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The Dating Advisory

The Dating Advisory helps ambitious men turn knowledge into action.

We mix mindset coaching, communication strategies, and real-world practice, so you know how to confidently approach women, create instant connections, and transform your dating life. Expert Dating and Relationship Coach Julia Malakiman, helps singles and couples find solutions to their love problems. Whether you're frustrated with the dating scene or finding it hard to live with your partner, Juli

a will get you clear, so you're thinking, feeling, and acting in a way that serves you. Julia's hands-on, completely personalized approach will have you not only learning the skills and knowledge needed to change your life, but also apply it. For Dating Coaching this means exposing you to live situations that hone your communications skills to help you master the art of dating. Once you've found the love of your life, you will be coached on how to keep the relationship a thriving long term success.

03/08/2026

One of the guys, Carlos, who came to my last workshop shared this after attending.

We focused on how to talk to women in a way that feels authentic, relaxed, and actually enjoyable,
instead of overthinking every word.

Because great conversations don’t come from pickup lines or rehearsing what to say...

They come from learning how to show up differently.

If you want to practice this in a real-world environment with coaching and feedback, join one of the upcoming workshops.

Click the link in my bio to register.

02/23/2026

DAY 2 of tabling at the HUB! Do you guys know I also play at the hub and had to control myself from jumping on the court while the pickleball tournament was happening all around me these two days !?

It was brutal I know. BUT getting to speak with so many cool people and giving prizes away was worth it!

Thanks to everyone who came up to my booth and got to learn more about The Dating Advisory, and got their dating and confidence questions answered 😊

And if you couldn’t make it out, shoot me a message and we can always chat.

Thanks to everyone who worked so hard to put together
this Lunar New Year Tournament 🏓🥒

02/22/2026

Super fun day today tabling at the HUB Silicon Valley for their Lunar New Year competition !!
Lots of pickleball action and met so many amazing people ! Gave away a sweet give away for the raffle, and helped a ton of folks with dating & confidence questions . I’ll be back TOMORROW from 9-3pm! So come say Hi and visit my table! 😊

02/15/2026

New podcast is out!!!

Check out The Date Worthy Man podcast on Spotify and Apple Music.

Check the latest episode on Why Valentines Day Triggers you!

02/14/2026

Catch the full clip here:
https://www.ktvu.com/video/fmc-1sqp5616rkvf0zdw

02/08/2026

Want to practice your social skills with women?

This skill is necessary for any logical guy who has a hard time with the initial approach.

If you feel like you see women around you all the time, but can't seem to find the right words to initiate, this event is for you.

We're going to be LIVE IN-PERSON in San Jose on Feb 14th from 3-5PM.

You will build the #1 skill that most men haven't mastered and it's going to change your dating life in the Bay Area.

Meaning more *good* connections, more dates, more fun.

This event is where we learn how to do that.

And the best part, you're going to actually practice your approach LIVE.

This event is not theory. It's going to be real practice.

With a coach in a live, supportive environment.

To join, send me a DM or use the link in my bio.

See you there!

Julia

02/07/2026

We begin DAY 1 of the Valentine's Dating Intensive on Monday Feb 9th at 12PM PST!
(FREE EVENT) link in comments

01/23/2026

If you’re waiting to feel confident before you take action…
you’ll be waiting forever.

Progress comes from knowing:
• what resistance will show up
• how your mind tries to protect you
• and how to move anyway without fighting yourself

This is what Sam learned through coaching:
not how to eliminate discomfort, but how to navigate it with a plan.

Confidence is built after action, not before.

If you want a plan to go after your dating goals in 2026, shoot me a DM.

We'll get started right here.

01/22/2026

Let's goooooo.
Join both of these events by clicking the link in my BIO.

Don't let social anxiety hold you back from meeting amazing Bay Area women.

01/21/2026

If dating makes you overthink… hesitate… or freeze....you’re not broken.

A lot of thoughtful, intelligent men struggle with dating not because they “don’t know what to say,” but because anxiety kicks in and pulls them out of the moment.

This Valentine’s Week, I’m hosting a 5-day Dating Intensive for Bay Area men who want to stop overthinking and start showing up with real confidence without lines, tricks, or pretending to be someone they’re not.

We’ll work on:

• staying grounded in conversations
• initiating naturally (even when nervous)
• handling rejection without spiraling
• building confidence through action not theory

This is about learning how to be present with women, and with yourself, in real life.

Small group. Real practice. Lasting confidence.

If this resonates, comment “Valentine” or DM me for details. ❤️

11/25/2025

Join us tomorrow for a special thanksgiving event in San Jose! If you want to grow your confidence with women (in-person), THIS is the place to do it! (link in comments)

10/21/2025

Day 2 takeaway: Most men don’t talk differently to women because they’re “shy”… they talk differently because they’ve been conditioned to assign more value to “hotter” women.

So the perceived rejection feels bigger.

Result? Pressure spikes. You overthink. You freeze.

Here’s the reframe: Attraction ≠ authority. Two humans, same worth.
When you stop worshipping the image, conversation gets easy again.

👇 Tell me in the comments: Where does this show up for you? Do you notice you judge women differently and how does that affect your conversational skills?

📩 Want the Day 2 replay? DM me “REPLAY” and I’ll send it.

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San Jose, CA
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Opening Hours

Monday	9am - 7pm
Tuesday	9am - 7pm
Wednesday	9am - 7pm
Thursday	9am - 7pm
Friday	9am - 7pm
Saturday	9am - 7pm
Sunday	9am - 7pm

Telephone

+14086450597

Website

https://thedatingadvisory.com/

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