The HelpMeet Club

10/09/2026

A few guests asked how to prepare? I recommend looking good and feeling good. Be yourself and the match that’s supposed to reach you will.

I’ve invited all current clients on our waitlist as of yesterday. Make sure you register before the day of the event so that you receive the access code in time.

To learn more about our coaching and matchmaking, visit the 🔗 in our profile to set up a consultation.

10/09/2026

This is the only engagement we worry about! 💍Congratulations to my favorite doctor!

Healthcare professionals routinely find success in our programs, followed by lawyers, although each profession comes with its own dating challenges. In our experience, healthcare professionals tend to be especially coachable and willing to follow the process.

Look out for our newsletter, where we’ll share our favorite doctor’s journey, the factors that made her experience unique, and how she found her partner online before we could make her match through our own network. Sometimes love has its own timeline! ❤️

10/05/2026

We don’t really need more men but this will probably be the last social for 2026. Might as well go out with a bang! 🤷🏽‍♀️

You got to watch the guys from New York! 🕵🏼‍♀️🤣
Just kidding! I love that energy. But I’m not kidding.

I’m excited for Sunday. I won’t be there but I have voluntold a few clients to run the show. It’s hard for me to watch clients without assessing.

We have finalized our registration but I’m still allowing members to join. As one new participant joins we pull someone from the opposite gender. So all clients that are on the waitlist will likely be called.

To learn more about our matchmaking and coaching 🔗 in profile.
T:877-393-2908

10/03/2026

Are you our our waitlist? I’ll have an update for you by Monday.

To learn more about our matchmaking and coaching, visit the link in our profile.
T:877-393-2908

09/20/2026

We are currently seeking a professional male between the ages of 35-50 in the Northeast to participate in an upcoming exclusive matchmaking event. One of our confirmed bachelors will be traveling, and we are looking to fill his spot as soon as possible.

We would also like to extend an invitation to our current and former attractive female members in the Northeast, Dallas, Houston, and Atlanta who may be interested in attending this event.

Interested men should text 917-451-6561 with:

A recent photo
Age
Location

Selected candidates will be contacted with additional event details and invitation information.

09/18/2026

💍 The Ring

I love this because when it comes to manifestation, one image can represent multiple things.

For my clients, when I look at this aesthetic, it feels like:

I don’t care about anything else. This is the end goal.

Now, we’re still going to follow the process. We’re still going to enjoy the journey. But we don’t forget what we’re here for.

The challenge is that many singles are not in a balanced, grounded, or peaceful place. Because of that, dating often doesn’t feel good. The people they attract reflect back their fears, wounds, insecurities, and chaos they carry within themselves.

If you’re anxious, you’ll often attract situations that trigger anxiety.

If you’re fearful, you’ll attract people who activate fear.

If you’re uncertain, you’ll attract experiences that mirror uncertainty.

Now look at the ring and remember:

You are ALLOWING the process to unfold, not CONTROLLING the process. 💍🖤

09/17/2026

09/06/2026

I haven’t really seen this discussed publicly, so I wanted to share it. It’s something worth considering before moving to Dallas and once you’re here.

Article Link: https://www.dmagazine.com/publications/d-magazine/2012/may/why-young-black-professionals-are-wary-of-dallas/?ref=share

This article doesn’t perfectly explain my experience in Dallas, but it is indicative of the social confusion you can experience here, even among other Black people.

Coming from New York, I’ve found some of the interactions here particularly jarring. I’m routinely stared at, excluded, or simply greeted and met with no acknowledgment in return, especially in small spaces like elevators, where a basic greeting feels like a natural thing to me.

I’ve started collecting my own data on these patterns, but I’m still connecting the dots as I gain more awareness and experience these interactions myself.

Rather than just talking about it, I want to do my part by creating a space for people trying to navigate this. I’m starting a small, monthly meetup group (capped at 10 people due to space) to build real connections around shared experiences. Cultural diversity welcome!

Just to be clear: this isn’t an official group or connected to my matchmaking —brand. It’s simply a grassroots monthly meetup. The only contribution is the dish you bring to share, and current clients and new faces are welcome.

Consistency is key to building safety and community, so please make sure you’re able to commit to meeting once per month before reaching out.

DM me if this sounds like the kind of community you’ve been looking for!

09/04/2026

Finalizing our upcoming Private Member Social.

If you meet the criteria, send us a direct message so that we may consider extending an invitation.

Reminder: This event is available to:

• Active HelpMeet Club Members
• Individuals who have received a direct invitation from The HelpMeet Club
• Referrals from current clients

Former clients who previously held a Database Membership may contact us directly regarding our remaining East Coast invitations. (Male/Female)

Please note that this is a private member event and is not open to the general public.

Interested in becoming eligible for future events and matchmaking opportunities?

• Complete a Matchmaking Consultation
• Select a Membership
• Become Eligible for Matchmaking Opportunities & Member Events

Schedule your consultation through the link in our bio.

877-393-2908