Break Free from Divorce Heartbreak - Angie Hooper Coaching

12/24/2023

What if this was the last holiday you had to white-knuckle it through family dinner?

While you're getting ready for family dinner, some of y'all will be calling the turkey hotline, some of y'all need to listen to this.

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12/23/2023

The problem with hanging on to heartbreak isn't just how awful it feels. It's also how that heartbreak holds you back from building what you want in every part of your life.

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12/21/2023

12/21/2023

Regret, heartbreak, second-guessing yourself...

What do you want to leave behind in 2023?

08/14/2023

Eating Leftovers Over the Kitchen Sink

I used to imagine that if I got divorced, I would end up alone eating ravioli out of a can over the kitchen sink. And, frankly, the day I knew I was getting divorced was the day that “ravioli over the kitchen sink” sounded better than staying in the relationship. The whole idea of being a "party of one" can trigger feelings of isolation and insecurity, leaving us fearful that we’ll never find genuine companionship, much less emotional security.

The common solutions we turn to, like jumping into another relationship, window-shopping on dating apps, or filling the void with social events, often lead to superficial connections that don't address the underlying fears we carry. But we do it because we’re afraid of making the same relationship mistakes.

It's time for a new strategy.

Introducing Break Free from Divorce Heartbreak, a program designed to help you overcome your fear of repeating the same ol’ relationship mistakes by showing you how to break free from past heartbreak. And clear your path to build meaningful connections.

Because there’s nothing less romantic on a first date than someone who tells the story of how their Ex did them wrong. But when you’re stuck in a Grudge Loop, you feel like you can’t stop yourself from talking about it.

(And then you wonder why he didn’t ask you out again….)

We'll dive deep into understanding your heartbreak and fears, and help you clear them for good.

Imagine how differently your next relationship will unfold when you know exactly how to stop yourself from ending up with another version of your Ex. When you have the energy in the present to open yourself up to the possibility of real connection, instead of staying stuck in the past. Imagine being the version of you that fearlessly forms deep connections built on trust, vulnerability, and emotional security. That's the power of Break Free from Divorce Heartbreak.

If you're ready to break free from the fear of repeating your past relationships and embrace the journey towards authentic connection, simply hit reply and let me know. I'll make sure you get the heads up when enrollment opens.

Remember, you're not alone in this. We're here to walk beside you every step of the way.

08/13/2023

It’s Never Too Late to Be “the One Who Got Away”

I wanted to share something important with you today that we don’t talk about often enough.. After my divorce, I went through a period where I felt like I lost a part of myself. I questioned my worth, my purpose, and my identity. It was a challenging time, but it ultimately led me to embark on a journey of self-discovery and reinvention.

You see, the problem many high achieving women face after divorce is not just the divorce itself, but losing who we thought we were. We bury the pain under another layer of busy-ness and confuse feeling essential with feeling loved. Especially when what we’re burying is the pain of a relationship that fell apart. Even when we admit we need help, we often try to DIY with surface-level self-help advice and affirmations. But that’s a band-aid at best, and kicking the can at worst.

That's why I created Break Free from Divorce Heartbreak. It's a program that goes beyond surface-level affirmations and generic self-help advice. It guides you through a process of reclaiming yourself and helps you redefine your identity on your terms. Through guided exercises, personalized coaching, and step-by-step instructions, you'll rediscover your true self and embrace your power.

Imagine feeling a renewed sense of self-confidence and purpose. Picture yourself stepping into your new chapter with grace and authenticity. That's what Break Free from Divorce Heartbreak can mean to you.

If you're ready to embrace your empowered identity post-divorce and unleash your full potential, simply comment below and let me know. I'll make sure you're the first to know when the program opens for enrollment.

Stay strong and remember, your best days are still ahead.

08/12/2023

Hey, I'm about to tell on myself...
I want to share something with you that I don’t normally talk about. It's something that I believe will resonate with a lot of people, especially anyone who's recently gone through a divorce.

You see, I'm not just your average kick-booty attorney. Yes, you may know me as a career-driven and successful lawyer and leagal consultant, but there's another side of me that I want to open up about. When I went through my own divorce, I experienced a whirlwind of emotions that left me feeling overwhelmed and in emotional turmoil.

In fact, one afternoon as I was writing a check to my Ex (yeah, I was on the “payor” side of the divorce), I held my pen hovering over the memo line. I was so angry. I was about to write “I hope you choke on this check” and stopped myself. I had to admit that I was becoming the “bitter Ex” that I had swore I would never become.

That moment with the check was a sign that I was caught in what I call the "grudge loop." Every day, I would wake up consumed by anger, bitterness, and resentment towards my ex. It affected every aspect of my life – my work, my relationships, and my ability to move on and find happiness.

One day, I realized how my anger (and my desire for my Ex to “get what he deserved”) was turning me into the cliche of “bitter ex-wife”. Turning me into a version of myself that I didn’t really like and barely recognized. I started searching high and low for answers. I read countless self-help books, went to workshops, gave therapy a shot, and even tried all kinds of coping mechanisms. But no matter what I did, I couldn't seem to break free from the cycle of negativity.

It was during that time that I realized there was a gap in the support available for high-achievers. We were told to forgive, to let it go, but no one would ever explain how to do it. That's when I realized that if I wanted to be free from the past, I was going to have to figure out the steps for myself.

Over the course of three years, I started pulling together the pieces of the puzzle. One piece I found by walking away from a charismatic and controversial guru. I found another during an intense personal growth workshop. More pieces through lesson outlines I’d created during 16 years of teaching adult spiritual development. Even what I’d learned about human behavior from 20+ years of negotiating complex commercial transactions. I dove deep into all of my resources, courses, and experiences. When I broke through, I realized that I had developed the steps to break free and call back my soul from where it was stuck in the past with my Ex.

(And I realized that none of the steps required having a particular spiritual or religious point of view. Being a human who wants freedom from the past is enough.)

Once I had liberated myself from the Grudge Loop, I wanted to help others. I created a unique and comprehensive program called Break Free from Divorce Heartbreak. It's designed to guide ambitious career women like us through the straightforward process of healing, letting go, and finding true happiness after divorce.

In the coming days, I'll be sharing some posts that break down the ten biggest struggles women face when trying to get over their ex. I'll share stories, insights, and practical tips to help you overcome these challenges and create a life you truly love.

If you resonate with what I've shared so far, I encourage you to stay tuned for the upcoming posts. Just comment to this post, or like and follow the page, to let me (and your newsfeed!) know you're interested in learning more about Break Free from Divorce Heartbreak. This is the moment for us to embark on a transformative journey together, where you'll find the support, guidance, and tools you need to break free from divorce heartbreak.

Remember, this isn't just about healing; it's about having fun, embracing life's possibilities, and becoming the woman your friends look at and say, "She's the one who finally got over her ex!" And hey, you might even leave your Ex wondering how he let you slip away.

If you have a friend or family who would benefit from learning more about this, feel free to tag them or share this post. Together, we can create a community of strong, empowered women who are ready to break free and embrace their new beginnings.

Stay tuned for the next post, where we'll dive into the first struggle on our list. I can't wait to share more with you!

04/25/2023

Is this still what you think of when you hear “perfect date”?

If you’re having trouble moving forward after your divorce or breakup, join me in my new free private Facebook group “Overcoming Divorce Heartbreak”.

I’m sharing the steps to break free from divorce heartbreak without waiting for an apology, pretending “it’s ok”, giving up your power.

Comment “perfect date” to get a personal invite from me or go to https://angiehooper.com/rules for more info 💖🧥

04/14/2023

Are you ready to break free from heartbreak? Watch this to find out more about how I help people free themselves from the pain of the past without staying stuck in a 'grudge loop', waiting for an apology, or saying "it's ok"