Magnetic Feminine

Situationships and the “Special But Not Chosen” Archetype in love ♥️🌹

The first step in calling in your KING is being embodied in your mature feminine enough to attract him and receive him.

The mature masculine's deepest desire is to protect the feminine and serve her heart. Her happiness is his happiness. I've always believed, "God loved women so much, God created men." Because the masculine is truly here to serve the feminine, if only she can be conscious enough to receive him, surrendered enough in her own heart and body to allow his love to pe*****te her...

But before doing the real inner work, we are often entering relationships from our wounded inner little girl who wants to continually project on him the "perpetrator"; which is how she likely first came to experience the masculine energy, something that is not safe, that she must either defy or 'submit to' and lose all of her power.

Surrender is not submission, surrender requires a deep opening within a woman's body and heart, a deep trust of the masculine, true surrender to the masculine allows a woman to sigh with relief because she finally has the safety, protection, support that she has been longing for her whole life but often unconsciously pushing away.

Looking for support in your love life to call in your King? Send me a DM and we can schedule a complimentary love strategy session. xo

Attracting a masculine energy partner who doesn’t need saving, who is aligned in his purpose, who doesn’t have money issues, will require you to see your value outside of your “doing”…

All of the doing energy ==> helping him with his money issues, helping him find a job, helping him overcome addictions, helping him with his mental health issues — is care disguised as CONTROL.

Covert control which says, I will give to you, so you see my value, I will give so you feel dependent on me and never leave.

And it’s not your fault, you learned it when you were a child. That you could affect how others react to you (covert control) by people-pleasing and abandoning your own needs. It was an innocent attempt to secure love as a child but now the pattern is no longer serving you.

To attract a partner who is aligned in his healthy masculine energy, will require you to begin to embody your worth connected to your feminine essence…

Because the truth is a healthy masculine man will NOT need you, he will desire you, but he will have his life figured out for himself. And if you are not embodied in your feminine worth, you will revert to old patterns of over-functioning and over-giving with masculine men which will depolarize the relationship and very quickly have him pull away.

I have helped many women overcome these self sabotaging patterns and step into a new level in her love life… and it makes me SO HAPPY when women push through these fears and attract a new caliber of man in their life. Are you next?

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In this video I talk about the 5 stages a man 🙋🏻‍♂️must go through to FALL IN LOVE… 🥰⁣
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Drop me comments below if this resonated for you? Do you often move through stage 1 too quickly? Do you frequently get stuck in Stage 3? Do you find yourself always looking for “perfection? Or get scared when a man starts doubting and push him away? Does your anxiety get the best of you in Stage 4? Let me know what has been present for you in your relationships… ⁣
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If you liked this video and yet find yourself struggling in your love life year after year and are READY for support and would like to work with me personally, I invite you to schedule a complimentary discovery call at the link in my bio.⁣
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xo⁣
Vanessa

How do men fall in love? Hi babes, In this video I talk about the 5 stages a man must go through to FALL IN LOVE… 🙋🏻‍♂️🥰 Drop me comments below if this resonated for you? Do you ofte...

❌Do you feel quietly embarrassed about needing help in your love life?⁣
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❌Do you tell yourself - “I SHOULD be able to figure this out myself?” but time keeps passing and nothing changes? You get the same old results as you get older?⁣
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❌Are you afraid of what others will think if they find out you’re doing love coaching?⁣
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❌And are you letting all of those fears, limiting beliefs, and low vibrational thoughts STOP you from claiming the epic love (and ahem big D) of your dreams?⁣
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Well girl, it’s time to stop waiting… ⁣
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✅It’s time to get radical f*KING real about what you really want —> (KING ENERGY) and stop wasting your time with all of those men that just play games and can’t meet your needs… ⁣
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THE COSMIC MIRROR doesn’t lie…. if you haven’t done the work, the men you attract will mirror it back.⁣
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✅It’s time to get support and commit to the INNER WORK, to stop calling in men that are afraid to go in DEEP with you, men that have NOT done enough of their own inner work to HOLD all of you, to stop the patterns of self-sabotage and to finally LET LOVE IN.⁣
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You want to feel ADORED.⁣
You want to have a man that can FINALLY meet your love language needs…⁣
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OMG does that ever feel so FUUCKING GOOD. I never thought I would find a man that loves to cuddle as much as me. To think once I would cry myself to sleep believing it wasn’t possible… ⁣
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I have had to admit with humility time and time again that I needed help, but rather than try to pretend that I could just keep doing the same things over and over and expect different results, I got help…. And guess what? not only my love life transformed and I called in my KING, but my whole life transformed… I found my VOICE, my power, my purpose… ⁣
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So babe, are you ready to be ALL IN on your love life? Let’s roll God’s loaded dice and call in some KING ENERGY for you.

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Are you pushing away quality men? Find out if you have been dating from wounded feminine energy and what you can do to turn it around.

Signs of Wounded Feminine Energy When Dating Hi beautiful... Have you been pushing away quality masculine men? Check out my Single to Soulmate Blueprint here 👇🏼 https://magnetic-feminine.mykajabi.com/pl...

The love that was absent in our childhood and how we learned to cope with that absent love is often still driving our relationships well into our adult years if we have never done any inner work to heal it…⁣⁣⁣
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If you had an absent father whose love you were always searching or longing for- ⁣⁣⁣
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the pattern that shows up in relationships is falling for emotionally unavailable men whose love is absent- ⁣⁣⁣
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It is only when she attracts a man who can’t give her the love she deeply desires that this deep imprint of what love once looked like is activated, and only then can she feel "in love," feel intense desire---->⁣
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Because she is reliving her intense childhood desire — as an unconscious attempt to repair the past… the unconscious is always moving us towards a state of wholeness, so what is not healed within, will get acted out over and over again until we make an inner shift.⁣⁣⁣
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This leads many women to be the emotional pursuers in relationships with men, to chase love, over-function and over-give to a guy (all masculine energy) because they always have to earn that absent love their inner little girl was chasing.⁣⁣⁣
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They don't know how to even begin allowing love to come to them (feminine energy). Perhaps she understands the concept of leaning back intellectually but despite “knowing” what to do her nervous system is constantly on overdrive in relationship.⁣⁣⁣
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You might feel hopeful and at the same time maybe a little lost, like, "Ok, now what do I do? How do I turn this around?"⁣⁣⁣
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I've spent a lifetime studying how the human heart heals and unfortunately you can’t make a significant change from reading an IG meme, because healing happens when you shift within…⁣⁣⁣
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If you are ready to receive safe, deeply supportive help that transforms you to your core and really works to turn your love life around, fast, book a free discovery call with me team and let’s unpack what is present for you.

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Did you know that you can’t have passion and intimacy without conflict?⁣

If there’s never conflict, then you likely aren’t letting the other person close enough to experience real intimacy.
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And yet I hear many women carry the belief, “a man shouldn’t see me at my worst…”. ⁣
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Or I ask a woman what does feminine energy mean to her, and she says something like, “being warm, soft, inviting…”⁣
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And while that is true, it is only ONE aspect of the feminine…⁣
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The truth is that the feminine energy is related to our ability to feel ALL emotions…⁣
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Most men tell women that they want them to be easy going and not to complain. Yet time and time again, a woman comes to me where she did just that before she started working with me and the man she loved still left her, even though she gave him exactly what he told her he wanted.⁣
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Most men don’t know the unconscious triggers within themselves that create a deep desire for a woman…⁣
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And being a pleasing, self-sacrificing woman is not one of them…⁣
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Myths you’ve been led to believe about men:⁣
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✅1 Be pleasing and accommodating… find out what he likes and be or do that… ⁣
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✅2 Don’t get angry, be positive and upbeat all of the time…⁣
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✅3 Surprise him with gifts, give back equally…⁣
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And this leads men to take these type of women for GRANTED… and he gets BORED with her…⁣
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A man doesn’t want a woman who is going to put him before herself… (only a narcissistic man will stay with a self-sacrificing woman for the long term…)⁣
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A HIGH VALUE man desires a woman who:⁣
✨1 knows how to put her life first and creates an irresistible TENSION where he can’t seem to get enough of her…⁣
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✨2 She doesn’t hide her emotions from him...she is deeply connected to her own heart so she can express all of her emotional world in a high value way⁣
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✨3 She always gives back a little less than she receives, knowing if she gives back equally she is innocently in masculine energy and will kill the polarity...⁣
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Are you ready to dive into understanding the critical emotions men need to experience to fall in love…? Learn how to share your feelings with a man so that he’ll beg you to tell him more…?⁣
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Check out my SINGLE to SOULMATE BLUEPRINT now and book a free LOVE STRATEGY session with my team❣️

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The most common love blocks that stop women from consistently being in high vibe love manifesting energy to bring in a top 1% man….⁣⁣
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✏️She is primarily in the energy of doubt and lack. (The kind of man I want doesn’t exist… If he does exist, I don’t really believe he would choose me.)⁣
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✏️Her core beliefs about men are still getting mirrored back to her in the quality of men she attracts. (Men always play hot&cold game, men only want s*x, men only want to date much younger women, Men these days don’t put in effort, etc.⁣)⁣
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✏️She is still attached to an ex. She doesn’t REALLY believe she can find a level of connection & love as good as what she experienced with her ex. She is afraid to put herself out there and open herself up to meeting new men.⁣⁣
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✏️Feelings of low confidence + low self worth predominate: if she really got honest with herself, she doesn’t feel she is enough for the kind of man her heart deeply desires, not pretty enough, her body isn’t good enough, etc. She obsesses about her outer appearance as a way to cover up the unmet feelings within.⁣⁣
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✏️She lacks emotional fitness and still gets highly triggered by men & dating situations. ⁣⁣
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✏️She fears that love will bring pain, loss, disappointment or entrapment. Her unmet subconscious fears end up sabotaging her chances with quality men.⁣⁣
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✏️She goes into over-analyzing, over thinking and obsessively trying to control her love life, which causes her to be totally in her head and NOT in the attractive, confident authentic, feminine, embodied, intuitive, trusting, leaned-back energy that would make a top 1% man want her.⁣⁣
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💎How do you know you are close to manifesting your love vision? ⁣⁣
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💎You know absolutely that it is coming, your faith muscle is strong.⁣⁣
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💎The men you start attracting in your life are VERY close to everything on your manifestation list. ⁣⁣
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Check out my SINGLE TO SOULMATE BLUEPRINT here: 👇🏼

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What is high value vulnerability?

We often think vulnerability means the liberty to express how we feel when we feel it …(and mostly upset/negative/fearful feelings).

A woman tells a man how she feels, thinking she can use her feelings to barter for changed behavior.

She disconnects from her own heart, and resorts to controlling behavior with a man in an attempt to regain a sense of emotional safety…

A man doesn’t call when he said he would…

She uses this as an opportunity to let him know how inconsiderate he is and how hurt and ignored she feels… underneath it she has bypassed her own heart, the feelings that the event has triggered within herself have not been met (where she feels unseen, abandoned, forgotten…)

and so she lashes out… makes him the bad guy.

When you lead with fear you will start employing strategies to control how a relationship unfolds and what kind of outcome you should get…

This doesn’t lead to emotional connection…

This doesn’t lead to a man stepping up for this woman desiring to do more for her…

Instead he pulls away, he withdraws…

True vulnerability is being connected to how you *really* feel in the moment and to make space for yourself to be fully present with your emotions.

In this space of deep acceptance for yourself, a woman begins to learn to let go of the outcome, she surrenders things having to be “different” and trying to control a man to conform to her needs as a way to avoid being present with her uncomfortable feelings…

A feminine woman is at home in her own heart… she releases the outcome, she is curious, soft, yielding, and like water she adjusts. She knows there is a flow to life and she can surrender and trust.

If you haven’t done the inner work, the unhealed parts of you will keep coming up in relationship and sabotaging your chances with men… the unhealed parts of you that seek control to find safety.

If you are ready to radically transform your love life, and stop the sabotaging behaviors that have been preventing you from experiencing the safety and trust of real love in relationship, then it’s time to get support.

I can help you.

See link below to book a free discovery call.

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