Conscious Connections Club: Authentic Relating & Singles Events

Conscious Connections Club: Authentic Relating & Singles Events This is a home for authentic relating, connection games, and events in our innermost playground: love. Eloah

Whether you're here to restore your faith in humanity, meet others who are doing the work, or keep showing up as YOU in how you relate — welcome! Authentic Relating Games Nights in Southern Suburbs, Cape Town

21/09/2026

Would you date someone from the same scene? Yes / no - tell us why 👇

19/09/2026

I asked men and women at a bachata festival if they secretly hoped to meet their person there.

The answers were as varied as the people.

And you can always tell who’s open and who’s keeping their cards to themselves.

“It would be a really nice collateral damage.”

Good men are out there.
Sometimes you just have to look from closer.

👇 Send this to someone who needs to hear this.

18/09/2026

What’s hard about keeping love alive for years?

17/09/2026

💃 Dance chemistry ≠ romantic chemistry ❤️

Can 3 minutes of real connection tell you something about a person?

Or do you need much more time to really know someone?

What do you think?

15/09/2026

How do you find your person, in a sea of options?

I need to know I matter. That another person’s fear of commitment being bigger than their love for me doesn’t mean I am ...
26/07/2026

I need to know I matter. That another person’s fear of commitment being bigger than their love for me doesn’t mean I am not lovable. That having walked away from so many situations and rooms that didn’t honor me doesn’t mean there is any place I don’t belong. I feel alone and anxious. I know we are all in our homes sometimes alone; with or without someone. But it doesn’t make the pain less real. I know it won’t last and future me can will hold me gently from where they stand saying “sweetie, I got you. you are and have always been prescious. This thing that you are feeling right now is the price of being human. And everyone pays it. One night or another.” It reminds me of a poem by Hafiz where he talks about the price of admission to the Devine being out of reach. “You have not danced so badly, my dear. You have in fact valsed with tremendous style, my sweet crushed angel”. My fingers want to hit play on the voice notes my ex sent so I feel less lonely. But I know it won’t do it. The price of existence feels heavy tonight. I know I can and will bear it. I know I am in the presence of the most loving and gracious woman I know. That she sleeps with me every night. And that this little girl is afraid her dad won’t come home. That she will be unprotected in this world without a man. And I want to stroke her hair and say “I am so sorry, darling. I am truly sorry you felt this scared. I will not let anything harm you, not anyone: and if life ever hurts you, I will howl and scream and heal. I will be there for you. God damn it, I really hate it that so many of us went through unimaginable things alone. Without someone to witness our despair, without someone to help us go through it. I am grieving all our childhoods. The love so many of us didn’t have then, that are amplified and made visible by the love we didn’t have now. May we kiss our foreheads good night and have a good sleep. And be allowed to wonder again. To dream again.

22/07/2026

You stayed too long. You allowed disrespect. You regret or feel ashamed of who you became. Don’t rush past it… don’t defend or explain. Don’t turn against the other person…

Instead, get curious. Get crystal clear about the character who has the life you don’t want to have. Study them. Understand them. Get obsessed with everything you did and felt and where.

Because only when you make them automatic explicit… will you be able to interrupt it 💛

21/07/2026

Alpha and omega practices are the key to polarity. Omega wants to be seen and loved. And alpha wants to be trusted.

One of the most common complaints I hear is « I just don’t feel attracted to people who are good for me». And it makes sense. Because we are afraid of polarity as much as we are attracted to it. We want to be the same and we do not want to merge…

Love and attraction require very different skills. Some people are masterful at connection and oblivious to attraction, while others are phenomenal at creating heat with zero understanding of how to cultivate love. And many believe both will « just happen » when you are with the « right person ».

If you could have the one, the other, or both… which would you choose?

19/07/2026

An ode to pain, aliveness and expression. May we stop cutting ourselves off from ourselves, life; and each other.

20/06/2026

Caught myself flirting with the idea of calling my ex.

Not reaching for the phone — just the thought, circling.

If you’re a perfectionist who tried to earn your parents’ love in every impossible way — titles, roles, achievement, beauty, being exciting enough to keep — you know this one.

When I get tired of trying so hard, some part of me still believes a man is the only place I’ll hear it: yes darling, it’s okay, you got me now, no need to try harder, I am here.

14 years of doing this work. I still catch the thought.

The work was never finishing the pattern.

It’s catching it faster. Every time.

👇 If we made a list of every way we’ve seen or done auditioning for love — what would you add?

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