05/07/2022
"Be the best version of you."
Good advice.
With the constant barrage of social media posts showing myriad accomplishments of friends, acquaintances, and celebrities, it's not surprising that we (kids AND adults) experience feelings of being "less than" at times. We may feel awe, admiration and sincere happiness for others, but then feelings of insecurity or shame may creep in: "What's wrong with me? Why haven't I achieved the same desirable goals? I'm just not good enough."
As adults, we have more life experiences to be able to shake off these feelings and re-center our perspective. We are less likely to let these nagging doubts about our own abilities take hold of our self-concept to the point where it is debilitating. And if that anxious feeling of "inferiority" does start to take over, we have more strategies in our tool box to combat it, or we know to ask for help.
Kids, however, are just beginning their life journey and have fewer experiences to build their sense of self. They are more susceptible to developing a skewed perspective of "happiness" and "success" from the messages shared by their peers and the media.
These outside influences are powerful; and as kids approach adolescence, they tend to value the opinion of their peers more than their own parents.
As a life coach for kids ages 7-12, I can serve as "back-up" when parents need reinforcement. If your hopes for your child include a strong sense of self, resiliency when faced with adversity, and a "can-do" attitude that comes from within, then I can help.
Developing a growth mindset is central to my work as a coach for children. BEFORE they hit those teenage years, it's critical to teach kids the skills they need to feel successful in the lives they choose to lead. I teach kids how to set specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and time-bound (S.M.A.R.T.) goals. Then I guide them as they practice the skills needed to attain their goals. I'm there to help kids embrace the learning opportunities when they experience failure. If kids are given a chance to fall and then keep going to reach their goals, they gain confidence to be the best version of themselves.
That's true SUCCESS.