IRC Christian Academy

This might be one of the most important things we are not talking about enough as a society.

We pour billions into the criminal justice system, into addiction treatment, into mental health crisis intervention… and yet we still don’t prioritize teaching children how to understand and regulate their emotions. We treat the consequences but not the root.

Here’s what the research tells us:
❤️ Children who develop emotional regulation skills are less likely to turn to substances to cope with pain they don’t know how to process.
❤️ They are less likely to respond to conflict with aggression.
❤️ They are more likely to build healthy relationships, make thoughtful decisions under pressure, and navigate the inevitable hard moments of life without falling apart or hurting others.

Because when a child learns to sit with discomfort, to name what they’re feeling, to calm their nervous system instead of acting from it, they are building the most important life skill there is.

✨ Emotional regulation isn’t a soft skill; it’s a survival skill.

And it starts at home, in the small everyday moments. When you help your child name their feelings instead of dismissing them, when you stay calm during their storm instead of escalating and when you model what it looks like to take a breath, feel something hard, and choose your response instead of just reacting.

✨ You are not just raising a child; you are shaping the kind of human they will be in every room they walk into for the rest of their life. ✨

And that is not a small thing; that is everything! 💜

Sometimes your steady presence gives your child the courage to learn from the moment.

It can be hard to step back and let the lesson unfold, especially when you want to protect them from discomfort.

But children often grow stronger when they are allowed to experience the results of their choices with your love still close by.

Your child can handle more than you think.

And with your love beside them, they can grow through it!

Follow for more encouragement and practical tools for parenting with Love and Logic.

By age 8, your child stops asking for the things they still need. That does not mean they outgrew it. It means they learned to stop asking. Here are 9 things they still deeply need, even when they don't say it.

One, physical affection. They still need hugs, back scratches, and lap time. Two, your undivided attention without a phone. Three, help naming big feelings they cannot sort alone. Four, reassurance that mistakes are okay. Five, bedtime rituals that include connection, not just routine. Six, to hear "I am proud of you" even when they did not win. Seven, your calm presence during their meltdowns. Eight, permission to be sad without a quick fix. Nine, to know that your love is not based on their performance.

They stopped asking. But you can still give.

Nature Storytime and Sanctuary School at the Enchanted Forest are being offered at 10AM AND 2PM over the summer! No sign up necessary!

Nature Storytime is always the second Wednesday of the month and geared towards ages 1-5.

Sanctuary School is always the third Wednesday of the month and geared towards ages 6-12.

Call now to schedule a tour and learn more about IRC Christian Academy🚀

Second Lady Usha Vance has launched the 2026 Summer Reading Challenge, inviting students in kindergarten through eighth grade across the United States to read 12 books between June 1 and September 4.

Children who complete the challenge will receive a personalized certificate, an America 250-themed bookmark, and access to special prizes. Participants will also be entered for a chance to visit Washington, D.C., and the White House.

The initiative is part of the nationwide celebration of America’s 250th anniversary and aims to encourage reading, learning, and imagination among young students during the summer months.



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