07/04/2026
This story has been all over the news lately, with very heated discussions about whether the shooting was justified or not. I've seen multiple videos from different angles, and while I'm sure there's more information out there that the public isn't seeing yet, here are my thoughts on this:
Was this something worth getting into a fight about? Absolutely not. It's a parking space. Both of them were wrong in arguing about this. So yes, both of them were in the wrong. And yes, when someone pulls a gun on you (legally or not), it's probably a good time to disengage. But you can't shoot someone just for being an idiot.
Was there anything else she could have done? This is exactly why I train my students that even if you have a CCL and carry a fi***rm, carry a non-lethal option as well (e.g., pepper spray). When all you have is a fi***rm, everything starts to look like a lethal threat ("When the only tool you have is a hammer, every problem looks like a nail"). This is an ideal situation (and long before it got to this point) to use pepper spray and get out of there.
Why did she decide to shoot at this moment in time? Florida is a 'Stand Your Ground' state, but you still must be able to articulate a reasonable fear of death or great bodily harm. She had been retreating for a while (moving around the other vehicles), so why all of a sudden did she pull the trigger? He didn't lunge, he didn't square up, he didn't have a weapon, so what made her change her mind, stop retreating, and pull the trigger? It's possible he said something that was threatening, but his body posture does not show a change indicating an imminent threat.
Was she an "innocent party" in this? Most of the videos being shown are the last 30-45 seconds of the incident - not the full thing. There are videos that show the whole incident from the start to finish. At one point during the incident she is seen in her car with him out of frame - meaning she had every opportunity to leave. And while she has no legal obligation to get out of there, be smart and leave. Instead, she got out of her car with her gun in hand. This is (in my non-lawyer fi***rm instructor opinion) where she's lose out on the 'Stand Your Ground' law. This is the point where she isn't standing her ground, but approaching and being the aggressor. Being in the relative safety of your vehicle (as he had no displayed weapon) then leaving it to re-engage is a very poor choice - and the one that may lead her to getting jail time.
Both parties made mistakes. One person lost his life because of it, the other may lose her freedom. Don't fight over stupid stuff - your life isn't worth a parking spot.
The incident occurred midday Tuesday in North Lauderdale and was captured on cellphone and dashcam video obtained by ABC News.