Candice Cherry, Pleasure Coach

Happy National S*x Day. Yes, we know why it's on 6/9. . . Now that we've gotten the obvious joke out of the way 😄 Some of the most interesting conversations about pleasure have nothing to do with s*x.

Today's article is about giving, receiving, and why balance might be one of the s*xiest things there is.

Read it here: https://popwithcherry.com/diaries

Then come back and tell me: Are you better at giving or receiving? 😏

Happy National S*x Day. 💋 Yes, we know why it's on 6/9.

And if your plans tonight involve amazing bedroom adventures, I wish you the very best in your extracurricular activities.

But here's the reminder I give to my community . . If s*x is on the menu, pleasure is the restaurant.

So whether you're celebrating with a partner, a ridiculously good meal, a long shower, or a nap that changes your personality

Enjoy it on purpose

Can I give you permission for something today?

Permission to not have your pleasure life figured out.

We live in a world that rewards certainty. Knowing. Having answers. And when it comes to something as personal and layered as pleasure and desire, many women feel shame that they haven't "mastered" it yet.

But pleasure isn't a subject to ace. It's a relationship to tend. You just need to stay curious and keep going.

Wherever you are right now . . . even if it's confused, or numb, or "I genuinely don't know what I want", that is a completely valid starting place.

Actually, it might be the best one.

“Frigid” was never a real medical diagnosis.
It was a label used to shame women whose desire, pleasure, boundaries, or bodies didn’t fit someone else’s expectations.

Women have been taught to question themselves instead of questioning the misinformation.

You are not broken for needing comfort, safety, connection, communication, lubrication, slower touch, different touch… or no touch at all. 🍒

Pleasure was never supposed to be one-size-fits-all.

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A quick reminder...

The Founding Student rate for Pleasure U-niversity Premium ends tonight at 11:59 PM.

Over the last six months, Premium has grown into so much more than a membership. It's become a space for real conversations, deeper learning, accountability, reflection, and community.

Inside Premium you'll find:

✨ Monthly themes and extra lessons
✨ Wined Down Wednesday
✨ Late Nite Lab
✨ Cinema & Sensuality
✨ Sunday Pleasure Check-Ins
✨ Simmer Pages
✨ The Pleasure Review
✨ Quarterly Coaching Calls
✨ Resource library and workshop replays
And more . . .

Right now, you can join for $36/month or $300/year.

Starting tomorrow, Premium will be $49/month.

And while $49 won't be the forever price, it won't stay there forever either.

If you've been thinking about joining, now is the time to lock in the Founding Student rate before it's gone.

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Because pleasure isn't a luxury. It's a practice.