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Spiritual Engineering 1. Provides an easy to use and understand step-by-step system to guide individuals to fully access and utilize his or her personal power.

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Spiritual Engineering is a scientific and spiritual methodology that elevates consciousness, refines emotional intelligence, aligns your business with purpose, and advances human evolution. Utilizes a revolutionary new breakthrough technology that incorporates the best scientific methods and engineering practices to help individuals fully access and utilize their own internal reservoir of unlimited spiritual power to transform their lives.

2. Teaches specific, simple guidelines that help minimize and eliminate the unwanted emotions of anger, guilt, worry, fear, anxiety, jealousy and shame that are the root cause of unhealthy relationships.

4. Introduces the Natural Order of Things (N.O.T.) method of developing and maintaining happy, healthy and productive relationships.

5. Applies the Natural Order of Things (N.O.T.) methodology to develop healthy grieving skills for individuals who have lost a loved one to death, separation, or isolation

10/13/2026

IF WE’RE HEADED IN THE WRONG DIRECTION, GOD ALLOWS “U-TURNS”. ACTUALLY, HE’LL EVEN STOP TRAFFIC TO GIVE US THE OPPORTUNITY TO TURN.

October 13 from ?Totally Within ©"
“Heading the wrong direction” can apply to anything from living a totally destructive life-style to enjoying some actions that limit our potential or cause subtle harm; neither allows us to live our best life. We may have to repeatedly suffer before we are ready to give up what is hurting us and try something different.

This act of surrendering and becoming willing sets in motion a response from God (the universe, spiritual forces) that opens doors and provides opportunities to accomplish that change.

Suddenly, we meet that right person who shares a perspective that guides us in our new direction; we hear a song that sings the exact words we need to hear at exactly the right time; we see or hear a phrase repeated that has a special meaning, that guides us into new ideas or actions. We get news of unexpected surprises that offer solutions to some of our problems; something happens, we experience a slight change in circumstances or in our attitude that lets us see solutions to previously unresolved challenges.

As we pray or merely deeply breathe in gratitude of our new direction, we feel an overwhelming sense of peace, security, and love that reassures us that we are on the right path.
God responds to our desire to change direction anytime.

Prayer: My loving creator parent and indwelling spirit, help me release anything in my life that separates me from you, that prevents me from doing your will and enjoying the best life I can live.
Take three relaxing breaths; ask your inner spirit to guide your meditation; pause for a few minutes in silence.

10/12/2026

IF I THINK MY PARTNER SHOULD NEVER IMPOSE ON ME, I MAY BE BETTER OFF WITH A PET THAN A HUMAN.

October 12 from "Totally Within©"

Whether in an intimate relationship or a casual one, we may sometimes feel like the other person is imposing on us. We pause and remember “Whenever I am upset, there is something wrong with me” and realize that we may be succumbing to unhealthy expectations, self-pity, or over-sensitivity. Or, someone may actually be imposing beyond what is acceptable. Now what do we do about it?

If this is an intimate relationship, we accept that we are both human; no one is perfect. Both of us will make mistakes; acknowledging and correcting these is part of building a wonderful union; we view the intermittent upsets as speed bumps, not barricades. We acknowledge everything that this person does for us, the little gifts that they contribute to our life.

In all relationships, we pause and take positive action when we first feel the discomfort. We determine if unhealthy expectations, our state-of-mind, or over-sensitivity contribute to our reaction; were we tired, anxious, hectic, or already carrying an emotional burden? Or did we have plans and find it difficult to fit this in? We pause and pray for tolerance, patience, compassion, and love. But we must also honestly evaluate: Is this truly an unacceptable imposition? If so, we need to find ways to respond with dignity, love, and poise.

Prayer: Dear God, if I feel that someone is imposing on me, help me first to see any shortcomings of mine that contribute to this feeling and become willing to change. Guide me to act with love, tolerance, and patience in all I do.
Take three relaxing breaths; ask your inner spirit to guide your meditation; pause for a few minutes in silence.

10/11/2026

SELFISH, SELF-CENTERED, AND SELF-RIGHTEOUS MOTIVES CAUSE MOST OF OUR MISERY.

October 11 from Totally Within©"

• Selfishness occurs when I seek something for my own advantage, pleasure, or well-being without regard for others. It includes all thoughts, words, or actions that focus on obtaining my own desires without consideration of others.
• Self-centeredness searches all events that impinge on my life and focuses on how they impact me—what is their relationship to what I want, what I need, what I think should happen? Everything is judged by its potential effect on the heart and soul of my universe–me. Self-pity is a variation of this.
• Self-righteousness refers to overconfidence in my rightness, or being smugly moralistic and intolerant of the opinions of others. I think I’m right and pay little attention to other peoples’ ideas; I don’t need to follow directions; I believe that I either know the best answer or can figure it out. This prideful attitude sheds constructive criticism and limits opportunities for growth.

We harm ourselves any time we engage in even a smidgen of these traits but much of what we see, hear, or experience seems to support that these are a normal part of the modern world.

However, we have chosen a different path and it’s our responsibility to avoid them like a plague. We want to stay aware of anytime they enter our life and take action to insure that they do not take root and grow.
Prayer: My inner spirit, my guide and power, help me recognize any time I indulge in self-directed will. Grant me the power to stop immediately and seek your presence and guidance.
Take three relaxing breaths; ask your inner spirit to guide your meditation; pause for a few minutes in silence.

10/10/2026

October 10 from "Totally Within©"

PRAY BEFORE YOU ACT—NOT AFTER.

If we decide to commit su***de, we can go to the roof of a ten-story building and jump off. Then, on the way down as we pass the eighth floor, we realize that this was a terrible idea and change our mind; we can have tremendous faith and pray as hard as we can, but we’re going to splatter on the ground. God will not suspend the law of gravity to save us from our poor choices and stupid actions.

However, if we sincerely ask for help when making our decision to jump—before taking the action—God definitely responds. He’ll provide an opportunity to make a wiser decision. The turmoil inside lessens; a thought suddenly flashes into our mind that offers a different perspective, provides an opportunity for hope, or supplies an obvious solution; we notice the beauty and peace in a previously unnoticed sunset and our inner uproar starts to quiet; or someone suddenly appears out of nowhere to talk with us—and say the exact thing we need to hear at that moment. Something will occur that presents an opportunity to see things from a different perspective.

God often does not always give us the burning bush or hit us with a lightning bolt but quietly offers us better alternatives if we pray before we act. Then it’s our choice which option we take.

Prayer: Dear God, help me not to hurt anyone or myself with rash actions; grant me that moment of clarity so I pause and pray before I act. Let me not make any unnecessary choices when I am suffering pain or misery; help me be willing to turn to you for the help you so freely offer.
Take three relaxing breaths; ask your inner spirit to guide your meditation; pause for a few minutes in silence. J Strawser, Engineering

10/09/2026

SOMETIMES THE BEST WAY TO SOLVE ENTANGLED PROBLEMS IS TO FORSAKE THEM FOR A TIME.

October 9 from "Totally Within ©"

We may still hit those times in life where real or imagined problems overwhelm us; we try to sort things out but become imbedded in the problem; we pray, but peace and real solutions elude us. Sometimes, walking away and taking time off often yields new answers.

This removal treatment might require a few hours or a few days depending on how deep our disturbance; our goal is to break the ingrained thought-feeling pattern that dominates our mind.
We utilize physical, mental, and spiritual resources to attain rest, relaxation, and diversion. If possible, we change our environment: We might opt for a nature activity and take an afternoon or weekend for camping, hiking, rafting, or taking a photography excursion; we might go to a movie and dinner, go to the park and read an interesting book, visit family or a friend we haven’t seen for some time. We might decide we need a short vacation or enjoy some silence at a retreat. Whatever we do, we spend some quiet time reviewing our blessings and do not allow our mind to drift and engage the original chaos.

We’ll go back with a clearer head and steadier hand. Many times an obvious solution that we previously overlooked suddenly appears; or, we may realize that the pressing problems were really creations of exaggerated fear or false “big deals” that were not really important.

Prayer: I pray that I know when I need to remove myself from entangled problems; grant me the insight, strength, and courage to walk off, become engaged in another activity, seek and find inner peace, and then return.
Take three relaxing breaths; ask your inner spirit to guide your meditation; pause for a few minutes in silence.

10/08/2026

GOD LOVED US AS MUCH WHEN WE WERE MEAN, NASTY, AND UN-LOVING AS HE DOES ON OUR BEST DAYS.

August 8 from "Totally Within©"

He loves the homeless as much as the pope the death row prisoner as much as the preacher, and the drunk as much as the charitable. His love is not based on our actions or success.

Everyone has had bad days—those times when we do things that are so much less than what we want to be—and it’s important to remember that our mistakes, poor decisions, being mired in self-pity, anger, blame, or resentment, even our participation in meanness or outright evil never cause our loving parent to love us less. We are children of the divine; the devotion and love flowing from our spiritual parent to us does not depend on our beliefs, desires, or acts; it is natural outpouring from a loving parent to any child.

To feel that love, to experience it in the deepest places of our being, it has to flow through us to others.

Each day, we try to do a little better than yesterday; we strive to understand; we try to be patient, kind, forgiving, tolerant, and compassionate; we acknowledge our errors and try to learn from them, always staying aware of “the kingdom of heaven within”, our indwelling spirit that connects us to the infinite.

Prayer: Dear God, thank you for loving me; thank you for your forgiveness, mercy and grace; thank you for loving me when I am unlovable, sheltering me when afraid, giving me strength when weak.
Take three relaxing breaths; ask your inner spirit to guide your meditation; pause for a few minutes in silence.

10/07/2026

October 7 from "Totally Within©"

PRAYER MOVES US TOWARD DIVINE VALUES.

The world and our animalistic nature draw us to live by self-driven will; prayer gradually but unfailingly changes our motives, thoughts, and actions to a higher level. We enjoy

• peace of mind, the feeling that all is well. We discover the ability to match calamity with calmness and feel the certainty that everything will work out;
• enhanced mental clarity. We become able to see answers that previously eluded us. Our mind becomes more focused; our mental efficiency increases. We experience fewer problems and find easier resolution to challenges and conflict;
• increased awareness that certain habits create much of our misery. This often leads to a commitment to replace them with higher levels of behavior;
• a new consciousness of being able to choose an alternative way of acting or reacting. We don’t have to allow other people to dictate our feelings; we have a choice plus the tools to implement our decisions; and
• a sense of direction that aligns with our purpose in life. When facing a decision, we may experience an intuitive feeling that one direction is better than the alternative; we may see an underlying motive that helps us honestly evaluate our options and discern a better way.

Prayer: Dear God, bring peace to my mind and cleanse my motives; let me feel your divine presence flood my mind and my very being with values and attributes that reflect the worth of your child. By your grace, guide my mind to be a blessing instead of a barrier.
Take three relaxing breaths; ask your inner spirit to guide your meditation; pause for a few minutes in silence.

10/06/2026

LACK OF ATTENTION OFTEN PRODUCES MISTAKES AND REGRETS.

October 6 from "Totally Within©"

We’re driving and our mind wanders to what someone said or did; we become immersed in the mental images and then, the accident happens. Or—we’re doing a task; our mind spins off to something else; then, we make a mistake that ruins the project or makes us have to do everything over again. Or—we have a good relationship or job; we take it for granted and fail to give it the attention required; then, our self-made problems threaten something very important to us.

From relationships to accidents to the mundane, lack of attention causes preventable problems. Our actual version of living in the moment may be a little closer to “Oh yes, living in the moment is a great idea! But I’m too busy to pay attention to the details!”

Combining a little hindsight with a smidgen of insight makes it obvious that we’ll make fewer mistakes if we concentrate on the details of each task as we do it. As we engage in any activity, we train our self to become aware of, and to avoid physical, mental, and emotional distractions; we discipline our mind, forcing it to concentrate on the task at hand even if we have to constantly make it return to where it should be. We give appropriate attention to those things that are important to us or those whose failure might have highly undesirable consequences—our relationships, our career, driving a car, and others. Such moment-by-moment awareness avoids preventable problems, saves us from a lot of hurtful consequences, and helps us gain control of our mind so that we can appreciate and live every moment.

Today, let us be aware of mental detours and bring our mind back to the activity in front of us and the moment at hand.

Prayer: My inner spirit, help me be aware anytime my thoughts try to avoid the moment; give me the strength to discipline my mind and make it return to the task at hand.
Take three relaxing breaths; ask your inner spirit to guide your meditation; pause for a few minutes in silence.

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