09/23/2026
Here is a 60-second tip on how to start college research without stressing your junior out!
Hi 👋! I’m Heather, and I am a college admissions consultant with over 15 years of experience. I help motivated students gain admission to their dream schools, like the selective UC’s here in California.
Now on to my tip…
College talks at the dinner table can be stressful. High school students often feel an enormous amount of pressure, and asking them questions like, “where do you want to go to college?” adds fuel to the fire. It’s a big question.
Instead, shift the focus from “where can you get in” to “what do you actually want your life to look like.”
To kick off college research without triggering anxiety, ask questions about what you student wants out of their college experience. These three low-stakes questions about environment will help:
* Do you want to be in a bustling big city, a classic college town, or a self-contained campus in the suburbs?
* Do you think you will learn better in huge lecture halls or smaller, discussion-based classrooms?
* What is one hobby, sport, or activity you absolutely want to keep doing in college?
These questions will help you begin building a college list by searching for specific priorities.
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