06/10/2026
A radio talk show recently asked a deceptively simple question: a mother wants to leave everything to the child who’s struggling financially, and nothing to the one who’s comfortable. Is that fair?
The phone lines lit up, because ‘fair’ means something different to everyone. And that’s exactly the risk of leaving it unsaid. A decision that makes perfect sense to you can look very different to the people left behind, and by the time your will is read, you’re no longer there to explain your reasoning.
That’s why the details matter: putting your wishes clearly in writing, keeping your will up to date as life changes, and helping the people you love understand the ‘why’, not just the ‘what’. You can’t guarantee everyone will agree, but you can make sure your intentions are clear enough to be honoured.
Moonstone’s Tyrone Ford CFP® unpacks the whole question in this article.
Read the full article: https://www.moonstone.co.za/before-you-judge-someone-elses-will-check-your-own/