08/29/2026
🎯 Think About It Thursday: Saturday Debrief
This week's question was a little different...
📱 What happens when your child's phone ISN'T an option?
Maybe phones aren't allowed during school hours.
Maybe they forgot it.
Maybe the battery died.
Then something unexpected happens...
Their ride doesn't show.
Practice gets canceled.
Plans suddenly change.
Or an unfamiliar adult says:
"Your mom/dad asked me to pick you up."
Would your child know what to do?
Here's the biggest takeaway:
📵 Don't let the phone BE the plan.
Have a plan for when the phone isn't there.
Talk with your kids about the basics:
📞 Know important phone numbers.
At least one trusted adult's number should be memorized, not just saved in a phone.
🏫 Identify safe adults and places.
If plans change, can they return to the school, coach, teacher, office, security, or another predetermined safe location?
📍 Have a designated meeting place.
If a ride is late or plans get confused, establish where they should wait.
🚗 Know who is allowed to pick them up.
An adult knowing their name or saying, "Your mom sent me," isn't verification.
🔐 Consider a family code word.
If someone unexpectedly needs to pick them up, your child can ask for the word. No correct word? Don't go. And if the code is ever used, change it afterward.
🗣️ Give them permission to say NO.
Kids are often taught to respect adults. Make sure they also know they can refuse, create distance, return inside, and ask for help when something doesn't feel right.
And parents...
Don't assume they know the plan.
Ask them.
Give them a few unexpected situations and let THEM tell YOU what they would do.
You may discover a gap neither of you realized existed.
❤️ This Week's Challenge:
Take five minutes this weekend and create your family's No-Phone Backup Plan.
Because eventually...
The battery will die.
Plans will change.
Someone will be late.
Technology will fail.
Your child's safety plan shouldn't fail with it.
📚 LESSON LEARNED:
Don't let the phone BE the plan. Have a plan for when the phone isn't there.
🧠 Awareness gives you options. Options give you time. Time can save your life.
💬 Save this post. Share it with a parent, grandparent, caregiver, coach, or teacher. It might start a conversation a family hasn't had yet. ❤️🤔🎒