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Men prioritise the survival of others, women prioritise their own survival. Read that again. Women are the carriers of the species and men are the carriers of a civilization- essentially built in the interest of safety or the survival of a collective. Men are built to act in the interest of a group, women are built to act in the interest of themselves and to attach themselves to a group in the interest of safety. Understand that you cannot engage with women as if they are men. Women seek mates because it is a pathway to their survival. Men seek mates because it is a pathway to the survival of a civilzation and the species as a whole.

Understand that men are polygynous by nature because it often requires one man to mate with several women for the species to perpetuate. Women seek out the strongest mates who can perpetuate the strongest genes while ignoring the weakest men whose genes will adversely affect the evolution of our species if perpetuated.

Survival Strategies between Men and Women Men prioritise the survival of others, women prioritise their own survival. Read that again. Women are the carriers of the species and men are the carriers of a

About Islam Part 1: The God Concept

About Islam Part 1: The God Concept https://youtu.be/IcUGSXviAD8?si=nm3i1CVFpNWlShaH Originally presented in video format – now adapted as a written blog post for deeper reflection.In the Na

Marriage Is A Serious Affair

Marriage Is A Serious Affair https://open.spotify.com/episode/4xx2laInKtrLmTZd9iFsUb?si=53b9cd4826e64ef2 Marriage is a serious affair. Pun intended. You can't just marry a woman because

For the Western trope who thinks his culture is superior to everyone else's, the left (covered women) represents oppression while the right represents liberation. Whereas for the other side, the right represents oppression and the left represents liberation. Let me explain: When a woman covers her body she has the POWER to decide which men are at liberty to see her body and who has the right to s*xualise her. Yes, men can even s*xualise women who are fully covered- that's true- but they are less likely to do so when there are those on the right who already are much s*xier in public. Furthermore, just because we can't see the conservative Muslim women's s*xual charms, it doesn't mean they aren't s*xy or potentially far more attractive than the half naked ones.

The Power of Modest Dress For the Western trope who thinks his culture is superior to everyone else's, the left (covered women) represents oppression while the right represents liberatio

Red Pill and the Quran: Is the Quran Closer to Red Pill Reality or Simp Culture?

Red Pill and the Quran: Is the Quran Closer to Red Pill Reality or Simp Culture? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBVsD4zueng Originally from the video "Red Pill and the Quran, "Sometimes I catch flak for my content. People say it’s com

Dear Ladies,

Dear Ladies, Here is some priceless free advice I've gathered over the years of coaching couples. When your husband leaves home in the morning, he enters an office with four

Polygyny solves the problem of hypergamy as follows: Already in the Western world about 30% of young men under thirty are virgins while 100% of adult women have had or are having s*x. Polygyny solves this problem because it requires that the man stay long-term with the women he wants. In other words, he doesn't cycle through hundreds of women. He will only have his cohort of women, and once he cannot manage to have anymore than he already has he is off the market. Whereas currently, the top 20% of men are never off the market and cycle through scores of women who always see them as being available, thereby choosing to not mate with someone lower down in the hierarchy.

Furthermore, it isn't the natural choice of every woman to marry a man in polygyny. Many women would rather marry a man who is monogamous which at any rate is the natural ability of the men lower down the hierarchy because they won't possess the drive or ability to handle more than one wife.

The idea that allowing polygyny would create a collapse in society is a fallacy Polygyny solves the problem of hypergamy as follows: Already in the Western world about 30% of young men under thirty are virgins while 100% of adult women have

12 REASONS FOR POLYGYNY #12

12 REASONS FOR POLYGYNY #12 POLYGYNY CAN ENHANCE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD https://youtu.be/FRp7QxAxQDg REASON # 12 Polygyny is not easy. It requires of men to forgo their lust

Virgin S*x and Muslim Culture

Virgin S*x and Muslim Culture https://youtu.be/PT4v4NoA5_Y The discussion is rooted in Quran-first principles, historical hadiths, and practical advice, emphasizing patience, consent, an

I recently watched the movie, “All I See is You” where this blind woman is the wife of an insurance broker residing in Thailand. I thought this movie would make excellent Red Pill content because it lines up with all the teachings of the Red Pill Movement that has found currency over the past few years. If you didn’t see the movie then this is a spoiler alert. Don’t read further. First go watch the movie on Netflix or wherever and then read this blog.

Fantasy

The first and most obvious truth that we have always spoken of in the Red Pill space is that women prefer fantasy to reality. For as long as there is intrigue, mystery, and uncertainty almost any woman would be hooked onto her man. In the movie, the blind wife is literally dependent on her husband for almost everything while not really ‘knowing’ who he is. When she sleeps with him, she has this fantasy in her head of who he is.

All I See is You I recently watched the movie, “All I See is You” where this blind woman is the wife of an insurance broker residing in Thailand. I thought this movie would