09/01/2022
Change happens, even some that are uninvited. Instead of seeing its arrival as a problem, let's start looking for the good it can bring. Sometimes, it comes with answers we've been praying for. They're just not always packaged the way we think they should be. Either way, live life and love loud through it all. That's something that doesn't have to change.
08/23/2022
These deliveries never get old. Time to make the wedding gift sets! If you are looking for something different to gift to a couple on their special day, look into our "For This Reason" gift sets at the link below:
"Books & Gifts" https://www.bandfministry.com/store/c5/Books_%26_Gifts.html
06/14/2022
Those Hand Me Down Genes Pt. 1
Those Hand Me Down Genes Pt. 1
Remember those hand me down jeans we used to get from our siblings, friends, or other extended family members? Some of us weren't so happy about receiving those items because they didn't always fit to flatter us. How could they? In time, they are molded to fit the lifestyle of its original owner and...
05/09/2022
Be who you told God you would be.
05/03/2022
The Open Book Moms Podcast: "Bonus Mom before Biological Mom" with Jessica Butler on Apple Podcasts
Good morning!
We have some amazing people in our village, and we love to support them as they do their part in the Kingdom. Today we are sharing a beautiful perspective on blended families from through an interview with our sister, Jessica Butler. Not to mention how proud we are of her for tackling this topic beautifully.😍 Check out this podcast today on your break or drive home!
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-open-book-moms-podcast/id1620750578?i=1000559325433
The Open Book Moms Podcast: "Bonus Mom before Biological Mom" with Jessica Butler on Apple Podcasts
Show The Open Book Moms Podcast, Ep "Bonus Mom before Biological Mom" with Jessica Butler - May 2, 2022
05/02/2022
Playing Catch Up
Playing Catch Up
Hey everyone! Don't worry, we haven't gone anywhere! We wanted to check in with you all and let you know where we've been and what we've been up to. Today we are sharing about one of the main services we offer through B&F Ministry as well as our latest accomplishment. Yes! We published our next book...
04/25/2022
Lions, otters, retrievers! Oh my! (You had to be there!) 😂
Yes, we took a break last week. This evening we came back to complete the Communication unit, and we had an amazing night! We learned some practical and spiritual aspects of the way we communicate with one another in relationships and possible reasons why we respond the way we do to one another especially during conflict. This is a great segue into our final focus, forgiveness. When we can communicate better, forgiveness can become easier. 😌
04/22/2022
Marriage is Not a Shortcut to Maturity
Marriage is Not a Shortcut to Maturity
Marriage is intended by God as a union of two complete persons. It is only when two mature and whole individuals come together in marriage that their union will be complete. Marriage is not designed to be a shortcut to maturity, a way of completing yourself. Rather, God designed marriage as a way fo...
04/11/2022
What Do You Hear When He/She Says ”I don’t Care”?
What Do You Hear When He/She Says ”I don’t Care”?
A potential communication mind field, the words "I don't care" can lead to many stressful moments in a marriage or relationship. Join us as we debunk the myths and the many different sides of a simple, yet at times offensive, phrase. Be sure to send us questions that may come to mind while listening...
04/10/2022
Getting ready for tonight's class. This topic is so rich, we always have to choose which parts to share for each class. Maybe that's because there is "a lot to be said" when it comes to communication. 😂
04/05/2022
We are having a great time in class! In fact, we are having so much FUN, it was a bit difficult to CONTROL ourselves this last class and keep the PEACE for a PERFECT evening. 🤣 You had to be there for the intro to our next topic: Communication.
As you can see, each participant left class with a demonstration of what our communication can look like depending on "where we come from". The next couple of weeks will... "speak" for themselves.😂
Alright, that was the last joke! We promise. 😁
04/04/2022
Fine! Let’s Talk About the Smiths
Fine! Let’s Talk About the Smiths
Everyone is still discussing the slap heard all around the world. However, what is everyone actually talking about? Who was wrong, and was anyone in the situation right? Is it even something that we should even spend our time on? Should the Smiths now be seen as a cautionary tale for marriages and r...
03/29/2022
For This Reason Podcast
We are expanding! You can now find our podcast on Pandora! 😁😁😁
https://www.pandora.com/podcast/for-this-reason-podcast/PC:79610
For This Reason Podcast
Listen to For This Reason Podcast on Pandora - Why did God say it is not good for man to be alone? What did He mean when He said a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife? Explore this and many more questions that can impact your decision to say ”I do” and remai...
03/29/2022
The Triune Relationship In Marriage Pt. 3
The Triune Relationship In Marriage Pt. 3
We are at the end of our fun-tastic interview with Pastor Robert Garment of Live The Life in Tallahassee, Florida. It's been an enjoyable journey listening and sharing this time with you all. Join us as we attempt to bring an end to our discussion about the benefits and blessings of in living out ou...
03/21/2022
The Triune Relationship In Marriage Pt 2
The Triune Relationship In Marriage Pt 2
Welcome back to the conversation where we are identifying the triune relationship in marriage. Our dear friend, Pastor Robert Garment of Live The Life in Tallahassee, Florida, is sharing his knowledge, wisdom, and experience in living out this holy bond and intimacy. Join us as we talk about the ble...
03/21/2022
Want to know what all the finger pointing and giggling is about? That means you missed the icebreaker tonight!
Q: Have you fallen asleep during service at VFC? Raise your hand!
A: Does online count?
😂😂😂
The State of Our Union marriage class started tonight! We had a great time getting to know one another tonight at Victory Fellowship Church learning more about the class objectives, and defining marriage. Next week, we will begin learning the first focus: Foundation and Support. 😊
Want to host a marriage/relationship class at your church? Give us a call!
03/14/2022
The Triune Relationship In Marriage Pt 1
This week, we are diving back into the conversation of the reason man will leave his father and mother to cleave to one who is suitable for him. We are excited to invite our dear friend, Pastor Robert Garment of Live The Life in Tallahassee, Florida, to share his knowledge and wisdom on this holy bond and intimacy. Join us as we talk about the blessing in having a true example of marriage available to us through the relationship of our triune God. Learn how to begin to build your marriage with the guidelines God intended for us to use before the fall of Adam and Eve so that you can enjoy your union... on earth as it is in heaven.
If you would like to reach out to Pastor Garment after the podcast airs, please feel free to contact him via email at: [email protected]
As always, we would love to answer your questions or hear more of your thoughts on this topic. Share with us by leaving a comment below or email us at: [email protected].
The Triune Relationship In Marriage Pt 1
This week, we are diving back into the conversation of the reason man will leave his father and mother to cleave to one who is suitable for him. We are excited to invite our dear friend, Pastor Robert Garment of Live The Life in Tallahassee, Florida, to share his knowledge and wisdom on this holy bo...
03/07/2022
Marriage: On Earth As It Is In Heaven
Marriage: On Earth As It Is In Heaven
Looking for that feeling of butterflies in your stomach when it comes to a love connection? Look up! All roads lead back to our Father. God is love, and the love we desire comes from our heavenly Father. That includes our need for us to know love just like He does. As we have mentioned in previous p...
02/28/2022
Fairy Tales, Fantasies, and Romance. Oh My! The Sequel
It's Monday and you know what that means. Set today's break time for this week's podcast! Be sure to catch up as we conclude our conversation from last week: Fairy Tales, Fantasies, and Romance! Oh My!
Fairy Tales, Fantasies, and Romance. Oh My! The Sequel
You don't want to miss the continuation of last week's episode! How do we find our princess? How do we land a Prince Charming? To serenade or not to serenade... That is definitely not in question. However, these days, knowing what to look for in a mate is questionable. As you listen, we offer additi...
02/21/2022
Fairy Tales, Fantasies, and Romance. Oh My!
Fairy Tales, Fantasies, and Romance. Oh My!
Is the fairy tale real? Are we making more out of romance than what it really is? Should we fantasize about the way we want to see our love story play out? Most importantly, does Prince Charming or the princess exist? What have we been taught about these ideas that have such a heavy influence on the...
02/14/2022
Spontaneity vs. Systems: Can The System Overload Relationships?
Don't forget that today is Monday! Download and follow!
Spontaneity vs. Systems: Can The System Overload Relationships?
Join us as we continue our conversation from the last episode, Spontaneity vs. Irresponsibility In Relationships. Fish (Darrel) did a great job defending his perspective but it did not come without a price for Bird (Sheree). Listen as she desperately tries to dodge Aunt Patsy to get into the office....
02/10/2022
Sometimes, it's not that people don't want to see us grow. It could be that we have done something to prevent them from growing along the way. If we can become traumatized because of someone's actions, understand that we can cause someone else to experience trauma from our own behavior. Let's work to help each other heal so we can all continue to grow and move forward.
02/07/2022
Spontaneity vs. Irresponsibility In Relationships
Spontaneity vs. Irresponsibility In Relationships
Today, we are taking time again to address a listener's comments from our last episode. What happened? Last week, Fish (Darrel) took us into the deeper side of an issue that can slowly erode and degrade our relationships. He so eloquently defended the honor of those who may not handle responsibility...
01/31/2022
Breakfast & The Listener’s Comment
Breakfast & The Listener’s Comment
Join us as we inform our production manager of our impromptu conversation over breakfast about one of our listener's comments from the last episode. As we were sitting down to breakfast, we decided to go over some of the responses to what Fish shared with us about Adam and Eve being one. (We can't t...
01/24/2022
For This Reason Podcast | a podcast by B&F Ministry, LLC
We are doing something new this year! We realize that the past couple of years has brought about real changes for many of us. We miss being in the classroom setting with our students and meeting with our clients. So, we have found another way to connect with you. Follow us as we now continue our discussions outside of classroom and the office. Once a week we will talk about marriage and relationship as only Bird and Fish can. Some of you are already aware of our marriage dynamic, so here's to more laughter and learning with the Hopes!
https://www.forthisreason.us/
For This Reason Podcast | a podcast by B&F Ministry, LLC
Why did God say it is not good for man to be alone? What did He mean when He said a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife? Explore this and many more questions that can impact your decision to say ”I do” and remain in co...
01/24/2022
We teach our couples to have a real conversation to define their relationship at the beginning and not while it's possibly ending.
01/17/2022
We wish you a safe and joyous holiday for you and loved ones. Remember, time spent together is a learning experience for all.
01/15/2022
Good Afternoon!
Bird here, and I would like to invite all of the ladies who follow our page to participate in something exciting! Below, you will find a survey to help Angelina Vickers of Mrs. Vickers Speaks and I accomplish a passion project that has been on our hearts for years. Please take a moment with a cup of tea or coffee and fill out the survey provided via the link below. All responses are confidential, so please feel free to express yourselves fully. Thank you in advance for your willing participation. We look forward to sharing the end results of this project with you.
https://www.bandfministry.com/research-survey.html
01/09/2022
B&F Ministry is always an advocate for self care activities. Gardening is one activity where we personally get involved and get our hands dirty. We know the struggles that can make this hobby a bit frustrating, so here's a helpful tool from us.
Download your 21-page PDF garden helper today! You will not only enjoy the ease of dating each month and week, you will also enjoy keeping certain tips about your specific garden at your own finger tips.
https://www.bandfministry.com/store/p40/2022_Home_Garden_Fruits_%26_Vegetables_Journal%3A_12-Month_Progress_Tracker_Included.html
12/13/2021
We shouldn't enter into one another's world with the intent or motive to change it. We are visiting their personal mental space to better understand their need(s) for and from us so that we can go to God for them accordingly. Trying to understand your loved one with a purposed mind to change how they think or feel is not true empathy. It's like someone coming to visit your home with the intent of redecorating your space without your expressed permission.
12/06/2021
There are going to be times in our marriages where all we can be is a safe place for our spouse. We can't always understand cognitively and emotionally what's going on within them. However, what we can always be is a safe place for them to talk and workout what is going inside of them. Pray about what they share with you as well as the parts you may not understand. Jesus can always reach into those places and speak to those concerns that we ourselves may not be able to assist them with. Pray to become a safe place or to strengthen your ability to be that space for your loved one.