01/12/2023
The most important person in your life is YOU! You are beautifully and wonderfully created by GOD who never make mistakes. No one can write your story better than YOU! Accepting yourself is the first step to loving yourself. Be honest with yourself and reject anybody’s definition of you. Your happiness is your responsibility. Anyone who cannot feel your sadness has no right to define your happiness. If you love something, go for it and If you are not happy with something don't pretend. No matter what happens, make sure you matter in your own life. Never put the key to your happiness in another person’s pocket!.
Never measure your success based on other people’s achievements. Comparing yourself with someone else will deprive you of your happiness and peace of mind. You can never stop people from talking about you. What you can do is stop giving them what to talk about. Live your life peacefully on your terms but If enemies turn your life into a movie, give them a show!! Never apologize for being you!
Be kind to everyone, but have healthy boundaries, no one has ever succeeded in pleasing the world, don’t try it. Be bold to take any decision concerning your life, if you have to explain to everyone before deciding on your personal life, you will have a lot of explanations to make. No one can get water from an empty bucket, take care of you first.
A lonely life is a sad life, never live your life alone but be very careful who you bring into your life. Your future happiness and sadness have a lot to do with who you choose as a spouse. Your network is your net worth, choose your friends wisely. A wicked enemy is a thousand times better than a foolish friend. Never beg or force anyone to stay in your life, if you beg them to come, you will always beg them to stay!
And lastly, always put GOD first in everything you do……