Sir APM Lukwesa

27/08/2026

When the food is finished they call it dirty plate. That's life.
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04/08/2026

Nobody gets angrier than someone who's hiding something. Sometimes, a person who has something to conceal may even cry, become defensive, or react with outrage when confronted with a truth they fear has been discovered.

If you ask a simple question and she immediately becomes angry, don't focus only on the emotion—pay attention to why the question triggered such a strong reaction.

A woman who is hiding something may try to turn a simple conversation into an argument to discourage further questions. On the other hand, a sincere woman is usually comfortable providing clarity, explaining herself openly, and answering reasonable questions without unnecessary drama.

Never allow tears, anger, or emotional outbursts alone to become the evidence of innocence. Emotions can be genuine, but they can also be used to divert attention from the real issue. Judge situations by facts, consistency, and actions—not by emotions alone.

Let me end with the African proverb that says that "The guilty goat is the first to bleat when the hyena is mentioned."
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Class dismissed.
~Sir APM Lukwesa

31/07/2026

Normalise checking your level of importance in someone's life. Some of you do a lot for people who don't care about you
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29/07/2026

Be careful when you celebrate in the name of a feast or occasion. Your happiest moments can be your weakest moments.
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16/07/2026

Don’t Let Party Colours Decide Every Vote.

DON'T JUST FOLLOW THE PARTY. By Sir APM Lukwesa. CHOOSE THE RIGHT LEADER. As a resident of Kalulushi, I have been reflecting on how we should vote in this year's general election. This is my personal opinion. Political parties are important because they offer different policies and visions for Zambia. That is why many people consider party alignment when electing a…...

DON’T JUST FOLLOW THE PARTY.By Sir APM Lukwesa. CHOOSE THE RIGHT LEADER. As a resident of Kalulushi, I have been reflecting on how we should vote in this year’s general election. This i…

10/07/2026

WHY I BELIEVE PRESIDENT HAKAINDE HICHILEMA DESERVES ANOTHER TERM.

MY PERSONAL VIEW: As Zambia heads to the 13 August 2026 General Elections, I respect the constitutional right of every eligible citizen to vote for the candidate and political party of their choice. Democracy gives every Zambian the freedom to make that choice without intimidation or coercion. After carefully considering the progress made over the last five years, I have personally decided to support President Hakainde Hichilema and the UPND for another term....

MY PERSONAL VIEW: As Zambia heads to the 13 August 2026 General Elections, I respect the constitutional right of every eligible citizen to vote for the candidate and political party of their choice…

25/06/2026

Why Self-Control Shapes Your Future

Self-control is one of the greatest strengths a person can develop. It shapes your character, your relationships, and the future you build through daily choices....

Self-control is one of the greatest strengths a person can develop. It shapes your character, your relationships, and the future you build through daily choices.

12/05/2026

Public Order Act (1955) Vs Public Gathering Bill 71 (2026)

The difference between the colonial-era Public Order Act of 1955 and the proposed Public Gathering Bill No. 71 of 2026 is deeper than many people think. By Sir APM Lukwesa The 1955 Public Order Act was designed during colonial rule mainly to CONTROL people, especially political gatherings, protests, and processions. Its foundation was security first, freedom second. Police were given broad powers to stop meetings, deny permits, disperse gatherings, and arrest participants....

The difference between the colonial-era Public Order Act of 1955 and the proposed Public Gathering Bill No. 71 of 2026 is deeper than many people think.By Sir APM Lukwesa The 1955 Public Order Act …

15/03/2026

No S*x Survives Outside Marriage

Only in marriage can you enjoy intimacy with the same person for a lifetime. S*x outside marriage has no foundation, no long-term plan - just temporary fireworks that quickly burn out. Casual s*x is like fast food. Quick, cheap, and unhealthy in the long run. It may fill an emotional gap for a moment, but it never nourishes the soul. Want s*x that lasts?...

Only in marriage can you enjoy intimacy with the same person for a lifetime. S*x outside marriage has no foundation, no long-term plan – just temporary fireworks that quickly burn out. Casual…