiring that rarely gets airtime: the gifts. Here's what I've seen in the therapy room.

06/25/2026

I didn't think I'll be doing any more trainings this year :) but..... I always wanted to dive deeper into Terry Real's work. I read his books, and used many of his tools, and finally decided to start his training in July. I'm excited.

Begin your Relational Life Therapy journey with Level 1 Training. Learn foundational RLT skills for transforming your couples therapy practice.

05/12/2026

Listening to Gabor Mate speak about ADHD. Fascinating conversation about brain development, our culture and relationships.

05/11/2026

I haven't attended this particular summit, but many presentations sound very interesting. I have signed up and wanted to share. I work with so many people with ADHD - it has such a huge impact on relationships.

Dr. Roberto Olivardia is a clinical psychologist and lecturer at Harvard Medical School. He specializes in ADHD, body image, and related mental health challenges. His work combines research, clinical expertise, and compassion to support individuals and families.

04/09/2026

Most people say “thanks” and stop there. Want your partner to actually feel appreciated? Discover a simple way to show appreciation that lands. Read the short guide and try it tonight: https://wix.to/6F0SrgN

Most people say “thanks” and stop there. Here’s how to appreciate your partner so they actually feel it.

02/28/2026

New on the blog: When You Want More S*x Than Your Partner (or Less): Understanding Desire Discrepancy. Part 1 of 2.

Desire discrepancy isn't a problem or a relationship failure - it's a pattern a pattern. This post breaks down why desire discrepancy happens and the emotional cycle that keeps partners stuck, plus practical ways to start shifting it.

Read the full piece: https://wix.to/XBtGbhl

Desire differences aren’t a character flaw or a relationship failure. They’re a pattern. When one partner reaches and the other retreats, both end up hurting. This post explains why desire discrepancy happens and how to understand the emotional cycle underneath it.