08/26/2024
Part 2: Introduction to a Liar
THIS IS A LONG READ, BUT IS NECESSARY BEFORE ALL TEXTS COMING IN PART 3 AND EVERYTHING TO FOLLOW. SO SIT BACK AND GET INTO IT BECAUSE AFTER THIS....THE REAL JOURNEY WITH A PSYCHO BEGINS.
With CPS stepping in, that particular guy that MD had been with was immediately nabbed on a warrant for violating probation due to popping dirty and was locked up for a long time. So that month and a half came to an end and he was gone for good, never to make a return. Now as I said prior, MD and her 3 boys were with me after that and BD had ended things with his current gf. MD had been really hoping with the way things were going that BD would truly make an effort to be in his sons' lives this go around because as I said she would take them to stay at his apartment and he would come see them during this period of time. Like this was going to be the last shot we gave him at this because it was affecting the boys everytime he would do this s*t then just abandon them or choose something else over them. They were old enough to realize s*t for themselves now. MD had to learn a hard lesson, but she did everything 100% to show that she was truly sorry that her judgement had disrupted their lives for a bit, and she immediately got a job, did not drink, was going to college and doing everything she could to make it right because even though it was only a month and a half, and the first time that ever happened, that was more than enough. All was seemingly going good and she just had to abide by their timeline to then move out whenever or wherever she chose to. And I don't feel like I have to explain this, but I certainly will not hide anything and will always be very transparent in whatever was going on. More importantly, I will share the truth which is what this is all about. So that when you read the screenshots it all makes sense. One day, on Father's Day while MD was at work BD asked if he could stop by and visit the boys, I said yes of course and we had a conversation while he was there. We spoke a little about the recent ex of BD and what went down and he proceeded to tell me how he is talking to somebody else already. My immediate reaction was oh s*t because he doesn't always have the best taste in girls. I always called him Captain Save a Ho because throughout his adulthood he will meet some broken girl who has had issues and still have faith in her and see her as a good person and he found out just with his last gf that his judgement isn't so great either. He already pre-warned me that he didn't want MD to know anything yet because he knew she would not be happy about him speaking to this new girl for various reasons, so of course I wanted to find out the reasons and ask questions because I always do. Like I said, BD and I went through periods where I treated him as if he were my own child, I held no punches would tell him what I thought about anything he did, even gave him advice regarding my own daughter, and I also had a certain heart for the kid because he didn't grow up in the best environment. And for the most part as a person, he is likeable and funny and we have had great times together whether he was with or not with my daughter. He is my gkids Dad and I have wanted nothing more than for him to be a fkn stand up responsible father. He just doesn't posses the ability to make it all click and realize that kids come first always and you have to really show up and be there all the time, not just sometimes when its convenient for you. Everyone fks up, nobody is perfect, but for fk sake don't just keep doing the same old s*t. He was approaching 30 years old like it's time, but I digress. So he starts off by letting me know her age....she was a teenager and had just had a baby by a dude who bounced. My head was already spinning, so I said wtf is wrong with you?? Where do you find these chics? He explained that he'd actually known who she was for years because he was friends or acquaintances with her older brother. So I was immediately like hell no she is young, has a like 6 week old baby and I told him whatever you end up doing these kids will not be around a new girl right now. I didn't let my daughter do that s*t and get away with it and especially right now these boys don't need to be introduced to anyone being that his last gf and he had also just broken up and they had been around her alot and got to know her. And in no certain terms basically said no more disruptions in the boys lives, MD is going to do what she needs to and you do what you need to for them and no new outside people etc. He needed to focus on being there for them. Mind you he still wasn't paying child support, but the kids having him there was more important than that because me and MD really wanted things to change for the sake of the boys. Now I went on to question him about this new girl and he proceeded to tell me what he knew of her based on what SHE, the LIAR, told him. He said that she had got into hard drugs in her teens, had been forcefully s*x trafficked into prostitution and that when she ended up getting pregnant she stopped the hard drugs because of that, and had he not shared that with me that day, I would've never known any of that bulls*t story she laid on him.( I will show you why the timeline makes the majority of her claims impossible and how we found out she was lying) Now my first reaction was a fat NO, after what I just went through and did to my own daughter we aren't fkng with any drug addicts because they usually have complicated histories and always have a chance to relapse, so this girl doesnt get a pass. Not taking chances with kids involved. I said okay so you say she said she stopped doing hard drugs because she got pregnant, so now she's not pregnant, how do you know she won't do drugs again? He said yea he thought about that, but that she said her baby made her change and that she wasn't doing that anymore etc. I said well I hope so for his sake, but regardless idc if she was a dr. the president, or the best person on the planet nobody is getting introduced as a new significant other to these boys right now. He said oh yea agreed, he explained he didn't even know where it was headed and that if they did get together that it would be at least 6 months so he could know her and make for sure and said all the right cautionary things you would want a good parent to say. He finished his visit and left. MD got home from work and I told her he came by but I told her nothing of what he said. I figured it was just a rando, she will be gone nothing to worry about, that was until MD did find out because he began mentioning her and was wanting to bring her around the boys. Mind you, this was very shortly after he and I had this discussion and a very short time since last gf bailed which I will cover briefly as it deals with drugs. When I hear this I immediately objected and then decided to tell MD everything he had said that day and wanted to confirm whether he was definitely talking about the same girl. It was confirmed and evidently they had become a couple in like 2 seconds and he was already playing Daddy to her baby and pushing for her to be able to be around. So I did with her what I did to the dude MD had been with, I started researching and no shocker yes she has criminal drug related charges and then had got some new criminal charges involving fraud and theft. So, not happening. Right before everything really kicked off, the kids had started saying things about stuff that occurred when they were on previous visits with BD at his apartment. The things that had occurred, happened before anyone even heard about this girl, but the boys had not mentioned it until one of them said something that made us stop and literally go "Whatt???!!!" And asked what the heck he was talking about, and we then found out that there was a lot of drinking, partying, ma*****na use and inappropriate situations happening while the kids were present. They were very specific and knew things that no child could just make up. They also spoke about how they would be left waiting on BD to wake up in the mornings and they would be hungry and the male roommate of BD whom I had met before and thought he was a nice guy, but who I found out was a major drinker, would be the one to get up to make them cereal or something to eat as BD would be in bed with his then gf who we also trusted. And that really all they would do there is be on video games and BD would leave them there with whoever to go to the tattoo shop. That gf left him to go do hard drugs with his best friend, cheated on him with the best friend, and peaced out with the guy. All due to her relapsing and BD having druggie friends....so you see the issues here?? I mean the same girlfriend of BD that MD got along with, that I thought was cool and decent flipped script and so no, no more bad judgement, no giving ex drug addicts chances around kids and no new gf or bf involved period especially not a 19 year old who according to her own story, was a pretty fkd up individual supposedly right up until she got pregnant and her baby was still just an infant, so it had not even been a year since she stopped doing drugs and all the other s*t she claimed. Somebody needed to do right by these kids, but it wasnt going to be BD. He didnt even have time to really know what kind of person she was and had she not started on some psycho s*t and everyone got to know her as a good person down the line, this may have all been different if she was really a changed person, but we saw quickly who she really was based on her own actions and lies as you will soon learn. So, as stated prior, we had just became aware of situations involving the kids so when BD began throwing a fit about seeing his sons and proclaiming how serious he and new girl L were and that he has rights etc. , speaking of the court order that he literally has NEVER followed for anything including regular visitation, we had to protect the kids and also make sure that on record when this goes to court they know the truth with documented evidence and are aware of the incidents that happened. MD did not do anything legally right away because she felt like the best thing was to just not allow the boys to be with him alone just as she had to do in the past before when he was out of line and when it was in the kids best interest. More often it was a case where he would just come and go and not even he around to worry about it. Would promise the kids stuff and not come through until enough became enough and she wouldn't allow him to jerk them around anymore and upset them as the younger one had became emotionally distraught at times over his dad just basically being a pos. In the event that court became necessary, options had to be discussed. Her month and a half long situation of extremely bad judgement is so minor compared to what BD has done all these years to the kids' mental and emotional well being and despite MDs bad choices for that brief time and having used alcohol in the past to cope with depression, she never abandoned them the way he did. And certainly has never and would never neglect her children the way Savannah has done to her new baby and daughter. She has been there 100% of the time and always showed them love and cared for them and I would never allow my gkids to suffer or be mistreated. So here is where the first MAJOR LIE begins. Because all of the recent events right around the time he was trying to push having this new 19 year old criminal gf involved in the kids lives and even threatened court action if she didn't allow him to take them ( he has threatened this more times than I can recall and not once took it to court because he knows he is wrong), it immediately spiraled. He would not take accountability for what occurred at his house basically calling his own sons liars and wouldn't acknowledge that it was the initial reason why he was not allowed to have alone visits with the boys, but instead spun the story to say that is was all because he had a new gf that MD was keeping the kids from him. He doubled down and pulled the whole, she doesn't want me to be with anyone or have a life etc. Which is funny right? being that she was just cool with the previous one he had and had given her a chance despite knowing she used to be a drug user....we learned our lesson there. She hadn't given a fk what he was doing in his life because she had her own with 3 kids. She only cared what he did when it affected the boys period. But of course L was immature and ate that s*t up believing every word he said and was getting off thinking she was causing some jealous feud. It was so far out of bounds that it became beyond ridiculous. So between the two, one of whom knew absolutely NOTHING about MD other than what BD was spewing to her so that he didn't have to be accountable once again for his own bs, they went off the rails as we watched. MD then started to go through the steps to legally protect the boys so I decided to go ahead and call CPS to allow the kids the opportunity to tell them what they told us so that we had it on record. CPS then requested a meeting with the boys and we took them to the office. They pullled each one in seperately by themselves without either MD or myself in the room. They were interviewed and their statements were documented by the caseworker. When I initially reached out to CPS, I told them about what they said, said we were not allowing them to go over there with their Dad and they asked where this happened so I told them and they ask who all is in that apartment and I told them and said that he also has a recent new gf because when speaking about the people who were present I had to let them know that the other gf and he had broken up so that was the current situation and she was no longer there because they were going to question people who were around when the kids were there. When saying he has a new gf they asked me if she lived there and I said I'm not sure if they live together and that we didn't know much about her other than what he had said. So of course they wanted to know and I literally told them everything he told me that Father's Day and shared that I know new gf has criminal charges also related to possession of a controlled substance. I didn't even know the b**h was on probation at that time, CPS told me. That is literally the extent of what was said. So CPS calls back and said that they have everything they need documented and since the boys don't live there full time with their Dad, they were not going to be having regular visits over there, and we had planned on modifying the orders when necessary, that they were basically done, but then she turned around and said that they did open a case for Ls baby because it did live there full time and that they were opening a totally separate investigation of their own regarding that. She had also shared with me that she had reached out to her probation to check on her drug tests saying that she had passed her randoms etc. So I was like whoa, I didn't even know some of the info she was sharing with me, but since I told her MD had planned on taking this to court, I believe she liekly told me so that we would know certain things in case things were to change and the boys ended up going and doing visits again. Im not real sure why all of what was shared was, but I had no idea this dumba$$ was having to do probation random drug tests etc. NOW, that being said...let me tell you....up until present day he and her will both claim that we made some type of CPS report on her and that we specifically wanted a case for L and her baby. That is a fkn LIE. We had one agenda and it dealt with BDs bulls*t, L just got caught in the crossfire when CPS stated that after going to do the investigation on him, they then had to open one for her and baby. Now think about this, if I would have included her and wanted her to be a part of it why would there be 2 separate cases? Why would our case and the findings of her case not be all in one? Because it wasn't one, that's why. The person who files a report gets updated on the result of the case and I never got any paperwork regarding her because neither I, nor MD filed a complaint against her, CPS DID!! The CPS worker shared info with me over the phone at her own free will, outside the personal case that I made. I still don't know when Ls case was closed, what else they did etc. I've told them several times to go pull or ask for the files, but her attention seeking and always wanting to be able to say something about MD resulted in the dumbest barrage of texts I have ever seen in my life. MD even got a text from that baby's father threatening her because he was told that MD is just a miserable bitter ex and she was trying to get his baby taken away. SHE DID NOT CALL THEM, I DID!!! And NOT on that dumb b**h. We told them this a milllion times. I figured she would be gone in a couple of months so I really couldn't care less about her fkn baby, not my problem, nor would I care if anything happened because that would be her fault. But as I said they were going to say what made it sound good for them with BD using that too to say MD just didn't want him to be happy or have a life. NO, mfkr it was about the safety of the boys and having fkn trashy people around them partying and doing drugs period and he had already been told this. So now I will post the first messages this idiot sent and to give you an understanding and remind you MD had never said 1 fkn word to this idiot. L texted first. MD responded back a couple of times through text to address what L said to her and from then on had not spoke to her, had never posted anything about her on social media, literally wouldn't give her the attention nor time of day even though we saw L post lie after lie on social media from that point on via Facebook constantly, directly saying s**t about "my bf bitter baby mama" or "my bf jealous ex" on some psycho bulls*t. Not one of us ever messaged her when she did this every time, nor had anyone posted about her despite seeing what she was doing. Nothing!! It wasn't until she wanted to talk s*t about the day me and MD were in her presence and had literally seen this b**h for the very first time, which I will detail that day in a future post that I went off. And even then MD didn't respond to it, I did and my other daughter did because we had finally had enough after 3 years of allowing her to lie. We called her a$$ out, exposed her on her post and of course she deleted the entire thing with a quickness as I told her I knew she would. BD would talk s*t to MD over the phone about her not letting the boys go stay with him and new teenage gf and L would be the Muppet in the background sounding off, so of course MD would tell him to tell her to stay tf out of it, that she was a fkn child and to shut her mouth, that he better get her under control because she doesn't know s*t so stay in her fkn lane. We had both reminded him how fkd up he said she was prior to having her new baby so ain't nobody dealing with this child or having her around the boys because she was obviously still super fkd in the head and didn't know her place. And there was s*t going on way before she came into the picture and she knows nothing about any of it except his bulls*t stories of it to her. But, on weirdo s*t after only being with him for a short time she started spewing off the most outrageous lies and MD had told him if she ever sees her in public or BD tried to bring her around and this b**h runs her mouth like she had been then it would be on site because she was acting weird af. MD isn't going to post on social media like goofy does, nor would she do anything with her kids present, but if the day came let's just say, talking s*t and trying to pretend to be a bada$$ isn't her style, she will deal with L if it is necessary. She has a life that has never involved criminal charges, has never been arrested or charged with any crime, has only had like 1 traffic ticket and has an actual future career, she won't play games, but she will handle hers as she's done in the past. L was acting like she was involved, knew everything and had a right to MDs kids and to say absurd s*t regarding them. You don't fk with a mother over their kids, and at 19 with an infant who had her own fkn issues and who's baby daddy didn't want her....she needed to focus on her own s*t. So L, who was already extremely insecure and wouldn't even allow BD to be around MD alone just to see his kids, apparently felt threatened because she knew what my daughter was saying to BD about L needing to fkn watch her conduct and not fk with her kids, nor keep running her mouth about them. L is the most insecure person I have ever seen in my life and still is that's why she to this day posts lie after lie on social media just about dumb s*t, so L decides to try and seem like some kind of badass by lying about being some MMA expert and being a Muay Thai champion and s*t telling MD to pull up. ( like who tf even says that? Oh yea a 19 year old dmb fk) Then proceeds to lie about her education, says the most ridiculous s*t about MDs family, myself included that was legit all just whatever she pulled out of her a$$, but that we came to find out was Ls life story in that text. Everything in it was her, it was true for L so it was extra psycho. B**h been in the picture for a whole 5 minutes and is saying stuff that was so ridiculous when I first read it we laughed so hard, like I had tears streaming down and at that point I looked at MD and said man, this b**h must've had a fkd up life and hate herself. She is fkn weird af and then we figured out I was right. Called MD who weighed like 125 at the time fat, ugly, old etc. MD was like 26 or 27 and she has never weighed over 135 in her life and that was at her heaviest besides when she was pregnant and is 5'4. Just alllllll Ls insecurities shining in these texts. MD doesnt have body issues, she isnt insecure like that. Both of my girls are confident in themselves and have healthy self esteems so the fact that this chic was just saying whatever tf she wished was true was like wow she is mental and jealous af. Even said s*t about my daughter using a filter in her pics.......REALLY???? My daughter is gorgeous she can post with or without a filter, she doesnt need it, but go look at Savannah's pics and videos and tell me where you can find a pic that does not have a filter that is so bad to the point you can barely see her nose in some of them and can't tell what shade her face is. So texts coming in Part 3 with a detailed break down. Now its time for all Ls s*t to be revealed so stay tuned.....
