08/03/2022
A bartender may be asked to be the “significant other”, the protector of the oppressed, or simply the judge, jury and executioner of the rude, inconsiderate as***le sitting next to their regular customer. At that time, you must remember to relax and take a deep breathe, conduct themself with a little professionalism, and a touch of class… you are after all… in command; and keep in mind that you will probably have to do it again on your next shift.
There was a moment, not that long ago, that a young woman sat next to me at a bar that I frequented often. She seemed pleasant at first and after introducing herself, she ordered lunch. Then it started… she took huge offense because I wasn’t interested in sharing her food with her. She got very upset because I didn’t buy her lunch, and she was almost violent when I refused her invitation to take her home when her uber driver was late. My bartender was kind, attentive and very gracious… stepping in as my “significant other” to save my ass.