The Seduxe

02/13/2025

Or… it could be the last V-Day you spend alone…..

Your choice! If you’re tired of being single, but struggle with how to approach cute strangers and how to start conversations (that go somewhere) I got you!!

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Pssst : don’t let your annoyance or fear hold you back any more…..

01/15/2025

Does this happen to you too?! 😓

Why is it so much easier to talk to people we’re not interested in?? Because there is no pressure and no expectation.

Are you doomed to ever meet someone in person if this is the case? Not at all - when you learn how to overcome it.

I might know someone who can help you with that (me 😘) Just DM and ask

OP:

01/07/2025

If you don’t like someone enough for a second date, but still want to be a good person and not ghost them, what do you say?

Use this formula (swap out distance for whatever)

Being kind and respectful, even when rejecting someone is just good karma. I mean, what if you match with her friend?? She’ll have nice things to say 😉😉😉

What’s YOUR go-to way to let someone down easy after a date? COMMENT below 👇

12/06/2024

Not to mention your bad spelling (and cheapness)….. RULE OF THUMB:

Attacking strangers (and looking uneducated and stingy doing it) is the number one to stay perpetually single AND get reported for bad behavior on the app.

If you don’t agree with someone - SWIPE LEFT. Easy. Insulting someone else on their dating journey will not make yours any easier.

What about YOU? Any matching nightmares to share in the comments below 👇???

11/22/2024

How do you gracefully turn someone down?

By stating off with appreciation and acknowledgement!

Even when someone is not a good fit, you can always find something to appreciate about them (before you let them down)

This way, they walk away feeling respected (and like not all hope is lost) and you walk away being a kind person who keeps people feeling stable on this rocky journey called dating.

❌ no need to tell them WHY
❌ you don’t owe them anything further
❌ it doesn’t make them feel bad (cause, would you want someone to do that to you?

✅ you didn’t ghost them
✅ they will respect you even if they’re mad at you
✅ they may think of you as a good fit for someone else down the road because you handled this the right way

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11/13/2024

11/10/2024

Dating truly is a numbers game - sometimes it takes you a lot of time & tries to find your One.

Have questions on how to do this? I might have some answers for you. Drop me a DM, leave me a comment, or be bold & schedule a Solving Single Strategy Session with me via the link in bio.

11/01/2024

Is this advice you need to hear??

One of the pitfalls of dating is that we are so happy to have “found someone” after a long, frustrating search, that we are willing to turn a blind eye to the 🚩🚩🚩 just so we don’t have to be single again!!

And while it IS nice to have somebody…. It’s not worth the cost if the 🚩🚩🚩 out number the ✅✅✅

When you’re willing to put up with 💩it’s a very strong indicator that you are missing some self love!

Because if you truly loved yourself, you wouldn’t be afraid to stay single until you met a great partner (not just a warm body)

Dating coaching isn’t just about getting into a relationship but about falling in love with yourself first and going from there

If you have a pattern of bad partners or have a hard time being single, it’s time for us to have a chat!

DM me to book a strategy call and let’s solve your single together

OP:

10/28/2024

It’s a great feeling! But can also be veeeery misleading....

Just because you have intense initial attraction to someone is NO indicator of long term success.

NOT having that feeling is ALSO not a good indicator of failure — 75% of happy long term couples say that they did NOT feel that intense spark when they first met. And that their love & passion grew over time.

Time again I get date feedback that they didn’t feel that “spark” and they decline a second date. When it’s sadly so obvious they’re actually very good together.

Hallmark and Hollywood have sold us a terrible lie that that initial feeling if Koi No Yokan is a MUST HAVE in order to fall in love
In fact, feeling strong initial attraction (especially physical) can be quite dangerous (you have your eyes on the wrong prize).

If you have a bad love picker, I can probably help you with that. DM me.

10/20/2024

Remember that ex you wanted to marry? And how now when you look at them, they just don’t seem that great, or better yet, they’re downright repellent?
I’m a firm believer that people come into our lives (and us into theirs) for a reason. Or as they say “a reason, season or a lifetime”
Oftentimes, if it’s someone who breaks our heart, the reason is to teach us that we need to love ourselves more

Part of my mission is to help heal the broken hearted - learning to see how unattractive an ex is (actually or spiritually) isn’t always easy to do on your own, neither is learning to love yourself, so if you’d like some guidance on that (and more) sign up for a Solving Single Strategy Session in my bio and let’s talk.

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10/16/2024

We’ve all been there 🙁
Having to reject someone who so earnestly wants to give their heart sucks... but when this happens it’s usually because they are hungry to give it to SOMEONE - anyone..... Which never feels good for either person...
Don’t go into dating trying to fill a person shaped hole in your life!
And definitely don’t fall in love based on LOOKS alone!!! (Dumbest strategy EVER) 🔥 Other people can sense that hunger and desperation and it’s repellent! 🔥
Go into dating as a whole and complete person looking for a partner and you’ll find the process so much less painful and far more rewarding
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A) because you are looking for someone specific to grow with NOT someone with a warm body and a pretty face who is going to save you from your loneliness
B) when an attempt doesn’t work out, it won’t be nearly as disappointing because it won’t feel like your “last chance” was ripped away from you. You know you have a lot to offer to the right person
C) when someone can sense that you’re truly into THEM, and they feel the same way, true love magic can happen!

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