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In the year of Our Lord, 2011, Mbulelo Bikwani received the word of the Lord to start Isiseko Family Institute.

Supported by his wife Nombulelo Bikwani they both birthed this institute. At a retreat held over a week-end at Wortelgat, near Stanford, in Jun

05/04/2026

How Worldly systems destroy our marriages.

17/03/2026

Join IFI this Saturday for a Parenting Seminar where we will discuss parenting challenges and trying to understand that “When A Child Goes Astray, Who Is To Blame”
Use the link to register: HTTPS://TINYURL.COM/IFIPS2026

16/03/2026

IFI Marriage Enrichment Seminar in Pretoria, Brooklyn Methodist Church.

14/03/2026

Brooklyn Methodist Church Marriage Enrichment Seminar.

07/03/2026

Dear Family we are pleased to invite you to a Marriage Enrichment Seminar. Join us as we explore practical tools to nurture, strengthen, and deepen your marital friendship.

Be part of the national of the married movement taking their marriages seriously to the next step.

This is an opportunity to invest in your relationship and connect with other couples. Register on the link : https://TINYURL.COM/PTAMES26

24/02/2026

Join us at our Upcoming Marriage Enrichment Retreats in JHB, Cape Town and East London - to discover how to do marriage better

It's easy to believe the right things about Jesus and still be harsh with the person you married.

But if the Gospel is real to you, it shows up in your tone. In your patience. In how you respond when you're tired and your spouse says the wrong thing. The kindness God has shown you has to overflow somewhere. And the first place it should show up is in how you talk to the person closest to you.

Proverbs 18:21 says the tongue has the power of life and death. That's not an exaggeration. Your words carry weight your spouse feels long after the conversation ends.

We've seen couples completely transform their marriages not by solving all their problems, but by changing how they talk to each other. Softening their tone. Choosing curiosity over criticism. Speaking to their spouse the way Christ speaks to them: with truth and grace, not one or the other.

Ephesians 4:29 says to let no corrupting talk come out of your mouth, only what is good for building up. That's the standard. Not just avoiding bad words, but actively using your words to strengthen your spouse.

The Gospel doesn't just change what you believe. It changes how you speak.

What would shift if you spoke to your spouse the way God speaks to you?

Photos from IFI's post 24/02/2026

40 Lessons from a 40 years marriage.

Photos from IFI's post 19/02/2026

This is what IFI is all about 👇🏾- read about testimonies from participants, our community and core programmes and our highlights from 2025. If you want to know more, scan the QR code on your phone and register your interest in some of our upcoming events.

www.isiseko.org.za
[email protected]
+27 (0)75 140 4570

19/02/2026

Interested in attending one of our events in either Gauteng, Western Cape or East London? Scan the QR code below to register as a new member and select the events that you are interested in.

02/10/2025

Join us for a 1 day seminar to deal with the complex topic of in-laws.
Click the link to register HTTPS://TINYURL.COM/IFIGAFL

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Table View
Cape Town
7441

Opening Hours

Monday 09:00 - 17:00
Tuesday 09:00 - 17:00
Wednesday 09:00 - 17:00
Thursday 09:00 - 17:00
Friday 09:00 - 17:00