08/25/2026
I work with these behaviors every day in the classroom, and one thing I’ve learned is that sometimes we know the behavior we want to stop—we just don’t know what to SAY in the moment.
So I put together a FREE little resource for my parents, teachers & fellow educators.
Sometimes it’s not about being more strict—it’s about having the right words in the moment. 💗
These 5 simple “What to Say Instead” phrases can help you redirect behavior while still being gentle, clear & firm with your boundaries.
And remember:
✨ Gentle doesn’t mean giving in.
✨ Firm doesn’t mean being harsh.
✨ We can acknowledge a child’s feelings AND still hold the boundary.
I created a FREE Gentle & Firm: What Can I Say Instead? Quick Guide for parents & teachers so you can have these phrases handy when you need them.
Comment “GENTLE” below and I’ll send you the link! 💗