11/27/2021
My Student's Profound Reflection On Falseness
I wanted to share a piece of writing that a high-school senior produced for me last week.
In formulating questions based on my students' study of literature, history, and other subjects, I often ask them to share their own thoughts in an open-ended fashion.
The student I speak of is presently studying Hamlet in her English class, and I am guiding her through it.
One of many profound themes in the play is falseness—the tendency to present a false face to the world, as several of the characters in the play do.
My student's reflection follows.
Here is the question (and you thought "To be or not to be?" was the question!):
(5) Reflect on falseness. Let your thoughts range as widely as you please, but consider touching on such questions as: How destructive of relationships is falseness? Is falseness damaging to one's own soul? How widespread is falseness in society in general, or in communities to which you belong? How does one avoid being false? How does it affect one if others are false to him or her?
Here is my student's response:
"Falseness begins at the surface level, but, in some context, it eventually engraves itself into somewhat of a truth. If one constantly lies about oneself to others, it can become real. If one acts falsely, those actions will become habits. The foundation of relationships is truthfulness and trust. If there is falseness, the entire relationship will collapse. Falseness in communities and in general leads to misunderstanding, chaos, and destruction of each other rather than our real enemies. To avoid falseness, one must be true to themselves first. Hold your own viewpoints and stand by them unless proven wrong. Don’t try to fit in with the current politically correct sentiments. If others are false to someone, that person will lose trust. It’ll be hard to believe new people they meet. If this is the case for many, no one can trust anyone. Society would become an “every man for themselves” system, which will inevitably lead to self-destruction and collapse."
What an insightful, grounded young woman! Gives you hope.
Jon