Markus van Driel

For any single gay men who hates the question: why are you still single?

Starting over is messy. 🏳️‍🌈  

Even with 15 years of coaching experience, navigating a job loss and an international move has been a wild ride. I’m practising what I preach: taking it one step, pursuing my vision (and one cup) at a time.  

I’m currently exploring Amsterdam and Eindhoven, as my future base.

Moving countries means building new networks. Part of that is finding new rituals and new coffee places to feel at home.

Where is your go-to spot for the best coffee in town?

Drop the names below! 👇

Beautiful, don’t you agree?









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Beautiful don’t you agree?

Yes, I know… I’ve had those moments too. I don’t even try to figure it out anymore. Here is what I think: People have their own reasons. You should try to stay in contact, and after a few times, if they don’t take the initiative, it is their loss. Sad thing about dating is that if you want dating to feel better, you have to learn to let go. It changes everything.

DM “boyfriend” and start 2026 differently.








































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If you’re a gay man, over 40 and still single, enjoy yourself. But if you want something else…it is time for a change.