06/03/2026
In a culture that encourages endless options, the real skill is learning how to recognize and nurture the right one. Comment “DATE” to get a link to set up your matchmaking portal!
The Date Maven
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Psycho-Spiritual + Tactical
Dating and Relationship Coaching
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Executive Matchmaking 💞🏹💕🌟 We love to help people learn how to enjoy dating again!
We help single men and women of all ages build attraction, connection, and relational respect. We also help them heal relational trauma and become the kind of person they want to attract. We further help our clients evaluate compatibility and develop dating and relationship skills. It’s our mission to provide psycho-spiritually focused guidance around a wide spectrum of dating topics including on
06/03/2026
05/28/2026
Ranking first date activities… which one do you agree with most? 👇
05/27/2026
The original “Define the Relationship” checklist ✅
05/26/2026
4 things you should learn on a first date so you don’t waste your time or theirs 👇
🧠 1. Their communication style
Do they communicate clearly, ask questions, and show curiosity about you?
🎯 2. Their intentions
Are they looking for a relationship, casual dating, or are they unsure? Clarity matters early.
🌱 3. Their level of emotional maturity
Can they take accountability, talk respectfully about past relationships, and regulate their emotions?
❤️ 4. Their values and lifestyle
Chemistry is great, but long term compatibility is built on shared values, priorities, and vision for life.
First dates are not about impressing someone.
They’re about gathering information and seeing if alignment exists.
05/21/2026
Challenge #1 - Video Games 🎮
The amount of time you spend on video games should match the amount of time you spend improving yourself at the gym or investing in your relationship!
Desirable women are attracted to men who are intentional with their time, energy, and attention.
My goal is to help men become more confident, emotionally aware, and successful in dating by teaching what strengthens attraction and what slowly disconnects relationships.
Got questions? Leave them in the comments below 👇
05/16/2026
Just popping on your feed for a little reintroduction 💌
Hi, I’m Suzanna! I’m a Dating and Relationship Coach, Matchmaker, TEDx Speaker, and Author helping modern singles create healthier and more meaningful relationships.
My work focuses on communication, confidence, emotional patterns, and intentional dating both online and in real life. I help clients move beyond dating frustration so they can build the kind of connection they truly want ❤️
Here, you’ll find dating advice, relationship insight, and practical tools to help you date with more clarity and self trust.
Ready to work together? Fill out the contact form at thedatemaven.com 🌹
05/04/2026
What is a soulmate?
I like Edgar Cayce's description of a soulmate as a connection with another person where the souls reconnect or pick up again in various times and places over lifetimes.
He explained we're attracted to another person at a soul level not because that person is our only unique complement, but because by being with that person, we are given an impetus to become whole ourselves.
What do you think? Have you experienced a soulmate dynamic? Was it healthy and sustainable? Did it usher in a specific kind of growth for you?
If you haven't experienced it as of yet, is it something you desire and hope for?
04/29/2026
Fun to be featured in the Wichita Business Journal this week!
Suzanna Mathews, Professionally Recognized at The Date Maven - Wichita Business Journal Connect with professionals in the Wichita business community. Wichita People on the Move.
Love isn’t something you find — it’s something you become aligned with internally.
Throw away the idea that you need to find a perfect partner or a flawless friend. All people are imperfect. What is possible is connecting with someone who is doing their own inner work. They will have more practice with authenticity, holding space, intentional growth, and self-awareness.
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