05/25/2026
Excited to share that earlier this month, I was featured in HuffPost () discussing the ‘Kivin Method’ and how different approaches to intimacy can create a more connected and pleasurable experience for couples.
I’m incredibly appreciative to HuffPost for including my perspective in this conversation. I always value opportunities like this that help bring more open, informed, and shame-free discussions around intimacy into the mainstream.
Swipe through for a quick breakdown of the technique, then head to the full HuffPost article with the link in my story!
05/20/2026
I get this a lot, “we got in a huge fight because he won’t post about me?”…
To him, it may feel like “it’s just social media, who cares” without realizing it goes much deeper for you. This isn’t about making him wrong - it’s about noticing a need that hasn’t been clearly expressed.
So instead of assuming he knows why it matters to you, tell him! What does being “posted” actually represent to you? Communicate that directly, without blame or pressure and listen to what makes him anxious/uncomfortable/not interested in posting about you....
Because it’s not about the post really. It’s about feeling seen, valued, special and secure in your relationship.
05/15/2026
“Should we break up?” often comes after a period of feeling disconnected... and disconnection doesn’t always mean ‘it’s over’. Sometimes it can mean something deeper needs to be explored.
Before leaving, ask yourself:
- Have I really given this the space it needs to be understood?
- Have we had the uncomfortable conversations?
- Am I being fully honest with myself and my partner about my needs?
- Am I open to growing and meeting each other in a more open and less defended way?
If you’re stuck between staying and leaving, you’re not alone. Many people get stuck for years in the ‘I’m staying - I’m going’ waves.
Keep doing the work and the right next steps will show themselves to you.
05/20/2026
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