Genell Gorman - Father & Mother Wound Coach

I learned early that love felt inconsistent.
That closeness could disappear.

That being easy, adaptable, and selfless made me more likely to be chosen.

So in relationships, I overgave.
I ignored red flags.
I tried to fix emotionally unavailable men thinking if I loved MORE, stayed softer, asked for less…
love would finally stay.

What I didn’t know then is that this wasn’t a character flaw.
It was a father wound.

Codependency isn’t neediness.

It’s a nervous system that learned love had conditions.
And no amount of “doing better” in dating healed it 
until I went back and healed the root…

This is the work I now guide women through.
to release these patterns that are no longer serving you in relationship, relationships, or dating.

✨ If you’re tired of shrinking, overfunctioning, or chasing love that feels just out of reach, my program is designed to help you heal the father wound and return to your radiance.
Link in bio when you’re ready 🤍

Whether he was PHYSICALLY or EMOTIONALLY absent..

Your father figure was the blueprint for how you deal with all men in your life… if they were absent, that doesn’t mean the influence is gone… it just changes the way we see the blueprint.

👉 If your father wasn’t around, you are likely dealing with one or more of the symptoms in the slides. And that’s not because YOU are broken or weak… but because you have been dealing with an unhealed wound since childhood.

Your relationships have suffered because the blueprint for all men that you received from your father wasn’t accurate or flattering. You have been working with faulty data and because of that you often attract unhealthy relationships.

It’s time to heal this wound so that you can finally accept healthy love and learn what it means to see people for who they really are… not through the lens of your trauma.

Moving past the emotional effects of growing up like this can be difficult. We often have to start by just learning more about parent wounds, how they were caused and how we can heal them. That’s why I created the Free Parent Wound Guide > the first step in understanding and healing.

✨💬 Comment the word, “HEAL” to get the guide sent straight into your inbox...

Or check the link in my bio to access it there!

Father’s Day isn’t easy for everyone...

While the world celebrates, some of us feel that quiet ache every time this time of year comes around...

The sting of what we never had.
A father who was emotionally or physically present.
A protector.
A man who showed us how a woman is suppose to be treated.

If you feel heaviness this time of year…

If your body tightens when you see posts of others with their dads…

If you’ve ever wondered why this wound still lingers,
you are not broken... you’re grieving something REAL.

💔 This kind of pain doesn’t just go away... no matter how long it’s been.

It shows up in our relationships, our self-worth, and our ability to fully receive love.

BUT it can be healed.

✨ The Parent Wound Journey to Healing is my new program designed to help you process that pain, reconnect with the parts of you that were never truly seen or protected, and finally reclaim your voice, your truth, and your wholeness.

You don’t have to carry this forever. You’re allowed to heal.

👉 Comment the word “FATHER” or tap the link in my bio to learn more get on the WAITLIST for when the course launches!



How do you feel about Father’s Day?

What if I told you that the consistent problems you seem to have with every partner aren’t just this unexplained cycle you end up in... What if I told you it is likely an unhealed childhood wound.

When we have an unhealed parent wound it easily bleeds into our relationships and can create some really unhealthy cycles that we fall into with every partner. Often times our parent wounds can create...

🙋‍♀️ Fear of intimacy
🙋‍♀️ Lack of boundaries
🙋‍♀️ Attracting the wrong type of person
🙋‍♀️ Being emotionally unavailable ourselves
🙋‍♀️ Attracting people who are emotionally unavailable
+ more

If any of these sound familiar my heart goes out to you! Healing your parent wound created in childhood is imperative to move past these toxic cycles. Healing is imperative to find a healthy and loving relationship. Are you ready to move past these issues?

❤ It’s a journey of self-compassion, understanding, and empowerment. You are your own hero. You have the strength to break free from the chains of your past and create a future filled with self-love and inner peace.

I invite you to take the first step and…

➡️ Comment the word “HEAL” to REGISTER for my FREE Parent Would Guide to Healing💪✨

If your parents ignored, dismissed, or punished your emotional expression of course it’s hard to feel safe sitting with your sadness, anger, or even joy now.

But one thing I will say… healing from your childhood is possible.

Inside my upcoming course, you’ll learn how to rebuild that safety, tend to your emotions with compassion, and finally become the loving presence your younger self needed. ✨ STAY TUNED!!

For so long, I didn’t realize how much my relationship with my father was shaping everything especially when it came to the types of men I attracted….

I kept attracting emotionally unavailable men.
Overgiving just to feel wanted.
Shrinking myself to stay “chosen.”
And still feeling empty inside…

Not having my father present growing up took a deep toll on me.
As a little girl, I made it mean I wasn’t enough.

That belief lived in my body for years
until I began healing my father wound.

And everything began to shift.

✨ I stopped chasing love and started receiving it.
✨ I attracted the most incredible relationship.
✨ I finally felt safe to be soft, honest, and whole again.

If this resonates, please know this:

You are not broken. You’re healing.
And you are already worthy of the love you’ve always wanted.

It starts with choosing YOU.

💫 If this spoke to your heart…

I created a powerful healing experience to help you begin this work in a safe, guided way.

Comment the word “HEAL” and I will send you over more details!

⬇️ The Holidays are one of the hardest times of the year for some people... 🍂

For those with a parent wound, you may struggle with a multitude of things… You may feel pressured to be joyful seeing family. You may see family you are processing trauma with. You may have to put boundaries into action at the dinner table. You may be skipping out and rocking the boat. You may be missing or grieving relatives during this family-oriented time. You may be wishing you had a “regular” family to have this holiday with.

My heart is with you... 🤍

In this time of conflicting emotions of both joy, thankfulness, and struggle... know that whatever you are feeling is OK.

It is okay to create the space you need, feel the way you need, and do your best this holiday and weekend.

Happy Thanksgiving to all 🤍

✨ Yesterday was a powerhouse day of interviews! ✨ I had the privilege of sitting down with two incredible thought leaders to dive deep into some truly transformative topics.

🎙 First up, I had an insightful conversation with the soulful and dynamic GenellGorman .gorman We explored the power of transitions—how it feels, how it affects us, and how we can harness those pivotal moments to propel us forward. 🚀 It’s not always easy to navigate change, but we discussed tools and strategies to not only survive transitions but thrive through them! 💪

🎙 Next, I got to chop it up with DomWaltower to dig into what men really need from women in terms of support. This was an eye-opener for sure. 🧠💥 From emotional intelligence to creating safe spaces, we unpacked it all. 🙌🏽 Women, if you’ve ever wondered how to be a pillar for the men in your life, this conversation is a must-watch! 👀

Two unique, powerful interviews, covering two essential topics—both packed with gems you don’t want to miss! 💎💫

JUST because you can handle it doesn’t mean you have to take it…

As a child you may have felt like you had no choice, but as an adult, it’s important to remind that child within you that you have the CHOICE to make a new decision. ❤️

🤍➡️ If you are looking to start this parent wound healing journey, Follow the link in my bio to download the FREE Parent Wound Guide. Plus, when you download you also get continued support with healing information and opportunities... Are you ready?

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🤔You can’t put a finger on a singular traumatic event in your childhood... but you constantly lived in stress in your household.

🤔 You can’t remember a “moment” that everything changed... but you existed in a state of survival for most of your childhood.

👉 You didn’t have to live through massive traumatic events to feel trauma. Sometimes it was the small, everyday, constant way of living that pushed you and the family into survival mode.

The stress you felt constantly had an effect on your nervous system.

Don’t trick yourself into thinking you aren’t worthy of healing because there was no singularly traumatic moment to look back on. You deserve to heal your nervous system and live in a peaceful and comfortable life that doesn’t reflect your childhood on the daily.

You are worthy of so much peace! If you are ready for that peace, if you are ready to finally step into your healing era... I’m here for you.

I have officially opened the doors to my Parent Wound Journey to Healing Group Mentorship 👈

✨ This intimate 10-week container is designed to help you heal your father wound, freeing you from the triggers and coping mechanisms that have kept you from experiencing love and living the life you desire. 💗🫶✨

⬇️ Comment “GROW” and I’ll send you all the details for the group starting in September!

I'm hosting a FREE Masterclass: "Understanding the Father & Mother Wound 101: Understanding Their Impact on Your Work Life & Intimate Relationships

Please register using the link here: https://lnkd.in/gtMniVCi