13/08/2026
Good morning educators,
A question to sit with: when your room has regular teachers off unwell and casuals filling in, what's the first thing to go? Not the nappy changes, not the meals, not the paperwork. It's the pause, the moment you read what's really happening on a child's face and respond to that, instead of to whatever has to happen next.
That pause is empathy. And the research says it isn't something a child, or an educator, simply has or doesn't. It's a skill, built through relationship and emotion regulation.
Three ways to protect it this week:
1. Name the feeling before the fix: "You look really frustrated that the bucket keeps tipping."
2. Regulate yourself first. Three breaths before you step into a conflict at the home corner. A dysregulated adult has far less bandwidth to model empathy than a paused one.
3. Make empathy toward colleagues visible: "You look wrung out after that morning, I've got the next ten minutes, go take a breather." Children learn that empathy is something adults extend to each other too.
This week's newsletter goes deeper:
https://personhood360.kit.com/adae99b58a?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=newsletter-2026-08-13
Who in your room, child or colleague, could use a moment of your full attention today? π