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Nanny-On-Call, LLC Infant childcare in my home in the Ogden/Murryville area. I was a Therapeutic Parent for 14+ years.

Two degrees from UNCW (1985), background checks, training certifications, CPR and First Aid.

10/06/2026
10/04/2026

Some children become incredibly skilled at looking as though they are coping.

They follow the rules, watch their peers, rehearse what to say, suppress their discomfort and work incredibly hard to get through the school day.

Then they come home — and everything spills out.

For children who mask, particularly many autistic girls, what families see at home can look completely different from what school sees. That does not mean one environment has the “real” child and the other does not.

Sometimes the difference itself is important information.

Looking fine is not always the same as being fine.

Understanding the masking effect helps us look beyond what a child shows us and consider how much effort it may be taking to hold everything together.

Save this post for anyone supporting a child who seems to cope all day and falls apart once they are home.

10/04/2026

Taking away free time doesn't teach better behavior; it removes the very tool children need to achieve it. 🪁

When a child is struggling, stripping away their downtime or recess only spikes their stress. And as brain science tells us, a stressed brain cannot logically regulate itself.

By removing their outlet for stress relief, we're accidentally setting them up to fail. Letting them have downtime isn't "rewarding the behavior." It's making better behavior more achievable for them. 🤍

10/04/2026
09/27/2026

I’M NOT JUST LAUNCHING A BOOK. I’M BUILDING A FUTURE FOR MY SON. 💙📖

Three years ago, when I bought this T-shirt for my son, I thought it was cute.

“Yes, so what, I have autism. Keep staring. I may be your boss someday!”

At the time, it felt like a hopeful statement.

Today, it feels like a calling.

As I look at this photo now, I don’t just see a little boy standing proudly in front of a car.

I see the little boy who made me a mother.

The little boy who changed my entire life.

The little boy whose autism diagnosis shattered my heart one day, only for him to spend the years that followed teaching me what strength, resilience, and unconditional love truly look like.

There was a time when I cried behind closed doors.

A time when I worried constantly about his future.

Would he ever speak?

Would he ever be independent?

Would he ever find his place in this world?

Would people see his abilities, or only his challenges?

And then came the question that every autism parent fears but rarely says out loud:

What happens when my child becomes an adult?

Because autism doesn’t disappear at 18.

In many ways, that’s when the real battle begins.

The therapies become fewer.

The support becomes limited.

The opportunities become harder to find.

And suddenly, parents like me are left wondering who will believe in our children when the world stops seeing them as children.

That question has been sitting heavily on my heart for years.

And one day, I decided I could either live in fear…

Or I could start building.

Building opportunities.

Building stability.

Building a legacy.

Building something that could one day create a place for my son.

That is why this book means so much more than a memoir.

This book is my heart on paper.

It is the story of becoming a mother.

The story of autism.

The story of divorce.

The story of survival.

The story of learning how to stand back up when life knocks you down.

But most importantly, it is the beginning of a dream.

A dream that by the time my son turns 18, I will have built something meaningful enough that he can be part of it.

A business.

A platform.

A purpose.

A place where he can contribute.

A place where he can belong.

A place where he can be valued for who he is.

A place where he can wake up every day knowing he matters.

Because every child deserves the dignity of purpose.

Every child deserves opportunities.

And every autistic child deserves a future filled with possibility.

When people ask why I work so hard, why I advocate so much, why I’m pouring everything I have into this book launch, the answer is simple:

I’m fighting for my son’s future.

Not just for today.

Not just for next year.

But for the decades ahead.

Because one day I won’t be here to hold his hand.

And that thought terrifies me.

But what gives me peace is knowing that everything I do today can help create a better tomorrow for him.

So when you support my book launch, you’re not just buying a book.

You’re supporting a mother’s dream.

You’re helping turn fear into hope.

You’re helping turn uncertainty into possibility.

You’re helping build a future for a little boy who has already overcome more than most people will ever know.

One day, I pray I look back at this photo and smile.

Not because of the T-shirt.

But because the words became reality.

Because the little boy everyone worried about grew into a confident young man with purpose.

Because he found his place in this world.

Because he knew his mother never stopped believing in him.

And because a community of people believed in him too.

💙 To everyone who plans to support my memoir on July 30th, thank you. You are not just purchasing a book. You are investing in a dream, a future, and a young boy whose story is still being written.

💙📖

09/27/2026

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