Heart Broken but Still Going Strong

Healing from a failed relationship is a journey that needs healing, believing, building and respect. What do I mean? Let me dive in deep:

Healing after a failed relationship involves initiating no-contact to establish boundaries, grieving the loss without idealizing the past, and actively rebuilding your life through self-care, finding new hobbies, and rediscovering personal interests.

Believing: It involves accepting that a "failed" relationship is actually a valuable life experience, a lesson, or a necessary ending that opens the door for a better future.
Realizing that "love" didn't hurt you, but rather a person who did not know how to love properly did.

Building: Allow yourself to feel the pain, cutting ties to avoid unhealthy cycles, and investing in self-care, hobbies, and new routines to regain control over your life.

Respect: Focusing on your own personal growth, honoring your needs, avoiding public negativity, and managing the breakup with dignity. Give yourself space to heal without engaging in hostile behavior.

Show mad love to a woman that understands you, stand by you in difficult times and assures you it’s going be alright. a woman that sees passed your empty pocket but still believe you going make it and not a woman that runs to another man when things ain’t looking up for you.

You are holding a cup of coffee when someone comes along and shoves you or shakes your arm, making you spill your coffee everywhere. Why did you spill the coffee?*
"Well because someone bumped into me, of course!"
Wrong answer.
You spilled the coffee because coffee was in the cup.
If tea had been in it, you would have spilled tea.
Whatever is inside the cup is what will come out.
Therefore, when life comes along and shakes you (which will happen), whatever is inside of you will come out.
It's easy to fake it until you get rattled.
So we have to ask ourselves....what's in my cup?
When life gets tough, what spills over?
Joy, gratefulness, peace and humility?
Or anger, bitterness, harsh words and actions?
*You choose!*
Let's work towards filling our cups with gratitude, forgiveness, joy, words of affirmation to yourself and others, kindness, gentleness and love. 💯

"Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it"

From inbox

Dear admin

Hope and trust you are doing fine. I truly need your advise. Am a lady based in Guinea Bissau, my husband is a truck driver and he spends most of his time on the road than he spends at home.

Am a woman and got feelings too but I also understand my husband has to work to provide for us. It’s not like am ungrateful it’s just that my feelings at times get the best of me and I fail to control them. There is this man that has been proposing love to me and I told him I was married but he kept on insisting until I gave in to his proposal. We started dating secretly and we have been together for over 2 years now. On Tuesday last week my husband was suppose to travel to Congo DR, I packed all what he needed for the trip and he was suppose to be away for 2 months. When he left home I was very much sure he wasn’t going to come back then I called the other man to come over and spend a night at my house. He did came and we had fun the whole night but shocking my husband returned home around 5am in the morning and I didn’t know what to do at that time. He caught us in bed and he didn’t react badly to it, when he in walked in the bedroom, saw us and in-fact apologized for walking in on us then left. Since then he hasn’t said no word about it and acts like nothing happened. Now my guilty conscience is not letting me. I love my husband and I don’t want him to divorce me either what should I do to make things right again.

Please advise me 😢

If you think a Man should pay ALL of the bills, date someone that agrees. If you think it should be 50/50, date someone that agrees. The problem is yall want to convince people who don't agree instead of just dating someone who has the same values. That's why the topic is so annoying.

Before you respond to anything negative someone said or posted about you understand this...

Sometimes you've lost the argument the moment you entered, because it means lowering your vibration to match theirs. You have to realize that some victories, with certain people are still LOSSES. 💯

Men are able to function in and out of relationships because they don't give up their hobbies ,their friends or anything else that makes them happy

Women make the mistake of making their Man their WHOLE life and when the relationship ends...they're lost trying to create a new life or putting their old life back together.

As my Woman...I expect you to be about ME without the cost of losing yourself. You should also be about your MONEY, your GOALS, your HOBBIES, your FAMILY, and your DREAMS. I don't want to be your whole world, just your favorite part of it.
M.C

Just a reminder in case your mind is playing tricks on you today: You matter. You’re important. You’re loved & your presence on this earth makes a difference whether you see it or not. 💯

The man or woman you choose to be your partner affects everything in your life: your mental health, your peace of mind, the love inside of you, your happiness, how you get through tragedies, your success, how your children will be raised, and so much more. Choose very wisely. 💯

You don't have to respond to the enemy attacking you. If God makes you live through their LIES, He's going to make them live through your BLESSINGS. 🙏🏿💯