Love & Christianity

Greetings, People.

Today is the 8th Anniversary of our "Love & Christianity" brand! It was on this day 8 years ago that this brand was created.

May we continue having the spirit to talk about both "Love" & "Christianity" on Facebook and elsewhere. God Bless.
It Is All About "Love & Christianity"!
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Hi, family. It is time for us to share a self-written image with an explanation.

"Love; Marriage; S*x"
In which order should these words be arranged?

Firstly, let us talk about "the law of s*x". Jehovah and Jesus Christ give us one piece of advice, which is: "If you are not married, you should not have s*x with anybody and if you are married, that spouse you have married should be the only person you perform the activity with".

Whether you are "boyfriend; girlfriend" or "fiancé; fiancée" (or don't have a lover), please wait until after you say "I Do" to perform the activity. And after marrying, please make sure that "the person you married" is the only person you are performing the activity with.

So, here, we are saying "No" to "Adultery" and all other types of "Fornication". We are saying "No" to "S*x before Marriage". This means that in the arrangement of "the three words", "S*x" must come AFTER "Marriage".

You should become "one flesh" with your partner via the unity of marriage before allowing s*xual relations. While not married or while being around people other than your spouse, if you see anything "s*xually suggestive", just whisper to yourself "lead me not into temptation" and resist/reject it. God does not support ANY type of "fornication".

1 Corinthians 6:9-13; 1 Corinthians 6:18-21; 1 Corinthians 7:2; Ephesians 5:3; Hebrews 13:4; Revelation 21:8; 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4; Galatians 5:19-21

Now, the remaining question is, in the arrangement of "the three words", where do we place the word "Love"?

Let's look at dating couples. You first admit that you both have interest in each other and accept being boyfriend and girlfriend (spending a lot of time together). Whether it takes a few months or a few years, the man eventually decides to spend money himself on an "engagement ring" and kneels down in front of the woman, with the woman happily saying "yes". These relationships with "God's timing" and "God's support" make great families, as "love" and "trust" has been built overtime. People usually say "true love is built, not found".

While they are boyfriend and girlfriend, they learn a lot about each other (this is what we call a "courtship") & they do their best to keep negative vices from infiltrating in their relationship. They go to Church together and always pray for their togetherness. They have become close with each other's immediate family members. Genuinely letting time pass without worries, the man makes the move when he is ready and they get engaged and eventually married in holy matrimony. They are blessed.

So, what we are saying here is that every "boyfriend & girlfriend" relationship should strive to fit the definition of a "courtship", which is them studying one another to see if they are compatible for marriage. We do not recommend getting into romantic relationships where "marriage" is not the end goal, as the spirit of togetherness should bring about the unity in Christ Jesus of the couple becoming "one flesh" and ushering their own new family into the world.

Before you say "I Do", you say a few vows to your partner, vowing to stand by them, for better or worse, in sickness and in health, 'til death do you part. It takes a lot of "love" and "trust" to say those words with honesty from the bottom of your heart. You do not say those words to just anybody; you say them to the person you believe is your "Godsend" and who you do not want to lose.

True love isn't found; true love is built. Whether it takes a few months or a few years for that engagement ring to be found and bought, you'll be glad that you built the "love" and "trust" you and your partner have for each other beforehand. Build a "Friendship" before building a "Marriage" and "Marry Your Best Friend".

So, we believe that "Love" should come before "Marriage".

Ephesians 5:31; 1 Corinthians 8:3; Genesis 2:24

So, as we have said here, "Love" should come first, then "Marriage" should come second and then "S*x" should come last.

Take note that there are some societies in the world where "Marrying a stranger" has proven to be a success and we can learn a lot from those couples, both the man and the woman, in terms of exactly how they believe a "spouse" and a "marriage" in general should be. We hope these type of couples remain blessed as well.

Hi, family. It is time for us to share a self-written quote with an explanation.

Do Not have a "Main Partner" & a "Side Partner"; Rather Have an "Only Partner".

In most cases, when you have a "main partner" and a "side partner", the side partner will not know that he/she is a "side partner", which shows that this is an act of wrongdoing! Even the main partner will not know that you are "showing love" to a secondary person, which also proves that this is an act of wrongdoing. Both the primary and secondary partners are "convinced" that you only have "one partner", which is not supposed to be the case. Truthfulness is key in "Love and Trust being created and maintained".

It is best to only have one partner, who you can proudly tell "I Love You" and "I Want Nobody Else But You To Love". Do not allow two or more different people to be "sharing you", as when you are with one, you are disloyal and unfaithful to the other. When you are with one, you are disrespecting the other. This is counted as "living a lie" and it shouldn't be considered.

Whether you are at the "boyfriend; girlfriend" stage or at the "husband; wife" stage, you should be loyal to that one person who owns your heart without experimenting with other people! Cheating, whether you are married or not, is a wrong activity to perform, as it counts as deception, which God dislikes.

"Cheating isn't always kissing, touching or flirting; if you have to delete text messages so that your partner will not see them, you are already there" - Unknown

Word of advice:
When you go out into Socialization camps and meet new people, be willing to tell them "I am taken" with honesty and the feeling that "It had to be said" in case they show any romantic interest in you.

When people make a move on you, resist & rebuke them! If somebody is refusing to accept what you have told them, keep your distance from them (they shouldn't be able to succeed with their plans at all).

Proverbs 12:22; Colossians 3:9-10; Proverbs 13:5; Proverbs 12:19; Proverbs 10:9; Proverbs 6:32; Luke 8:17; 1 Corinthians 13:4-6; 2 Corinthians 6:14

If you truly love your partner, whisper to yourself "lead me not into temptation; that is not who I am" and run away from the idea of "cheating" (be loyal & faithful to your partner always). Do not let yourself do anything that fits the definition of cheating, whether it is "romantic acts" or "s*xual acts" (fornication; adultery).

Keeping a secret of disloyalty is a possible recipe for disaster. And once it happens, there is no excuse or life event that can possibly justify it. The cheater is automatically "guilty" of doing something wrong (disloyalty; unfaithfulness) and may find it hard to be trusted again.

There is a clause we love to say a lot: "the good guys always win"! That same "side relationship" cannot be blessed & people may find out about it. (Proverbs 12:19; Proverbs 10:9; Luke 8:17)

Lastly, if you do catch your Partner cheating, then "your partner" is the guilty party there; the secondary partner does not owe you royalty, as he/she probably wasn't told that you exist or that you are connected. That "secondary partner" should only be in trouble if he/she knew that your partner was taken but still went ahead with being his/her "secondary partner".

Use proper methods to resolve the problem. Remember that "two wrongs do not make a right"!

Romans 12:17; 1 Thessalonians 5:15

So, keeping such secrets in this world of relationships is not a good idea! Truthfulness is key in "Love and Trust being built & maintained" between you and your partner. Do not perform acts such as this which can destroy your relationship. Be loyal; be kind; do not envy; do not delight in evil; rejoice with the truth.

Hi there, family. Let us share an image that we call "The Love Triangle" together with an explanation.

This picture was drawn up by Chils Kemptonian - The Geographic Accountant.

The Love Triangle; this is your "little family".

Have you ever heard humans say that a relationship is complete when you are the THREE of you? Yes, the third being after you and your partner is your heavenly father, Jehovah.

Every member of this "little family" is happy that the relationship exists and is willing to do everything to make the relationship work. All Three members love their partners (You love Jehovah while Jehovah loves you; your partner loves Jehovah while Jehovah loves your partner; you love your partner while your partner loves you).

So, the three of you are building and maintaining your love life in your "little home" while hoping that there is utmost security in your alliance. As such, outsiders should not have the power to do a "breaking and entering" in your relationship; they should not be able to cause damage or to disturb the peace in your home. Resist negativity and keep away from people whose only intention is to break apart your unity. You must only accept positivity from well-meaning people while praising the most high together with your partner. Also, avoid sending "confidential information" to anybody outside your little family, as that information should be kept between you and your partner.

In that regard, avoid making "secrets" and "lies" a part of your personality. Live an honest life with your partner full of love and avoid doing anything that may cause a problem in your "little home". Do not sneak out of your little home in order to go and "cheat" with another person in the name of fun; maintain the loyalty in your home. Also, do not keep "secrets" from your partner; Discuss everything, whether it is finances, an event coming up or you going through a rough patch. If somebody asks "how are you", give an honest answer rather than saying "I'm fine" all the time and your partner will gladly help with whatever is wrong.

Matthew 19:6; Mark 10:9; Genesis 2:24; Romans 12:9-10; Proverbs 10:12; Songs of Solomon 2:16; Song of Solomon 3:4; Philippians 1:7

Make sure that in your "little family", you discuss everything there is to discuss in relationships such as "who is responsible for what". Agree on who exactly should be going out to find money for the family and who should be doing maintenance of a clean home, for example. Each individual know their own strengths, abilities and interests. Every individual has their own preferences and so, concensus is needed; we suggest discussing this before the marriage begins. Agree with your partner on roles using love while showing appropriate love, romance and affection to your partner consistently. Show your partner that you accept them as they are. Love is patient, kind, truthful, trustworthy, hopeful and protective.

Ephesians 4:2-3; 1 Corinthians 13:4-8; Proverbs 10:12; Romans 12:9-10; Ephesians 5:25; Ephesians 5:33; Luke 6:31; Proverbs 31:10; Ecclesiastes 4:9; Philippians 1:7; 1 Peter 3:7

The Three of you, including your God (Jehovah), are a team that values peace, faith, hope, love and strength. As people love to say, "do not go to bed angry"; show your partner that you still love them after an argument and resolve issues. Forgive one another for wrongdoings just as you want God to forgive you.

Keep "stereotypical and demographical judging" away from your beliefs. Let the Christianity within you reign. The race of your partner, the ethnicity of your partner and the nationality of your partner should not worry you. You know exactly why your heart chose that person and these demographical labels should not put a dent to that. Your partner is neither better nor worse than you, as where you come from is not what determines that.

How you describe a society is not how you describe one person. Do not allow people to make a kind person seem bad to you because of stereotypical and demographical elements, as it would be unkind. Love your partner's "characteristics and personality"; God knew what He was doing when he made that person like that.

Thanks for Reading. Remember that whether you are "Boyfriend & Girlfriend", "Fiancé & Fiancée" or "Husband & Wife", put your Names in the picture where the relevant gender is mentioned.

Not everybody will agree but this is our opinion.
"Marry Your Best Friend"
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"Commerce; Tradition; Religion"

These are 3 departments of life we have identified & they each have an effect on how we operate & the personal beliefs & ethics that each of us have. Each of these 3 departments has its "own way" of how various matters of life are to be handled.

"Commerce" is the happenings in rich, public & famous environments. It helps us understand what to do and what not to do in terms of fame, luxury, publicity and socialization. This department influences various parts of our lives, such as how to appear at functions & what to be posting on social media to get recognized.

"Tradition" is the happenings in people's family history or from the villages and communities where they are rooted from. It helps people understand how things are done traditionally in various parts of life as dictated by each traditional society that a person may belong to or be linked to.

"Religion" is the beliefs that us Human Beings have or are being taught from our spiritual lives & our connections with out God, both through Personal Connections with Heaven and through Congregational services (Churches; Mosques; Synagogues; Temples). It helps us understand right from wrong as well as how life is to be lived according to the beliefs each one of us has developed as we have grown.

Each one of us has got our own "Book of Ethics" & its these 3 societies that help us determine how exactly we write our "Book of Ethics". Of course, one society can have a stronger or weaker influence over you than the others, which may affect how decision-making is done. We need to develop the ability to control how each of these 3 societies shapes our personal beliefs & to critically understand what is the right thing to do in any situation or path taken.

Each of them has a certain level of "Power" over our "Personalities", bringing either health or toxicity to our minds and our hearts. We need to be careful of what we tolerate our minds and bodies to do. Good personal beliefs and "personal traditions" can be developed from this.

For example, what are your views concerning "s*x"? or "drinking"? or "how to dress"? or "marriage"? or "how to act in society"?

Each environment has got its own things to offer to our people & also has its own ways of handling matters. Make sure you are being influenced by the right people and the right organizations in life. Make sure that you are being taught the right acts of life, such as kindness, love, morality, safety, prayer & seeking health.

If you are a commercial person, do understand that not everybody is a commercial person & so, the way they look at things may not be the same as you. If you are a traditional person, do understand that not everybody is a traditional person & so, the way they look at things may not be the same as you. If you are a religious person, do understand that not everybody is a religious person & so, the way they look at things may not be the same as you. You can influence the other person & they can also influence you with their lifestyles & ways of living.

This is the first step to understanding how the lives of people are impacted. If there is a society with wrongful activities taking place, we need to convince the population to adopt right acts or understand why they do what they do. This will help unite all of God's children.

Romans 7:15-17
John 14:21
Philippines 4:8
1 Peter 5:8
Jeremiah 29:11-13
Matthew 7:12
1 Corinthians 15:33
Romans 12:2
Proverbs 22:6
Proverbs 13:20

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Yesterday marked 6 years this Brand named Love & Christianity was created. We are thankful to God that this Brand has been around since 30 October 2017. May his name be glorified.

May all people know how great you are, Lord. May we continue to hold discussions regarding your word in order for everybody to understand how you intend for us to spend our lives with your authority & blessings. May everybody be saved & united with you. Amen.

Chilala Jr Muhyila - Chils Kemptonian
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Hi, People!
Let us bring up a "topic for discussion".

Is it okay to say "I am a Christian" without choosing a specific "denomination of Christianity"? Is it okay to be part of this lifestyle without belonging to any specific one of the established churches?

Christianity & its development in the last millennium is certainly an interesting story. Let us share a bit about it.

In the year 1054, an event happened named the East-West Schism, which effectively divided Christianity into "Western Christianity" (Catholicism) and "Eastern Christianity" (Orthodox Church).

Next, some 5 Centuries ago, in the 16th Century, the "Protestant Movement" was introduced, which would effectively create several more denominations in our "Christianity" lifestyle (specifically "Western Christianity"). Several Denominations together form Protestantism. Some of them are the Anglican Church (Church of England), Seventh-Day Adventist Church, Methodist Church, Pentecostal Church & Baptist Church.

So far, we have listed 3 main sections of the "Christian Community", namely the Catholic Church, Orthodox Church & Protestant Church. However, we must understand that there are several "Denominations" that do not identify as being part of any of these 3 sections & those are placed under a section we have chosen to call "other". Included in the "other" section are Jehovah's Witnesses.

So, we have 4 main headings, namely "Catholic", "Orthodox", "Protestant" & "Other". Each of them has got 1 or more "Denominations" under it that Christians are members of.

So, the "lifestyle" of Christianity has got many denominations & we want to know from you if it is fine for somebody to be a Christian without choosing a particular denomination to belong to. What's your say? 👇

Word

If you are not ready to date, please don’t.

I don’t mean, you’re tired of being single (because we all know that wait can get frustrating). I mean being spiritually, emotionally and even financially ready for a commitment.

Dating is dangerous if we aren’t ready. If you continue to date while you’re not ready, you’re setting yourself up for:
1. Sin
2. Confusion
3. A broken heart
4. Wasting your time
5. Missing out on who God is trying to present to you.

Jumping from person to person doesn’t lead you to “the one”. It actually prepares your heart for divorce because you’ve already mastered the art of leaving whenever you aren’t happy or the person upsets you.

Ask God to prepare you for what you’re praying for, so when He brings the person your way, your spirit isn’t holding on to past trauma or immaturity that you’ll mishandle and lose the blessing you prayed for.

God Is Good!
I am very happy to hear that the "COVID-19 Pandemic" has been declared as "ended" by the United Nations World Health Organization (WHO).

May we all live Healthy Lives as we move forward. 🙏

WHO chief declares end to COVID-19 as a global health emergency The head of the UN World Health Organization (WHO) has declared “with great hope” an end to COVID-19 as a public health emergency, stressing that it does not mean the disease is no longer a global threat.