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Maintainance to repair a broken heart, mind, and soul



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MEDIA:
Garage Magazine 2022-
Expert Contributors bringing strategies to work through the many facets of grief ( planning, finances, perspectives, living, loving)

Grief Garage TV (Amazon Channel) 2021-
Park the vehicle of your soul and get an emotional checkup. Making Moves Beyond Loss (Radio Show) 2021-
This morning show on Praise 100.9 FM 530 AM Wednesday is just a snippet of the work they have been doing together over the last five years to make strategic moves beyond their loss and the strategies they give their clients to thrive through loss

Shifting Through Grief & Beyond Loss (workshop) 2020-
Through my own journey of grief and loss, I took ownership of my hurts and pains to be the vehicle that me to be to carry others through the pain of loss and the roads of grief. I am committed to serving as a guide to help someone(s) walk out of this dark period of their life.

The Master Relationship Mechanic Show 2016-
Our mission is to Connect relationships with Coaches that have proof proven steps to have the BEST relationships The Master Relationship Mechanic Show focuses on:
• Improving our Relationships with God
• Stepping into our Best Version of Self
• Enhancing Relationships with Others

10/13/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
To all husbands and wives and children
in marriage under construction but the foundation is sound!
🧱 The Opening Prayer
Heavenly Father,
We come before You today acknowledging that our lives, our marriages, and our families are ongoing works of Your divine hands. We thank You for the solid foundation of love, faith, and commitment that keeps us standing, even when the daily construction gets messy.
Bless every husband, wife, and child represented here. When the noise of renovation in our hearts and homes gets loud, grant us Your peace. Give us the patience to handle the dust of disagreement, the grace to forgive mistakes, and the wisdom to build according to Your blueprint. Remind us every day that You are the Master Builder, and as long as You are with us, our labor is never in vain.
In Your Holy Name, We Pray.
Amen.
📋 The Subject:
"Under Construction, But Built to Last"
📐 Introduction
If you walk past a construction site, you will see a lot of things that aren't very beautiful. You see scaffolding, exposed wiring, piles of dust, loud tools, and a lot of unfinished spaces. It can look like a total disaster. But if you talk to the architect, they will tell you to look past the mess. Why? Because the blueprint is perfect, and the foundation is deeply anchored in the rock.
Many of our marriages and families feel exactly like that construction site today. You look around your home and you see areas that are unfinished. Maybe communication is a little broken, patience is wearing thin, or the stress of raising children has left you feeling disconnected. But hear this truth today:
A messy construction phase does not mean a failed structure. If your foundation is sound, your family is built to last.
🔨 1. To the Husbands: The Structural Support
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her... (Ephesians 5:25)
Husbands, in the construction of your home, you are called to be a pillar of sacrificial love. Construction work is heavy lifting, and it requires consistency. Your wife and your children do not need you to be a perfect man, but they need you to be a present man.
When your marriage is under construction, it is easy to retreat into silence or frustration. Instead, lean into the foundation. Protect the structure of your home by being the first to apologize, the first to serve, and the chief encourager. Your strength is not measured by the absence of problems, but by your willingness to stay on the job site and work through them.
📐 2. To the Wives: The Heart of the Framework
By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures. (Proverbs 24:3-4)
Wives, you have the incredible power to shape the atmosphere of the construction site. It is very easy to look at the unfinished parts of your husband or your home and point out every flaw. But a building doesn't grow stronger by being constantly torn down; it grows through wisdom and understanding.
When things feel chaotic, anchor your heart in the foundation of who God created you to be. Speak words that build up rather than tear down. Have grace for the "work in progress" sitting across the dinner table from you. Your wisdom and resilience are the beautiful details that turn a structure into a sanctuary.
🧱 3. To the Children: Living in the Growing House
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. "Honor your father and mother"... (Ephesians 6:1-2)
Children, sometimes it is hard to grow up in a house that is under construction. You see your parents get tired, stressed, or make mistakes. It is important to know that your parents are learning, too. They love you deeply, and every boundary they set, every lesson they teach, is their way of helping you build your own strong foundation for the future.
Be patient with your parents. Show them honor and cooperation. You are not just onlookers at the construction site; you are a vital part of the family team.
Conclusion
Every great and lasting structure takes time to build. The Taj Mahal, the great cathedrals, the tallest skyscrapers—none of them were built overnight, and all of them were messy during the process.
Do not be discouraged by the dust in your marriage or the noise in your home. The presence of construction is proof of life and progress. It means you haven't given up; it means you are actively growing. As long as your foundation is built upon mutual commitment, love, and faith, the storms of life cannot shake you. Trust the Master Builder, stick to the blueprint, and keep laying one brick at a time. Your family is being built to last.

10/13/2026


Note To Self:
Deuteronomy 1:11, NLT
“And may the LORD, the God of your ancestors, multiply you a thousand times more and bless you as he promised!” Heavenly Father, thank You that Your power is not limited by our circumstances, our past struggles, or what we can see with our natural eyes. You are the God of more than enough, the Great I AM, and nothing is impossible for You! Lord, today we stand boldly on Your promise in Deuteronomy 1:11, believing You for a thousandfold blessing! Enlarge our territories, increase our resources, strengthen our families, restore what has been lost, and open doors that no man can shut. Take us beyond limitations, beyond lack, and beyond anything we could ever ask, think, or imagine! Father, just as You promised Your people houses they did not build and vineyards they did not plant, we declare that You are preparing blessings, opportunities, divine connections, and unexpected favor that only Your mighty hand can provide. We declare that this is not our season to decrease, but our season to increase! Not a season of lack, but a season of supernatural provision! Not a season of defeat, but a season of divine breakthroughs, restoration, and overflow! Lord, we refuse to allow yesterday's disappointments to limit tomorrow's promises. We look forward with great faith and expectancy, trusting that what You have prepared for us is greater than anything we have left behind. Father, multiply what is in our hands, bless the work of our hands, and let Your favor rest upon everything You have called us to do. May Your blessings reach beyond us to our children, our families, and generations yet to come! We believe Your promises, we trust Your timing, and we receive with grateful hearts everything You have ordained for our lives. In the mighty, matchless, and powerful Name of Jesus, Amen!

10/12/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
To all husbands and wives and children:
Save the ones you can the rest you let go!!
Prayer
Heavenly Father,
We come before You today acknowledging the sacred and fragile nature of our families. We lift up every husband, wife, and child. Lord, grant us the wisdom to know what we can change and the grace to accept what we cannot. Help us to pour our love, energy, and prayers into saving the relationships, the moments, and the souls that can be reached. Where there is hope, give us the strength to endure and restore. Where there is a need to surrender control and release what is broken beyond our reach, grant us Your divine peace. Protect our hearts from bitterness, and keep our households anchored in Your truth.
In Your Son Jesus Name
Amen.
The Subject:
Saving What We Can
Scripture Reference: “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” — Romans 12:18
Beloved, family is the closest reflection of God’s community on earth. It is where we learn to love, forgive, and grow. But we also live in a broken world, and family dynamics can become complex, painful, and heavy. Today, the message for every husband, wife, and child is a call to intentionality and surrender:
Save the ones you can, and the rest you must let go.
This is not a message of defeat, but of spiritual wisdom. It mirrors the very heartbeat of Christ. Jesus came to save the world, yet He never forced His way into a heart that chose to remain closed. He poured His life into those who would receive Him, and when others turned away, He let them go.
1. To the Husbands and Wives
Your marriage is a covenant, and you are called to fight for it with everything you have. Save the moments of connection. Save the communication. Save the love by choosing forgiveness daily. However, you cannot control your spouse’s heart, choices, or responses. You can offer grace, but you cannot force transformation. If you try to carry the weight of fixing a person who refuses to change, you will crush your own spirit. Do your part, love unconditionally, but place their soul into God’s hands.
2. To the Children
You are called to honor your parents, to learn, and to grow. But as you navigate life, you will see the flaws in your family. Save the lessons, the good memories, and the heritage of faith. Let go of the generational burdens, the unrealistic expectations, and the hurt that isn’t yours to carry. You are responsible for your own walk with God, not for fixing the broken systems of the adults around you.
3. The Divine Boundary
"Saving the ones you can" means recognizing where your stewardship ends and where God’s sovereignty begins. We exhaust ourselves trying to rescue people from their own choices, or trying to fix relationships where the other party has completely walked away. When we refuse to let go, we step into God's territory. Letting go is not about ceasing to love; it is about trusting God enough to handle what is outside our control.
Conclusion
Ultimately, the call to save what you can and let go of the rest is an act of profound faith. For every husband, wife, and child, true peace is found when we realize we are called to be faithful, not omnipotent. Do not lose your own joy, your own peace, or your own salvation trying to force a reality that cannot be. Hold tightly to the love, the hope, and the people who are willing to walk with you—and surrender the rest to the only One who can truly save.

10/12/2026


Note To Self:
Today's Prayer: "Father, if You are for me, who can be against me? I refuse to fear what people can do to me, for no one has the power to stop Your purpose for my life. Let Your hand rest on me and Your favor surround me. Every blessing intended for me shall be mine, and every evil planned against me shall fail. In Jesus' Name, Amen."

10/11/2026


Note To Self:
You need to listen to what God says about you and not all the negative chatter. You may have made poor choices, gotten off course. Who told you that mistake stopped your purpose? Who told you that you’re washed up, unworthy, just sit on the sidelines? That’s the accuser trying to keep you in hiding, feeling guilty, unworthy, so you won’t pursue your dreams, you won’t accomplish your assignment. Don’t believe those lies. God’s mercy is bigger than any mistake you’ve made. He already took into account every failure, every wrong turn, every compromise. He has mercy, restoration, new beginnings already lined up. His calling on your life is irrevocable. He doesn’t change His mind. What He started He will finish, but you have to do your part and come out of hiding. Come out of shame. Come out of guilt. Get back in the game. We need you. Your family needs you fully engaged. Your children need you healthy and whole. Your friends need you, not the partial you but the full you, the outgoing you, the loving you, the friendly you.

10/11/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
To all husbands and wives and children:
what are you willing to sacrifice to have a productive marriage:
Prayer
Heavenly Father, creator of family and author of love, we come before You today with open hearts, seeking Your guidance and wisdom. We lift up every husband, wife, and child represented here. We ask that You bless our homes and transform them into sanctuaries of peace, joy, and productivity.
Lord, teach us the true meaning of sacrifice. Help us to lay down our selfishness, our pride, and our demanding spirits at the altar of Your grace. Give husbands the strength to love their wives sacrificially, give wives the wisdom to support their husbands wholeheartedly, and give children the spirit of obedience and honor. May our households reflect Your love to the world. Heal the broken places, mend the fractured relationships, and unite us in a common purpose to serve You and one another. In Your Holy Name We Pray. Amen.
The Subject: The Cost of a Productive Marriage
Scripture Focus: “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” — Ephesians 4:2-3
Dear brothers and sisters, today we are addressing a question that strikes at the very heart of our domestic lives: What are you willing to sacrifice to have a productive marriage?
We live in a culture that champions consumerism. The world tells us that if something stops working, or if it demands too much effort, we should discard it and look for an upgrade. Sadly, this mentality has crept into our living rooms and threatened our covenants. Many people want the benefits of a fruitful, peaceful, and productive marriage, but very few are willing to pay the price of admission. And make no mistake—a productive marriage costs something. It demands sacrifice.
A "productive" marriage is not just one that avoids divorce. It is a marriage that produces fruit: the fruit of the Spirit, which is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. It is a home where children thrive, where parents grow in character, and where the community is blessed by the family’s stability.
To achieve this, every member of the family has a specific altar of sacrifice.
1. To the Husbands: Sacrificing Power for Proactive Love
Husbands, Scripture calls you to love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her. Christ’s love was not passive; it was deeply sacrificial. To have a productive marriage, you must be willing to sacrifice your ego, your demand for control, and your isolated personal time.
Are you willing to sacrifice your need to always be right? Are you willing to lay down your exhaustion at the end of a long workday to emotionally tune in to your wife and actively engage with your children? A productive marriage requires a husband who initializes service, who listens with empathy, and who puts the emotional and physical well-being of his family above his own comfort.
2. To the Wives: Sacrificing Independence for Partnership
Wives, the modern world tells you that total independence is the ultimate goal. But a productive marriage requires a beautiful interdependence. To build a thriving home, you must be willing to sacrifice the safety of keeping one foot out the door, the desire to compare your spouse to others, and the habit of using critical or tearing-down language.
Are you willing to sacrifice the right to nurse old grudges? Are you willing to offer the grace of forgiveness and choose respect, even when your husband falls short of perfection? A productive marriage requires a wife who builds up her home with her words, acts as a trusted partner, and creates an environment where vulnerability can flourish.
3. To the Children: Sacrificing Self-Will for Honor
Children, you are a vital part of the ecosystem of the home. The Bible commands you to obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. To have a productive family and a peaceful household, you must be willing to sacrifice your self-will, your impatience, and the entitlement that says your desires come before everyone else's.
Are you willing to sacrifice your attitude when asked to help around the house? Are you willing to lay down your devices to truly look your parents in the eye and listen to their wisdom? When you choose respect over rebellion, you contribute directly to the peace and productivity of your parents' marriage and the stability of your home.
Conclusion
A productive marriage is never an accident. It is an intentional, daily architecture built on the foundation of mutual sacrifice. It requires us to trade our convenience for commitment, our pride for humility, and our personal agendas for a shared vision.
When husbands, wives, and children look at one another and say, "I am willing to lose a piece of my comfort so that we can win," the home changes. The atmosphere shifts from a battlefield of competing rights to a garden of shared blessings. Let us leave here today determined not to ask what we can get from our families, but what we are willing to give up to see them flourish.

10/11/2026


Note To Self:
It is Better to Bite Your Tongue than Eat Your Words.
Sometimes the greatest wisdom is not found in what you say, but in what you choose not to say. In moments of anger, frustration, pride, or emotion, words spoken too quickly can create wounds that take years to heal.
Scripture reminds us, “The one who has knowledge uses words with restraint” (Proverbs 17:27), teaching us that maturity is often revealed through self-control. A moment of silence can save a relationship, protect your reputation, and prevent unnecessary regret. Not every thought deserves expression, and not every battle deserves your response. Wise people understand that temporary emotional satisfaction is never worth permanent relational damage.

Today ask yourself: Am I speaking to bring life and wisdom, or merely reacting to my emotions? Pause before you respond, guard your tongue carefully, and remember that sometimes the strongest response is restraint.

10/11/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
To all husbands and wives and children
In Exodus 14:15, God told Moses to stop crying out in prayer and command the people to move forward because the time for action had arrived.
The Prayer
Heavenly Father,
We come before You tonight as families—husbands, wives, and children—seeking Your wisdom, strength, and direction. We thank You for the gift of family, designed by Your hand to be a reflection of Your love and unity.
Lord, we confess that there are times when we feel trapped between the seas of life's challenges and the armies of our fears. In those moments, we often find ourselves paralyzed, crying out in worry rather than walking in faith. Today, we ask that You shift our perspective. Melt away our hesitation, silence our anxieties, and ignite a holy courage within our hearts.
Bless every husband with the strength to lead with humility. Bless every wife with the grace to partner with wisdom. Bless every child with a spirit of obedience and growth. Help us to hear Your voice clearly when You tell us it is time to stop weeping and start walking. Grant us the faith to take the next step, trusting that You have already parted the waters ahead of us.
In Jesus' Name, We Pray. Amen.
The Subject:
Forward Momentum for the Family
Scripture Focus:
“Then the Lord said to Moses, ‘Why are you crying out to me? Tell the Israelites to move forward.’” — Exodus 14:15
Beloved, we find ourselves tonight looking at one of the most dramatic moments in biblical history. The Israelites are trapped. Behind them is the ruthless, pursuing army of Pharaoh. In front of them is the vast, impassable Red Sea. They are terrified, desperate, and crying out in fear. Moses does what any good leader would do: he begins to pray and cry out to God.
But God’s response to Moses is jarring. He doesn't offer a gentle whisper of comfort. Instead, He asks a sharp question: “Why are you crying out to me?” And then He gives a direct command: “Tell the Israelites to move forward.”
There is a profound theological truth packed into this moment that every husband, wife, and child needs to hear tonight:
There is a time for prayer, and there is a time for action.
1. For Husbands: Step Up and Lead the Way
Husbands, God has called you to be the spiritual leaders of your homes. Spiritual leadership does not mean having all the answers, nor does it mean sitting back and waiting for a perfect, risk-free environment before you protect or provide for your family.
When the bills pile up, when tension grips your marriage, or when your children are straying, it is easy to become paralyzed by fear. You might say, "I'm just praying about it," when in reality, you are hiding behind prayer because you are afraid to act. God is saying to you tonight: Stop standing still. Move your family forward. Take responsibility. Initiate reconciliation with your wife. Have that tough, loving conversation with your teenager. Lead by taking the first courageous step into the unknown.
2. For Wives: Partnering in Faith, Not Fear
Wives, God has designed you with incredible influence, intuition, and spiritual strength. In moments of family crisis, it can be entirely overwhelming to watch the horizon for incoming trouble. The temptation can be to try to control every outcome, to worry intensely, or to let anxiety dictate the atmosphere of the home.
When God told Moses to move forward, it required the entire community to trust the vision. Wives, moving forward means releasing the heavy burden of trying to control what only God can fix. It means locking arms with your husband, anchoring your children in faith, and actively choosing to step into the future without letting fear dictate your choices. Your action is found in your steadfast, unshakeable support and your refusal to let panic rule your household.
3. For Children: Walking in Obedience and Trust
Children and youth, imagine being a child on the shores of that sea. You are looking at your parents, and your parents are looking at the water. It must have been terrifying. But when the command came to move, the children had to pack up their things and walk right alongside their families.
Moving forward for you means trusting God and honoring your parents, even when the future looks confusing or stressful. It means choosing to move away from negative influences, laziness, or peer pressure. Your action tonight is to actively pursue what is right, to study hard, to respect your home, and to grow into the person God called you to be. Don't wait until you are "older" to live out your faith. Move forward now.
Conclusion
The Red Sea did not part while the Israelites were sitting in their tents crying. The waters parted only when their feet began to move.
As families, we cannot build strong marriages, thriving relationships, or faithful children by standing still on the shores of hesitation. Prayer is our vital foundation, but obedience is our forward motion. Whatever barrier your family is facing tonight —whether it is financial strain, marital distance, behavioral struggles, or emotional walls—the directive from Heaven is clear.
Stop letting fear paralyze your household. Trust the God who fights for you, pack up your doubts, and move forward together.

10/11/2026


Note To Self:
If you are a child of God, absolutely nothing in this life happens to you. Everything happens for you. No one ever does anything to you - everything, even the bad that is intended to harm you, God turns for your good. Every hurt, every disappointment, every discouragement, every teardrop, every wrong, every injustice, every attack, every bad-mouthing, even closed doors and stolen opportunities God will use to bless you now or in the future. God never lets anything happen to you that He doesn't turn for your good. Anything that God allows you to go through will benefit you in the long run. God never takes from you anything He does not replace with something better and more beneficial to you. Whatever is bothering you now is blessing your future. Trust God, rest in His promises, and resist the urge to complain. In His time, God will turn things in your favor. In His time and in a moment, God will restore tenfold everything you lost. In His time God will open doors that no one is able to close. Remember, "All things work together for the good……" Romans 8:28.

10/10/2026


STAY GRATEFUL & DO NOT COMPLAIN:
Marriage Thought:
To all husbands and wives and children:
A firm foundation of faith is built when families replace fear, worry, and doubt with trust and love.
The Prayer
Heavenly Father,
We come before You today as families—husbands, wives, and children—uniting our hearts in Your presence. Lord, You have not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind. Today, we collectively declare that we refuse to allow fear, worry, or doubt to determine our future.
We ask for Your divine protection over our homes. Grant husbands the wisdom to lead with love, wives the grace to support with strength, and children the peace to grow in Your light. When the storms of life bring uncertainty, anchor our hearts in Your truth. Let our households be sanctuaries of faith, joy, and hope.
In Your Holy Name, We Pray.
Amen.
The Subject:
Choosing Faith Over Fear in the Family
Scripture Focus:
“For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” – 2 Timothy 1:7
Beloved, we live in a world that constantly feeds us reasons to worry. As parents, you worry about your finances, your marriage, and the future of your children. As children, you face the pressures of school, friendships, and growing up in a chaotic world. It is easy to let the whispers of doubt dictate how we live, how we love, and how we look at tomorrow.
But today, we have made a powerful declaration:
"Today, I refuse to allow fear, worry, or doubt to determine my future."
To live out this declaration, every member of the family has a role to play.
1. Husbands: Lead with a Spirit of Power
Husbands, you are called to be the spiritual anchors of your homes. When economic uncertainty or life pressures strike, fear will tell you that you are not enough. Doubt will tell you that you will fail. But God has given you a spirit of power. Leading your family doesn't mean having all the answers; it means pointing your family to the One who does. Stand firm in faith, and let your family see you trust God instead of bowing to worry.
2. Wives:
Nurture with a Spirit of Love
Wives, your influence in the atmosphere of the home is profound. Worry is a thief that steals the peace of today by borrowing trouble from tomorrow. When you choose to reject anxiety, you cultivate an environment of love and security. Your faith becomes a shield. Speak words of life, hope, and encouragement over your spouse and your children, anchoring your family in God's promises.
3. Children:
Grow with a Sound Mind
Children, the world will try to fill your minds with confusion and insecurity. You might worry about fitting in or what the future holds. God's promise to you is a sound mind—a mind that is calm, clear, and steady. You do not have to carry the heavy burdens of tomorrow. Trust that your parents and your Heavenly Father are looking out for you. Rest in the knowledge that your future is secure in His hands.
Conclusion
Our futures are not defined by the anxieties of this world, but by the promises of God. When a family stands together and refuses to let fear, worry, and doubt rule their home, they become unstoppable. Tomorrow is not a threat; it is a canvas of God's faithfulness. Husbands, wives, and children—walk forward from this day knowing that the power within you is infinitely greater than any doubt before you.

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