Lifecoach Nthabiseng

CAN I BE MYSELF? I REALLY JUST WANT TO BE ME!!

There's a first Lady of a church who is frustrated and feel deprived of being a human being, but is expected to hang her head and be humble and nice to people who can't stand her, who have disqualified her as the right candidate for their pastor. She's crying silently, "Lord can you see that I am bent over and cannot lift up myself while I lift every one up? Can I be Myself and not be judged when I feel overwhelmed?"

There's a pastor's kid out there who feels burdened by the unreasonable expectation of the congregation to be a pastor and act like one. He/she is crying," I didn't eavesdrop on my parents' conversation about their calling with God, why is their calling my own. I'm only a teenager, when is my life going to start? Can I discover my own calling? can I be Myself?

There's an employee who is sobbing silently "I may not be as degreed as you are, and I may not look like you or sound like you, but nevertheless, can I be Myself? Can you please see me as a human being behind my job description? I really just want to be Me!

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Any relationship that you fail to appreciate will slowly depreciate. It will curl up and die. Give your relationships the kiss of life and resuscitate them. Fight for your relationships. Don't give up on the people you love!!!

So what are you afraid of...

that you are not enjoying your life because you feel that you could loose it if you don't guard it with all your might? Has the thing that you have imprisoned you? Do you get heart palpitations & sleepless nights every time your partner is out of your sight? Did you know that Job attracted what happened to him because he was afraid of it happening? That was my situation as well. What is the thing that you fear the most from happening? What do you want to see happen that you should be focusing on instead? I want to help you enjoy your relationships fearlessly & free of worries. Contact me at 0812748619 let's bring excitement, zeal, edge & enthusiasm back into your relationships.

Rejections & Repellents

Did you know that anytime you discount or disqualify yourself for something you reject it therefore you repel it from coming to you? In the same token, if you are afraid of something & spent a lot of time worrying about it you enlarge it & strengthen it thereby giving it permission to become. When you believe that you do not have a figure for coronavirus for instance & believe that it is not your colour, that it doesn't suit you, & refuse to wear it; you reject it & repel it. Be intentional with what you repel though, don't just repel what you want!

Go kinesthetic/touchy-Feely on your partner
Are you tired of being ignored. Talk to your partner effectively & creatively by touching his feelings. That is not by nagging & complaining or shutting down. I want to help you aim high & speak strategically to your partner as a head & a leader, to speak to him from the head level & touch his heart. I have my phone in my hand waiting for you to send me a "hi" I promise to call you back - 0812748619 - let's discuss how I can help you.

What are you saying within yourself?
What is your "if only I could" conversations. When the woman with the issue of blood realized that she had become so broke & isolated as a result of an uncontrallable bleeding & she couldn't take it anymore; what changed her life was hidden behind what she said to herself. She was willing to break the laws & beliefs that stood in the way of her achieving her dream. She had nothing in her but a touch. What do you have in you? How long have you been dealing with your issue? It's time to speak!

Speak to yourself & go big!
One of the best gifts you can give to yourself is your internal dialogue. Speaking to yourself is very important; it has so much weight that I encourage you to talk to you a whole lot. Scrap that encouragement, I insist you do it, and go big. Sometimes the best words you can hear are the ones you say to yourself. When you get tired of maintaining the status quo of dysfunction, of recycled, refurbished, renovated, rebuilt & a patched up life & relationships you will change what you say to yourself. Get speaking!!