10/06/2026
Sometimes we call it chemistry, but what we are really feeling is familiarity.
That person may feel exciting, magnetic, even impossible to ignore — yet at the same time leave you anxious, uncertain, unseen, or waiting for crumbs of connection.
In coaching, I often ask:
Does this connection make you feel more yourself, or less?
Attraction is powerful.
But attraction alone is not enough to build a healthy relationship.
Learning the difference is often where healing begins.
Lilian Hellerman
RELATIONSHIP MATTERS COACHING
https://www.relationshipmatterscoach.com/