09/02/2026
If your child has been struggling to read for YEARS, please don’t assume they just need more time.
If they haven’t been evaluated to determine WHY they’re struggling, it may be time to ask for a special education evaluation.
Your child’s reading struggles may not be about effort, motivation, or how much you read with them at home.
And if your child already has an IEP but continues to struggle with reading, here are 5 things I wish I had paid closer attention to, based on my own mistakes as a mom, and even worse, a mom who was an educator.
Time is NOT your child’s friend.
At or before every IEP meeting:
1. Check the Present Levels. Do they clearly describe your child’s reading strengths AND weaknesses with current, quantifiable data?
2. Look for baselines. Are your child’s specific reading needs documented with data showing exactly where they are starting?
3. Check the reading goals. Make sure there are reading goals that address ALL areas of reading need. If your child is struggling with decoding, fluency, comprehension, or another reading skill, where is that need being addressed in their goals?
4. Make sure the goals are measurable. Can you actually tell from the data whether your child is making progress?
5. Stop repeating what isn’t working. If your child is not making progress, ask what needs to CHANGE. Don’t allow the same program or approach that isn’t working to continue year after year.
I learned some of these lessons the hard way with my own son.
Don’t wait years to start asking harder questions.
SAVE this and take it to your next IEP meeting.