Shrek Ramothwala

A girlfriend becomes a wife. If you’re out here doing “selective submission” and picking responsibilities because he hasn’t married you yet, don’t be shocked when he keeps you as a placeholder for years… then marries someone else who showed up consistent.

DON'T JOKE WITH THIS PRAYER:
Dear God, remove the fear that keeps me small and replace it with faith that reminds me I was made for more.

Not everything needs to be earned through hardship. Not everything good has to hurt first. You can still experience ease & peace of mind at the start of something new. Hold space for that. Struggling isn’t confirmation you deserve better in the future. You deserve better today.

If you selling a Local brand, E apare lwena, You guys are wearing di GUCCI, Rena lere apesa bo "NYENYEPU"!
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Sometimes the only closure you need is understanding that you deserve better.

Be gentle with your heart, because it has known deep pain. Be loving with your body, say kind words to it, as it has also suffered pain. Try to forgive all of you, because you honestly did the best you could do at the time. And know at the end of it all... you were brave.

Spending money on men only sounds bad to women who don’t have any.

Meystery breeds respect. Our Forefathers who practiced polygamy understood this instinctively: visit when necessary, leave when done. Overfamiliarity today is why desire dies in so many relationships.

As a man, you should always be chasing your woman and making her feel like she's everything to you and that doesn't mean you always have to make some grand gesture to show her that you care, but it's the little things that win her over. Without effort, it just makes her feel like you're bored with her, she's no longer making you happy, and she's just not good enough for you, and a girl can only feel that way for so long until she feels like you're not worth the effort anymore.

Maybe it's because she would make such an effort to be with you and she would like to believe that you'd do the same for her, but if you really did care about her, making an effort should be something that's natural and it shouldn't be difficult so if it is, then don't be surprised if that's how you're going to lose her and once you do, it would take even more of an effort to get her back.

When you stop showing effort to a girl, that's when she'll start to think that you're not choosing her anymore, that's when she'll be convinced that your heart's not in it anymore, and that's when she'll believe that you aren't falling in love with her every day anymore because effort is everything to a girl.

Whether you've been with her for two months or two years, effort is something that she's always going to expect to see because it's the kind of reassurance she needs for her to continue making an effort of her own because she can't be only one trying, she can't be the only one wanting to make it work, and she can't be the only one giving it her all.