03/30/2026
Parent Guide: Talking to Your Child About Loss
Dear Families,
Today, we shared with students the sad news that Callaway, a 4th grade student and the son of a high school teacher, has died following a recent illness. We understand this may bring up questions or emotions at home.
Here are some ways to support your child:
How to Talk With Your Child
• Use simple, honest language: “He died”
• Share only what you know—avoid guessing
• Follow your child’s lead—answer questions briefly
• It’s okay if your child doesn’t want to talk
Reassure Your Child
• Let them know they are safe
• Emphasize that many adults are here to care for them
• Maintain normal routines as much as possible
Common Reactions
Children may:
• Feel sad, confused, or worried
• Ask repeated questions
• Show changes in behavior (clinginess, irritability, quietness)
• Seem unaffected (this can also be normal)
When to Seek Extra Support
Consider reaching out if your child:
• Has ongoing difficulty sleeping or eating
• Shows intense anxiety or fear
• Talks about death frequently
• Has experienced a recent loss
Simple Ways to Help
• Spend extra time together
• Encourage expression through talking, drawing, or writing
• Limit exposure to upsetting media
• Keep routines consistent
If your child needs additional support, school counselors are available to help.
We appreciate your partnership in supporting your child during this time.
Sincerely,
Wilbur School District
