Positive Living After Loss

Happy Heavenly 35th birthday Nne!!!🎂 💝 Love you Forever ♾️ For Always and For LOVE 🥰 💕

My side of the story doesn't matter anymore. Life happened, it hurt, I healed, but most importantly I learned who deserves a seat at my table and who will never sit at it again.
The chapters of my past are closed, the ink has dried, and the story has been written. I've turned the page, and a new chapter has begun. One where I'm the author, the protagonist, and the hero.

I used to think that my side of the story needed to be heard, that I needed to justify, explain, and defend myself. But I've come to realize that my worth, my value, and my truth aren't defined by anyone else's opinions or perspectives.

The pain I endured taught me valuable lessons, lessons that I'll carry with me for the rest of my life. It taught me to be resilient, to be strong, and to be brave. It taught me to let go of the toxic, the negative, and the harmful.

I've learned to surround myself with people who uplift me, who support me, and who love me for who I am. I've learned to set boundaries, to prioritize my own needs, and to cherish my own company.

Those who hurt me, who betrayed me, and who tried to break me will never sit at my table again. They'll never be invited into my life, my heart, or my home. I've taken back control, and I've reclaimed my power.

My table is reserved for those who deserve a seat, those who have earned my trust, my love, and my respect. It's reserved for those who will laugh with me, cry with me, and build with me.

So, my side of the story doesn't matter anymore. What matters is the present, the future, and the life I'm building. A life where I'm the star, the director, and the writer. A life where I'm free, I'm happy, and I'm me.

The fabric of my life unraveled...

Twenty-four years ago this month, the fabric of my life that I had knitted together with Kevin, Naomi and Miriam Dickey unraveled and tore my heart into two halves. 💔

Half of our family (Kevin/Naomi) were gone in a blink of an eye and the other half (Me/Mmi) were left behind.

It's been a long journey to freedom from the darkness that event caused in my life. I never imagined that I would still be here because of the strong su***de ideation I experienced early on in my grief, BUT GOD!!!👈❣️🙌

Today, I am happy to report that GOD BROUGHT ME THROUGH that season 🙌 🙏 ❤️! I got to raise Miriam with the morals and values we agreed upon when we were first married. We often discussed how we would raise our family after PAYING THE COST to break the generational curses between both our families.

I completed that assignment Kevin/Naomi and look at how well our precious baby girl, Mmi, turned out! ~ TO GOD BE THE GLORY! 👏 🥰😍

HAPPY HEAVENLY HOMEGOING ANNIVERSARY TO MY FOREVER LOVES KEVIN AND NAOMI DICKEY!
❤️ 💕 ♥️