10/03/2024
🌟 16 years ago, I had a special student named Corey in my 4th-grade classroom. The first pic is his school photo from back then, and the second is from his college graduation. Corey is one of the most perseverant people I know.
He faced tremendous challenges, coming from a trauma-filled background where basic needs often went unmet. Most days, he arrived at school hungry and resistant to doing any schoolwork. Yet, on Fridays, he hesitated to leave our classroom, knowing his trailer lacked food and electricity.
That year, I learned Corey’s story—behind his behavior was a boy who simply needed to feel safe, valued, and loved. He was pleading to be seen and understood, and he needed a lifeline.
In my “Remember Your Why” keynote, I share Corey’s journey to remind educators that it's easy to feel lost in a demanding profession. Many of our students face immense challenges, but Corey taught me to look beyond the behavior and see he was just a boy who needed to know he was loved and safe.
Last week, after presenting to 450 school leaders, a man named Clarence approached me with tears in his eyes. “Kim,” he said, “I was a Corey. That’s why I became a teacher. I wanted to be there for all the kids who feel lost and hopeless.” (Clarence is pictured in pic 3).
I gave Clarence the biggest hug and thanked him for being a teacher who knows his greatest job is simply to love his students.
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