Decidedly Debbie

09/11/2026

If you’re in the same space, wondering what fits and what doesn’t feel like it’s you anymore and what is calling you forward no. maybe you’re right there and ready to be curious about who you are becoming.

09/10/2026

Hi I am Debbie

09/10/2026

There is such an interesting space between who you have been and who you are becoming.

You can feel the shift before you necessarily have words for it.

And I think we put so much pressure on ourselves to know what comes next.

Maybe that isn’t the assignment.

Maybe the first step is simply being willing to notice what no longer feels true.

That’s where becoming begins.

09/09/2026

Sometimes the first sign of growth isn’t knowing exactly where you’re going.

It’s realizing something you’ve been living with no longer fits.

Pay attention to that.

There may be more wisdom in that feeling than you realize.

This is part of the conversation we’re having this week around Becoming.

09/04/2026

Hello September- this month we focus on Becoming

There are seasons in life when we feel like we know exactly who we are. We know where we belong, what our role is, what matters to us and maybe even where we're headed. And then life changes. Sometimes it happens because of something big, and sometimes we simply wake up one day and realize that the....

08/25/2026

What if the closure you’re waiting for isn’t coming?

Not because you’re meant to stay stuck.

Because maybe you don’t need another answer to finally let go. This Full Moon is asking us to consider something deeper…

08/25/2026

THE FULL MOON IS ASKING A DIFFERENT QUESTION

We are entering a powerful Full Moon in Pisces, and this one arrives with a partial lunar eclipse.

Full moons are often associated with release, and yes, there may be something you're being asked to let go of.

Yet I think the deeper invitation is this: What if you don't need one more answer before you allow yourself to move on?

Sometimes we stay attached to something because we're still trying to understand it.

Why did it happen?

Why did they do that?

Why didn't it work out?

What was I supposed to learn?

What if I made the wrong choice?

And we tell ourselves that once we finally understand, then we'll be able to let go.

Pisces reminds us that not everything meaningful can be figured out by the mind.

Sometimes your intuition knows before your mind catches up. Sometimes closure doesn't come from getting the missing answer. Sometimes closure is deciding you no longer need it.

So as this full moon illuminates what has been sitting beneath the surface, don't only ask: What do I need to release?

Ask: What am I finally willing to stop trying to understand?

Maybe the peace you've been waiting for isn't hiding inside another answer.

Maybe it begins when you trust yourself enough to put the question down. 🌕✨