Lyssa’s LoveBugs

Supporting a child through a meltdown is not just about what we say or do.
It’s also about what is happening inside us.

Our nervous system responds to their overwhelm.
Their panic can trigger our panic.
Their intensity can activate our urgency.
Their distress can stir our own history of not feeling safe.

So before we can co-regulate a young person, we often need to regulate ourselves.
Not perfectly — just enough to stay steady.

This post shares supportive ways to stay regulated as the adult, so that we can be the grounding presence a child’s nervous system is reaching for in the storm.

Because when we are calm, predictable, and connected — the child feels safe enough to return to calm too.

If you’d like a deeper breakdown of every phase of the meltdown cycle — and how to respond at each stage without shame, fear, or urgency — you’ll find the full Timeline of a Meltdown resource via link in comments below ⬇️ or via Linktree Shop in Bio.

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I strive to create an open and loving environment for the children to flourish in. My goal is to provide a balance between structured, educational activities and open ended, child-led play that prepares my LoveBugs for kindergarten while still allowing them the space to be young and free. In the early years of development, I feel it is important to focus on creating a secure bond and being a positive role model. Providing consistency every day allows my LoveBugs to feel secure in their teacher. Building a long-lasting relationship with each LoveBug and their family will ensure we have the best days possible!

Newly licensed and now enrolling! Full time openings for all ages. Located in the cute and quiet Sunnyside neighborhood ☀️ I’m a provider that will always put your child first. Send me a message and schedule a tour!

Meet Tara - they live in the home and will be subbing for Miss Lyssa on occasion!

Meet Miss Lyssa - your child’s primary provider

We are officially open! ☀️🎉 Now enrolling toddlers (18mo+) to start as soon as April 7 - if you are looking for childcare that puts your child first, send a message or give me a call. I would love to hear from you!