07/27/2024
See? She exchanged flirty letters with lots of men at the time. Not just Hamilton!
Ever had a crush on someone who was… just not that into you? Thomas Jefferson appears to have had just such a crush on Alexander Hamilton’s sister-in-law, Angelica Schuyler Church.
Jefferson and Church met in Paris in 1787 while Jefferson was serving as Minister France, and they became friends, exchanging letters frequently. Jefferson’s letters got pretty flirty— one letter read ““I think I have discovered a method of preventing this dejection of mind on any future parting. It is this, When you come again I will employ myself solely in finding or fancying that you have some faults & I will draw a veil over all your good qualities, if I can find one large enough.” Love-bombing like this was typical in letters of the time, but Jefferson took it further.
in 1788, Jefferson suggested that Angelica visit him at Monticello, where they could visit Virginia’s Natural Bridge. Jefferson also suggested that they could take a trip together to Niagara Falls. Describing their possible sleeping arrangements, Jefferson stated “You shall find in me all the spirit of accommodation with which Yorick began his with the fair Piedmontese” a reference to a suggestive scene in a popular novel where a character must spend the night in a room with a woman and her chamber maid.
Jefferson and Angelica continued to exchange letters, and Jefferson continued to suggest they get together. In 1793 he again expressed hope that Angelica visit him: “I often put the question Whether yourself and Kitty will ever come to see your friends at Monticello? But it is my affection, and not my experience of things, which has leave to answer. And I am determined to believe the answer; because, in that belief, I find I sleep sounder and wake more cheerful”. And yet again in 1797, on hearing that Angelica had recently arrived back in the United States: “Tho’ you have taken so great a step, there is still a wide space between us. I shall entertain the hope that we may meet at this place, as on a middle ground. Perhaps you may find it not unpleasant in winter to get this much nearer the sun”.
Alas for Jefferson, each invitation ended up with Angelica leaving him on read.