21/08/2022
WHERE WERE THE CONVERSATIONS ABOUT PLEASURE?
-BEGINNING SEPTEMBER 28th-
Years and years of hiding this away, something rarely spoken about yet something the large majority of us do..
I had the honour of sitting with a group of men yesterday willing to drop deeply into a conversation around s*x and s*xuality. It was inspiring, the eagerness to share and be heard around challenges, realisations and curiosities was stunning!
Something that came to me was my own recurring feeling around being alone in this subject..
“Why didn’t anyone talk to me about this??”
“I had to learn everything I know from porn!”
Sentences that continue to sit with me..
Ma********on, s*x, pleasure have always felt like taboo subjects, something that brought about red faces (not in the fun way) followed by uncomfortable coughs and redirections
What we have learnt from running this course a number of times now is that there is so much to be said..SO MUCH..more than there is time for! This is just the beginning..
So my question is..
Who wants to be part of an experiential workshop creating a space where it is free to share whatever comes up around pleasure?
No judgement
No holding back
Deep curiosity and learning
You will be introduced to a life-changing daily practice of self pleasure, an invitation to explore and find new ways of enjoying your body. These practices can support in breaking decades-old patterns that sap your vitality.
In doing so becoming a safer, more present, and loving man, to yourself and those around you.
If so, comment “IN” below or click the link below
Shameless Self Pleasure | Modern Man
Shameless Self Pleasure is a live experiential workshop. Be introduced to a powerful practice that will be the turning point in your relationship with yourself and your personal sensuality. It is by challenging ourselves we grow, these practices will be the seed for development.
18/05/2022
MEN, ARE YOU READY TO TRY SOMETHING NEW?
-STARTING JUNE 1ST-
Over the past week I have had the blessing of sitting in conversations with men around self pleasure.
It is incredible that these men are not only interested but willing to have these conversations around a subject that generally doesn’t get discussed between men.
The biggest thing I notice is the excitement and energy that comes from them as this typically shamed topic is ‘allowed’ within conversation, it becomes so real.
These chats have been born from my own excitement around the next round of ‘SSP’, previously s3xual self pleasure, which has now been on its own journey of discovery and emerged as…
Shameless Self Pleasure
Every time Brett, Steve and myself sat with this work we noticed that it dropped another level deeper. Not only because of what the men willing to partake brought, this thing has its own spirit, something bigger than ourselves.
Shameless Self Pleasure is a live experiential workshop. An opportunity to be introduced to a powerful practice that will be the turning point in your relationship with yourself and your personal sensuality.
You will be introduced to a life-changing daily practice of self pleasure, an invitation to explore and find new ways of enjoying your body. These practices can support in breaking decades-old patterns that sap your vitality.
In doing so becoming a safer, more present, and loving man, to yourself and those around you.
Are you ready to try something new?
If so, click the link below
https://modernman1.wixsite.com/modernman/shameless-self-pleasure-copy
MM
28/10/2021
When You Truly Pay Attention To The Sensations Of Touch, It’s Hard To Know Where You End And The Other Begins.
- Debra Joy
Drop all distractions, become present with what is alive in your body right now..
It is only by opening up and becoming present with ourselves that we can learn to love from our authenticity
The 100% realness of our being
This quote says so much
And so do these..
“My guilt and shame around mastur bation cleared up, I opened into my body, I experimented with new things. Self love began to shine through.”
"The course gave me a greater depth of connection to myself, particularly on a physical level. I have much more appreciation of the beauty of my body now, in particular my c**k.”
“I wouldn't have been aware of my life and my s3xuality without the conversations I had with these men. This course provided me with more light of awareness in the shadow of old ignorant habits."
Sharing from the men that chose to be part of the S3xual $elf Pleasure course
Starting Next Wednesday
November 3rd
Click the link for details
Sexual Self Pleasure | Modern Man
Sexual Self Pleasure is a live experiential workshop. Be introduced to a powerful practice that will be the turning point in your relationship with yourself and your personal sensuality. It is by challenging ourselves we grow, these practices will be the seed for development.
26/10/2021
ANOTHER ROUND OF PLEASURE
I’m opening space again for the SSP Course
Does this subject interest you?
Course starts next Wednesday 3rd November
A place for men to gather and sit in deep curiosity
Would you like to learn more?
All details in the link below
modernman1.wixsite.com/modernman/about-me
MM
Sexual Self Pleasure | Modern Man
Sexual Self Pleasure is a live experiential workshop. Be introduced to a powerful practice that will be the turning point in your relationship with yourself and your personal sensuality. It is by challenging ourselves we grow, these practices will be the seed for development.
12/10/2021
I Have Been Through Some Terrible Things In My Life, Some Of Which Actually Happened.
- Mark Twain
This quote always makes me smile
It highlights how much time I can spend overthinking life, projecting myself into an unknown future
This is usually fuelled by fear
The amazing thing about our minds is that they can trick our bodies into believing these situations are actually happening, causing our bodies to react, pump out adrenaline which usually sends us into a trauma response
We can then find ourselves living an experience that may not even take place
It’s been my practice to be with the part of myself that’s scared, normally a younger version and just say with deep deep love
“Hey there buddy…it’s all good…I got you.”
Metaphorically bringing him in, supporting him, soothing him and creating some space for him to come back to a calmer state
At home with me
Sound familiar?
Where could your little one do with some comfort?
MM
11/10/2021
MEN, ARE YOU READY?
There are things that we desire that we don’t even know about
Shame can force us to disconnect from these parts of ourselves, separating us from our authentic self
How would it be to claim these parts again?
I’m opening up space for another Men’s Self Pleasure course.
In this course, we will be having real conversations about a subject that rarely gets touched on between men (if ever).
You will be introduced to a life-changing daily practice of self-pleasure, an invitation to explore and discover your answers to these questions.
These practices can support in breaking unhealthy patterns that sap your vitality. In doing so becoming a safer, more present, and loving man, to yourself and those around you.
Do you ever feel like there’s more to be experienced?
This course is designed to support you get a deeper understanding of who you are, re-connect to your body and be part of co-creating an environment to express, share, be heard, ask questions and connect.
Course begins:
Wednesday 3rd November
Click the link below for all details
https://modernman1.wixsite.com/modernman/about-me
Any questions, send me a message
MM
09/10/2021
Wherever You Go, There You Are.
- Jon Kabat-Zinn
Two life lessons come up for me when I see this quote..
Firstly, I’m reminded of my expectations of leaving all my problems in the UK when I left 6 years ago, only to find myself in similar situations months later. I was so certain it was the place I lived that was the problem
Yeah…..na
It was me
The lesson:
I can’t run away from my problems, as I am the main instigator, I create them. Do my work, heal my wounds, own my life.
Secondly, Everything I see in this world is a reflection of me. Everything.
The judgements I hold on people, things, places are all a reflection of my inner world. If I can create a harmonious, and by this I mean balanced, inner world for myself, life will flow, smoothly for me.
I will see the opportunities rather than the problems.
The lesson:
Come into a deep loving relationship with myself, because I will forever be by my side.
What does it bring up for you?
MM
08/10/2021
This weeks podcast guest James Skinner- My life is a much more rich, beautiful and amazing place for having James in it. He is such a wonderful man and his level of authenticity, integrity and love shine through everything he does. We have spent many hours having chats like this one and I ALWAYS enjoy the hell out of them- this is no exception. James is an empowerment coach, and has a true gift in the work he does. It’s awesome to be able to share him with you! Instagram
04/10/2021
Today You Are You, That Is Truer Than True, There Is No One Alive Who Is Youer Than You.
- Dr.Seuss
What is brilliant about you?
Not a usual question to be asked hey, however I feel it is the most important. One that I will support my children to ask themselves
We all have these amazing strengths and abilities, you could call them super powers
Maybe they were developed to protect you at a young age, maybe you’ve worked hard on them as you saw their advantages
One thing I do know is that I can only be me, which means I’m the best, I’m fantastic at it
I literally can’t mess it up
Ahhhhh the relief!
I’ll ask again..
What is brilliant about you?
Comment below
MM
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