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Our cultures can be detrimental to our wellbeing

19/07/2023

At a wedding ceremony the pastor asked if there was anyone who had any reason why the marriage shouldn't go on; it was time to stand up and speak, or forever let them hold their peace.

The moment of utter silence was interrupted by a young beautiful woman carrying a child. She started slowly walking toward the pastor.
Everything quickly turned to chaos. The bride slapped the groom.

The groom's mother fainted. The bridal trail scooted towards the door.The groom's men huddled together like a bereaved flock, wondering how best to help save the situation.
The pastor asked the woman, "Can you tell us why you came forward? What do you have to say?"

The woman replied,
"I couldn't hear you well from the back."

LESSON: Hold judgment until you've had all the facts. However, many times we fire the shots too quickly and beautiful relationships are ruined.

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09/03/2023

Once upon a time, a group of 50 people attended a seminar.
Suddenly the speaker stopped and started giving each person a balloon.

Each one was asked to write his/her name on it using a marker pen. Then all the balloons were collected and put in another room.

Now these delegates were let in that room and asked to find the balloon which had their respective names written on within 5 minutes.

Everyone was frantically searching for their names, pushing and colliding with each other, and there was utter chaos. At the end of 5 minutes, no one could find their own balloons.

Now each one was asked to randomly collect a balloon and give it to the person whose name was written on it. Within minutes everyone had their own balloons.

The speaker began:

"This is exactly what is happening in our lives. Everyone is frantically looking for happiness all around, not knowing where it is. Our happiness lies in the happiness of other people. Help them Find their happiness and you will get your own happiness too.

And this is one of the purposes of human life...
Learn to put a smile on someone’s face, and you will also smile in due season.

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16/02/2023

26/09/2022

WE ARE NOTHING

In the midst of our busy days we need to set even few minutes of meditation to ponder our realities as mortals...

16/08/2022

How To LIVE
As long as you are alive you must keep on learning how to live because LIFE is the biggest and most difficult subject of all.
The truth is that we have been brought up within the limitations of our parents knowledge about parenting . Thus we must be opened to learning from life itself until the end of one' s life.