Meta-Life Coaching

How to Build your Dream.
Growing up in a very conservative and limited small-town environment, it was common for most older folk to simply do what they were told. Making a living was much dependant on available possibilities. But every once in a while someone challenged the status quo and broke out of the norm, ran away from the oppressive traditions, and reached for the stars. Building dreams has as much to do with support, and environment, and available options that can cultivate a vision that unleash creativity, than the motivation for doing something different. Just a few decades ago career guidance, and the scope for young entrepreneurs to start a new venture were extremely limited, and the norm imposed on society inhibited possibilities of growth for the reserved few who was seen as the elite. At the turn of the century that changed after Generation X confronted the status-quo and created new paths for the generations to come. The technological revolution required a different mindset, and an alliance that wanted to create, and not only dream of change. Today, the political and economic climate necessitate it as a skill to survive. And humanity awakened to see a sun of new opportunities arising on the horizon. But how do we take the initiative and structure the needed steps to build a dream?

To build and make your dreams a reality starts with having a clear vision of what you want to achieve, who you want to be, and most importantly, why. If the intention to move is supported by a plan of action, it is achievable, but if the motivation is unclear, it won’t be sustainable. Many people seek assistance in building a career, or making a transition in their lives without understanding that the process of growth also requires a transformation in orientation, change of focus, and new objectives that need to be in balance with the skills and ability, knowledge and resources, and the support systems that will enable the aspirations intended. All these considerations may feel overwhelming, and that is why professional guidance and transformational coaching are so valuable. Without the correct foundations and expertise to support your journey, it will be like a pilot trying to fly a plane to a new destination without a map, navigator, or ground control that will provide guidance, while some don’t even know how the plane operates, or even have the correct plane with enough fuel to complete such a mission. But yes, you can turn passion into purpose, and make your dreams a reality. And it is possible, one step at a time. The biggest hurdle, however, is that too many want to do it alone, thinking the internet of things will provide them with all the answers and protect them from the pitfalls that may lie ahead. For me this sounds like a self-proclaimed pilot that lacks wisdom, experience and guiding support, doesn’t it?

So what will you tell someone that shares their dreams with you and ask you for advice making this a reality? The problem is that too many, “become the next billionaire in ten easy steps” videos are available on the net, without properly assessing the individual, the needed context, and laying the proper groundwork underpinning the process. It’s like a person who wants to build a house, but doesn’t even know how to mix concrete, or understand the regulations that facilitate its success. In the words of Eleanor Roosevelt, the future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. And yes, you are never too old to set a new goal or to dream a new dream, (C.S. Lewis). Taking the first step toward your dream start by finding someone that is a mature, capable, skilled and knowledgeable coach and mentor that will assist you in making it a reality. I will be honoured to provide such a transformative space where you can move from brainstorming a vision, into strategizing the roadmap, identifying blind spots, and strengthening your motivation. You are probably feeling stressed and overwhelmed, and also concerned about your mental health. Adding wellness support to tailor your dream realisation journey will make a great difference as well. If you have got a dream, want to make a transition, and embrace a new destiny, let’s have a free introductory session, and discuss the options for your future. Give me a call.

Life-Coaching and Counselling services, Pinetown, Upper Highway / Outer West Durban.

Life-Coaching and guidance counselling for those who need to find direction for their lives, career, or personal /spiritual progress. If you are in a process of making decisions that you know can change your life, but are struggling to find clarity and motivation, and you want to transition into something that works for you, this is where you start. Metalifecoaching.co.za provides the support and tools needed to help you find yourself, discover your passion and purpose in life, and empower you to move into that dream. Make your life meaningful again. Empowerment for personal, professional, and spiritual development, whether you start-off in life, going through a mid-life crisis, or lost interest in life -find your passion again. You can live the life of your dreams and be happy again. Don’t wait, contact me now and let’s have a chat.