10/13/2026
I was playing with my little Remi mare today. I was asking her to be light off my legs and seat. When I replayed the video I realized something else. Look how tuned in she is. Ears listening, trying hard not to miss a cue. And she's content. No pinning ears no head tossing just honest and responsive.
Training the fundamentals is easy. Training the horse to want to try takes thought and consistency. Mostly it takes being present. Mind body and soul. Have you ever had a conversation with someone and they checked their phone or they're looking around the room or the interrupt you or they say Aha and they have no idea what you just said?
I see it everyday with riders on their horses they're asking for things but they're not present they're not paying attention to the things that really matter . Their not part of the conversation! I'm not saying my horses are perfect or that they don't have grumpy days but I will tell you for the most part they're happy to cooperate and they try hard. Take a few minutes next time you ride or better yet take a few minutes next time you're in a group of riders watch what the horses are telling everyone around them that nobody's bothering to listen to. Its a skill it must be learned and you must see the importance or you won't appreciate it.
If your interested in understanding more about this please feel free to reach out. Your horse gives you a lot. If you expect his best then you need to show up at your best as well. Consistency, timing and feel.
Till next time.
Always Stay Humble and Kind